FabSwingers.com forum: Hotlist

By *arkhelga OP Couple
over a year ago

leeds

When you put awesome people on your hotlist do you let them know?We have,we do,its the thrill of it allM&HXxx

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh & London

I use my Hotlist to remind me of people I want to message when I have time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worth saying who knows may be on each others and not know x

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By *assion and MoreCouple
over a year ago

Here and There, Monaghan

"I use my Hotlist to remind me of people I want to message when I have time."

Have time lol

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By *ngels of Sin 69Couple
over a year ago

High Wycombe

"I use my Hotlist to remind me of people I want to message when I have time."

This is us too

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh & London

"I use my Hotlist to remind me of people I want to message when I have time.

This is us too

I think my post is tending in this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You just made mine

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I do not usually tell them as like it to be my little secret.x

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh & London

"I do not usually tell them as like it to be my little secret.x"

Tease

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

"I use my Hotlist to remind me of people I want to message when I have time.

This is us too

Yep and as a priority perv list

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Ours are secret but they are people we have chatted to in the hope to meet some day

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over a year ago

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I use my hotlist to keep track of people I like the look of, but who I'm not yet sure might want to hear from me. If I was more sure I met their criteria, I'd message them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On our couples profile we add to our hotlist to indicate to each other that they may be suitable people for us but we need each other's views and opinions before making contact.

On my hotwife profile I haven't got anyone in there currently.

Her x

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By *xXAnonCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Don't think we are on anyone's hotlist unless not knowing about it x

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By *exandthesuburbans83Couple
over a year ago

EASTBOURNE

We use it as a way of remembering couples or girls we like if we are looking alone at the time but want to check out as a couple and possibly message.

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

I have a few on mine, they dont know though.

Doubt I'm on anyones

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By *xXAnonCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"On our couples profile we add to our hotlist to indicate to each other that they may be suitable people for us but we need each other's views and opinions before making contact.

On my hotwife profile I haven't got anyone in there currently.

Her x"

Good idea really might have to steal it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a few on mine, they dont know though.

Doubt I'm on anyones "

Your on mine now

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By *exandthesuburbans83Couple
over a year ago

EASTBOURNE

"I have a few on mine, they dont know though.

Doubt I'm on anyones "

Well we would add you if you like couples and were nearer. Lovely pictures and profile x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On our couples profile we add to our hotlist to indicate to each other that they may be suitable people for us but we need each other's views and opinions before making contact.

On my hotwife profile I haven't got anyone in there currently.

Her x

Good idea really might have to steal it x"

Go for it

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

"I have a few on mine, they dont know though.

Doubt I'm on anyones

Your on mine now

That's sweet x

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

"I have a few on mine, they dont know though.

Doubt I'm on anyones

Well we would add you if you like couples and were nearer. Lovely pictures and profile x "

Ah thank you, that's lovely of you to say

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By *rikki1967ukMan
over a year ago

peterborough

"I have a few on mine, they dont know though.

Doubt I'm on anyones "

Your on mine now.grest looking cleavage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never really thought about using the hotlist and no one has suggested we are on theirs x

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I've put you on my hotlist.... however I can't tell you because you blocked my age ..or my sex ..or something

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By *igboobstCouple
over a year ago

barrow

Normally people we fancy but will never meet, such as people miles away or are not looking for us, it's just a perve list lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah then I usually get blocked

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By *enuinecpl101Couple
over a year ago

Co armagh

"I do not usually tell them as like it to be my little secret.x"

Yes this right here

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By *P994Man
over a year ago

Travelling

I use the hotlist as a bucket list of who I’d like to meet. Sadly not in their league normally so just enjoy their photos instead but if I’m on anyone’s would gladly take a message from them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No just perv in private

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh & London

"No just perv in private

And what a delicious pleasure that is to share

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

That you creep on them daily

no what if they rejected you

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By *ilk_TrayMan
over a year ago

Hampshire

I’ve got so many people on my hotlist but I wouldn’t tell them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, mine is top secret, for perving. Got about 10 gorgeous lads on there, and they'll never know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I've told anyone that I've put them on my hitlist (not a typo there

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Although there is one person on mine in this post...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got a few on mine but not told them i doubt i'm on anyones though lol

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By *ub_n_wifeCouple
over a year ago

Spilsby

We’ll tell people if they’ve put a status out to ask who’s list they’re on but other than that we’ll just add people to it that catch are eye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive got a good few on mine. I usually like to let them know.

