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By *iscreet-is-paramount OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere only we know.

Just wondering if there are many that have been here since the start. I've been on and off for just about the time the site kicked off. Does anyone agree that it isn't like it used to be or is it my age and tinted glasses ?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

3 and a half years now for me. It has certainly been a great adventure.

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

Over 10 years. I think it has changed more from a site for swingers to a sex site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything changes through time and this site is no exception. It was very quiet when I was first on it possibly 10 years or so.

It's much more a social site for many now and that's not a bad thing. If we all use this site for our needs then we can't go far wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Less than three months.

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By *iscreet-is-paramount OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere only we know.

Well, I think it was much better 10 yr ago, I think it's turned into a social site.rather than what it was initially intended. I can't see anyone that I knew from ten yr ago that's still here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On and off for 6 years

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Joined in September 2013

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By *ony456Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Only been on this site about a month. Liking it.

Switched from another site, which tended to be full of fake profiles, that redirected you to a money making site. Was a member for over 10yrs but reluctantly had to get out.

This site seem to be better. Just got to get established. Looking forward to the challenge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Around 5 yrs

Certainly changed

Blocked more in last 12months then i ever needed too. Sad

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

I've been here almost since the site first launched - and yes, some things have changed over the years, but then everything does, and should, to survive...

....Fab and one other site I'm a member at are still going strong - but others have either come and gone, or are now a shadow of their former selves...

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By *aulupforitMan
over a year ago

Corbridge

To long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8 years for me,longer than i would've thought but there ya go...when life gives you lemons....

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I joined in Dec 2012.

Fabs provide a platform for Sultry Succubus to exist and completes me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 months .... no mail ...lol

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

6 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 and half years

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By *ornyforit5Man
over a year ago

On the Beach

About 2 years. Went off completely for a while while in a relationship which did not work out so back now!!

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By *isser36Man
over a year ago

fylde Coast

9 yrs on the same profile...although not always active.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 8 years, on and off.

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By *exandthesuburbans83Couple
over a year ago

EASTBOURNE

About 18 months. Enjoyed it so far and met some lovely people.

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By *goodlengthMan
over a year ago

near Trowbridge

7 years. The site has evolved significantly over the time, not necessarily for the better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was on for over a year, then left in July. Came back again in September...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not from the start,no,but certainly well in excess of 10 years

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

About 8 years

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Wolves

1st verification was 2010, been around scene since about 1988/89

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By *rcanaWoman
over a year ago

Weymouth

On and off since 2011 .I think it's still a really good site deffo more busy these days and still have moments when I wish I was blind cos I can't believe what I just read and can't unsee it haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been here on and off for about 13 years, i find it quite addictive, though recently it seems to have attracted some weird and twisted people. It is not like it used to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On and off since 2011 .I think it's still a really good site deffo more busy these days and still have moments when I wish I was blind cos I can't believe what I just read and can't unsee it haha"

I like what I just read and wouldnt want to unsee what I have seen lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been here since 20008

And most of the people from then are no longer here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too long if only I’d more meets

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

Mr was on here a couple of years before we hooked up. Our first verification was 2009

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 29/10/20 16:11:05]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on here since about 2010, got our first verification in early 2011.

Certainly seem’s to have been an increase in “time wasters” over the last few years

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Nearly 6 years, we had so much fun in the early years and made some bestie friends along the way

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

Oh god

Since 2010

This is profile number 4 ..

Keep leaving and getting drawn back ..

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Long enough to know better!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been using the site on and off for coming upto 10 years. We have had a couple of different profiles but always seem to come back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on at the start ... spent many years on the site with my then wife, then later with gf and then as a single. On and off as life dictates.

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

We have been on here just over two years now as its good points and bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On and off for nearly 11 years.

Had some amazing times. Wouldn't keep coming back if we hadn't.

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By *outhEastPaulMan
over a year ago

Thames Ditton surrey

Probably about 12 years yes it’s certainly changed but at least unlike some other sites that were brought out by large conglomerates and basically now look to con people into paying high fees to be members Fab has remained loyal to its principles - Although I would also say 11/15 years ago I guess before this and similar sites became so popular there were far less people on them and it tended to mean the vast majority were actually looking to hook up so you could

Meet people or not as may be the case after exchanging few / several messages or other interaction and meet

But as all guys certainly know that’s a much bigger challenge these days But also The Ladies and Couples on here have to put up with so much rubbish it never ceases to amaze me. But unfortunately that seems to be the name of the game these days. With a lot of people just getting their kicks from winding others up - But hey it’s a free world and anyone can do what they want

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By *ilk_TrayMan
over a year ago

Hampshire

On and off since 2011

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

7 years and counting........

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

My first veri was in 2012, so just over eight years.

Has the site changed? I don't think so, not for me at least. I'm still having great chats with people, some lead somewhere, some don't and it has been ever thus.

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By *idnight_Express69Man
over a year ago

Rochdale


"Just wondering if there are many that have been here since the start. I've been on and off for just about the time the site kicked off. Does anyone agree that it isn't like it used to be or is it my age and tinted glasses ?"

“It’s been 84 years” lol

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

Since the start, things change that's the nature of things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been here since July 2013 and it's been an interesting yet fun journey lol

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire


"Just wondering if there are many that have been here since the start. I've been on and off for just about the time the site kicked off. Does anyone agree that it isn't like it used to be or is it my age and tinted glasses ?"

Around 8 years, mostly under a couples profile... no it isn't like it used to be, certainly gone downhill. Most now are fakes, timewasters and pure fantasists that have no genuine intention to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joined in 2009.

I think the site was quite new then?

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By *incsladyandscotsmanCouple
over a year ago

North fife

Three and a half years.... Over a couple of profiles.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I (Luke) joined as a single in about 2013 and also had a couple's account with a regular partner for a while. Hannah joined when we made a couple's profile in early 2019.

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By *igboobstCouple
over a year ago

barrow

About 8 years had some great times with people we have met off here xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In total about 3:4 years on and off

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

.

Joined 8 years ago, I still like it, wouldn't be here if I never.

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By *orenzoVonMatterhornMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

Four years or so. I can't say I've noticed a great difference since then. Although there have been a lot more fake profiles and general idiots appearing on the site since lockdown started

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

13 years. The last 5 together.

Lu

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By *ub_n_wifeCouple
over a year ago

Spilsby

Probably on here around 4ish years on and off with breaks and a baby in between.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 yrs on and off...never had a meet, had 3 socials but I decided not to take them further due to no attraction when I met them , pictures were very deceiving

I don't think I'll ever get a meet due to the fact unlike a lot of guys on here (not all) i won't have sex with anyone for the sake of it, there's got to be an attraction

I'm here to look at the pics and the forum, if I ever got a meet thats a bonus

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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

I (Enn) was on here first in 2008/9 with a previous partner.

Ess had also swung with her ex husband but were both on another site.

When we met 3 years ago and soon discovered we enjoyed Swinging, we set up our current Profile.

Have things changed? Oh god yes.

Finding true Swingers is so hard nowadays. Not just because of Covid but because the Site has become Instashag where young men just want to meet. Offload their balls and brag about it to their mates. All this with no thought to what the couple wants. Suppose it’s the I can have everything instantly by clicking on my phone mentality.

Sad but that’s how it is now. The Block Button is great xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On and off about 6 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joined in 2011 with partner. Back just prior to lockdown ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 + years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nearly 4 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 Months this time and I do believe it has changed significantly since my first venture in 2011 I think it was.

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