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By *exandthesuburbans83 OP   Couple
over a year ago

EASTBOURNE

so my wife and I have been on here about 18 months. We have chatted to lovely people and had a couple of meets (which were incredible).

As we are new ish, we were and maybe still are, working out what we like in reality vs fantasy.

However, what we like may be a bit specific and not sure if there is a name or term for it. Please be kind.

So we love soft swap and mostly its about the girl play and teasing the men and the men joining their partner and soke soft swap going on, mostly just hands. Thats what we have done to date and its been incredible. Nothing special there as such in terms of niche.

However, my wife is quite turned on with me being fully with the woman as part of the situation, but she doesn't want to be fully with the other man. She is happy with just me or the girl pleasuring her fully. She doesn't mind a bit of touching with the other male but nothing more (at this stage). Obviously not many couples may want that as its not balanced but its her kink and preference so for now we just soft swap. She is ok with a 3some but does really like the couple side as likes to be social and flirt and see the action of another couple, just not fully swap on her side. Is this like hotwife in reverse or semi full swap lol. Do cuck or hotwife couples like couples or just a male joining them? Just trying to find out where we fit or if there is a term. Dont get us wrong, we are perfectly happy soft swapping only or same partner as we love it, but we would also like to explore my wife's idea at some point but it seems hard to put a name to. However, it mostly seems to be blokes that like watching their wife have sex, not a wife that likes watching their husband have sex.

Any help or anyone else in similar situation to this as we would be interested to know or do any couples like the sound of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuckquean is the word you're looking for

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By *exandthesuburbans83 OP   Couple
over a year ago

EASTBOURNE


"Cuckquean is the word you're looking for"

Ah ok. Great to know. Thanks

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Or hot husband if she is not there at all. Good luck, it's not easy to find.

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By *exandthesuburbans83 OP   Couple
over a year ago

EASTBOURNE


"Or hot husband if she is not there at all. Good luck, it's not easy to find. "

Cheers. She would be there for sure as she likes to be a part of it.

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By *hared_GFCouple
over a year ago

Andover

Your situation is exactly what we look for so it's good to know we aren't on a completely fruitless journey!

I (him) am not interested in having full sex with the woman of a couple, but I get really turned on with seeing my GF as the centre of attention. Our ideal scenario would be her entertaining me and both of the other couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same scenario I absolutely like. I'm a cuckquean also a sub. Its difficult to find that elusive cuckcake but they are out there.

Its a shame that the preference is not listed on the likes such as the cuckold is for the guys.

Hope the fantasy becomes a reality for you both once we can all start meeting again

Happy cuckqeaning

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By *exandthesuburbans83 OP   Couple
over a year ago

EASTBOURNE

Thanks both for your messages as its good to know we are not alone but obviously not the majority. And yes there should be a tick box for it on the options.

HornyAF if you are ever near, drop us a message as maybe we could help lol.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

There have been various forum posts about this. If you want to find out who is interested in this dynamic and what they say about it do a search for "cuckcake" "cuck cake" "hothusband" "hot husband" and "quean". You'll find quite a few threads.

It's not easy getting this to happen with a single woman. What you have described may work if you find a cuckold or stag/vixen couple. That way you being with the wife meets both your desires and theirs. We want an experience with a cuckcake and we have had approaches from couples who have suggested they would be interested in that approach to it.

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By *exandthesuburbans83 OP   Couple
over a year ago

EASTBOURNE


"There have been various forum posts about this. If you want to find out who is interested in this dynamic and what they say about it do a search for "cuckcake" "cuck cake" "hothusband" "hot husband" and "quean". You'll find quite a few threads.

It's not easy getting this to happen with a single woman. What you have described may work if you find a cuckold or stag/vixen couple. That way you being with the wife meets both your desires and theirs. We want an experience with a cuckcake and we have had approaches from couples who have suggested they would be interested in that approach to it. "

Great, thanks for the advice and insight. Really appreciate it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh being a high red, I switched off after reading the 1st two lines. Far too much information for me to take in and delegate.

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