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By *ub_n_wifeCouple
over a year ago

Spilsby

"We’ll tell people if they’ve put a status out to ask who’s list they’re on but other than that we’ll just add people to it that catch are eye."

‘Our’ eye

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By *hared_GFCouple
over a year ago

Andover

Our hotlist is mainly people we like the look of that realistically we are never going to meet. They don't know and it would feel a bit stalkery to tell them!

No idea if we are on anyone's list, no one has ever told us otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't tell anyone on my list. I like to perve in private

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't tell anyone on my list. I like to perve in private

Nothing wrong with that x

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By *atford69Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Pass

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"When you put awesome people on your hotlist do you let them know?We have,we do,its the thrill of it allM&HXxx"

Nah!

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By *ixedDevilMan
over a year ago

Bootyville

"I don't tell anyone on my list. I like to perve in private

^^^

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By *aveyIOM1970Man
over a year ago

douglas

"Don't think we are on anyone's hotlist unless not knowing about it x"

On mine now

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Our hotlist is mostly people I like the look of but don't intend on contacting as they are either too far away or out of our league. If they message us and we start chatting I do tend to tell them.

Mrs x

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London&Dublin

Whenever I put private notes in a profile, I will add it into my hotlist.

It's a mixture of things including profiles which I "suspect" to be fake or timewaster, but not yet confirmed.

It's because you can search your "hotlist" but you can't search your "private notes".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never made one or know if we are on any lol

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

"Don't think we are on anyone's hotlist unless not knowing about it x"

Miss L, with that profile pic I bet you're on more than a few Hotlists! Fantastic.

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By *ikiLoverMan
over a year ago

Brighton

Nope, I figure they're probably inundated with messages and ultimately I've hotlisted them cos I wanna see their posts, not cos I expect them to like me. Would love it if they did, but a bit hopeful maybe!

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

I use it as another perving tool so don't tell them.

There is at least one in this thread on my hotlist however.

I can't say who, I'm only human after all.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I don't let them know i keep it to myself but when they msg me my answer is always yes

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By *unCpl1003Couple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Just use it too perv lol

I wonder if we are on anyone’s

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By *aughtyDuetCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

We use it as a potential meet list. Also, I use it for hot pictures that turn me on as I masturbate.

Lady N

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We don't really tell anybody because I don't think most of them would be interested. There are some who we have told we like them a lot but haven't specifically mentioned the hot list.

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By *hefireinsideWoman
over a year ago

city

My hotlist is huge.. mainly people I only fantasise about connecting with as they're usually far away from me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No don’t let them know, never really thought about doing so

We mainly use it for people we are interested in so we don’t lose them in the masses before making contact.

Then again there are some on there that are just because we enjoy seeing the pictures/videos they upload, most of them are so far away just would not be practical to arrange anything. But nothing wrong with a little window shopping right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you put awesome people on your hotlist do you let them know?We have,we do,its the thrill of it allM&HXxx"

I’ve let some know if they come across like they’d welcome knowing that information but others I imagine get 100s of messages a day and my trivial wee message would be a waste of time I think

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By *heshireguy69Man
over a year ago

saddleworth

I don’t tell them they’re on my hotlist as I’d doubt they’d be that interested. I use it to store people and profiles I like perving over as I play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ours are secret but they are people we have chatted to in the hope to meet some day "
this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a few on mine, they dont know though.

Doubt I'm on anyones "

You’re wrong

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By *arkhelga OP Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Lifes too short not to just send a simple message,if possible,to the people/person you've put onto your HOTLIST XXX

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I’ve been told I’m on a few hot lists but as for my own it just has social profiles on. Best list to be on is the friends list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don’t say, I just perv

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By *rcadian110Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

We use it almost as a wishful thinking list lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I use my Hotlist to remind me of people I want to message when I have time."

Exactly how I use it... and once messaged, I remove them. If anything come of it... great!

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I don’t call my hotlist. I’ll call mine A if only list

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By *ane dickCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

Don't think we are on anyone's

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

Dont have one. i think i had two on there when we joined and they left sooo noone since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use it now and again but not very often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I use my Hotlist to remind me of people I want to message when I have time."

That's what I tell myself too!

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By *arkhelga OP Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Ok so who's added someone from this thread to there hotlist Xx

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Ok so who's added someone from this thread to there hotlist Xx"

Guilty as charged.

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By *osineCouple
over a year ago

Weston-Super-Mare

I forget its there

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

There is a grand total of 0 on my hotlist.

If I like a profile I tend to message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t think we’ve made it on to anyone’s hotlist

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham, North Yorkshire and can travel

We add people into ours that catch our eye. We may message them one day in the future.

It doesn't give us a thrill though. It's just a useful site tool to us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use mine to remind myself to thank people for Fabs etc. , at a later time if I am busy. I like to say thank you individually to each one as I don’t get many so I like to put a little effort in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have seen this but never used it. Is it something you share or that’s visible to others?

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By *empseyANDRedheadCouple
over a year ago

warwick

It would be nice to perv back if we knew we were on someone’s hot list

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By *incsladyandscotsmanCouple
over a year ago

North fife

We use it to remind us of who we may like to meet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok so who's added someone from this thread to there hotlist Xx"

Erm, guilty haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It would be nice to perv back if we knew we were on someone’s hot list

Perv away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do wonder if we make it on to anyone’s hot list

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

"We do wonder if we make it on to anyone’s hot list "

Same. We're always curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always like to ask people before i put them on my hotlist. I don't know how many people's hotlists im on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to let people know if they're on my hotlist. Plus, it's always nice to know if I'm on someone elses too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I don’t say, I just perv "

Likewise

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By *issIrishCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I have a few people on my hotlist I need to meet

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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago

Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me

Can't wait till were allowed to mix again I have a few on mine x

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By *orthampton jamesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

oh to be on someone's hotlist

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By *ouple 0073Couple
over a year ago

donegal

Some now.. And some don't

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By *ouple 0073Couple
over a year ago

donegal

Some know.. And some don't..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We use it as a potential meet list. Also, I use it for hot pictures that turn me on as I masturbate.

Lady N

you're on my hotlist!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We use it as a potential meet list. Also, I use it for hot pictures that turn me on as I masturbate.

Lady N

you're on my hotlist!"
And you're on mine

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By *aenMan
over a year ago

Here and There

Some do, some don’t. I often use it to bookmark a profile I find attractive if I’ve spotted it but haven’t time to send a message.

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By *wistedbambi69Woman
over a year ago

Somerset

"I do not usually tell them as like it to be my little secret.x"

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't wait till were allowed to mix again I have a few on mine x"

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

We use the hotlist to follow people who put out interesting content despite there being no intent or likelihood of a meet happening.

We also use it to make note of people we would like to talk to at some point, but we never message them just to tell them they are on our hotlist. At that point you may as well just ask for a meet.

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By *itom18Man
over a year ago

Wigan

"I use the hotlist as a bucket list of who I’d like to meet. Sadly not in their league normally so just enjoy their photos instead but if I’m on anyone’s would gladly take a message from them

Ur on my hotlist

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By *arkhelga OP Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Loving the hotlist Xxx

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By *peak and SpellCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich, SE LONDON

We are adding potential contacts for post-covid fun.

So list is growing rather quickly.

We do a cull periodically to make it more manageable.

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By *peak and SpellCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich, SE LONDON

...oh, and we do occasionally let them know they have been added, if there has been good message rapport.

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