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By *reaming of pleasing OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere only we know

Are they a must for you or ok to keep to private for friends or private messaging?

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

I have my face as my profile picture but as a zombie I’m happy I’m fairly unrecognisable (people who know me will recognise me). I am not bothered if face pics aren’t visible (mine are not usually) but I share fairly quickly if I’m chatting.

V x

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By *reaming of pleasing OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere only we know

Agreed, I usually keep them private as I’ve seen people I know on here and don’t really want them making contact haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my face on show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I appreciate one if someone messages me. I like to know who I'm chatting to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have mine on show, I have nothing to hide xx

Looking up now is delightful pPP

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By *reaming of pleasing OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere only we know


"I appreciate one if someone messages me. I like to know who I'm chatting to "

Of course, always in a message, need to know if there’s an attraction don’t you x

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By *allgirthyMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

I’ve nothing to hide and would prefer to know who I’m talking to.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I've nothing to hide either but this site is full of crazy people so I'm very selective in who I choose to share my face pics with

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By *ebaucherouspoetMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Mine are private until I message someone first, or have chatted with someone to the point they're not a total stranger

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By *educerMan
over a year ago

Brentwood

Make one public every now and then, it is almost Halloween

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By *eachesAndCream99Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Cardiff just off the M4

We are happy to provide face pics as part of a chat, but we keep them all private now, after losing control of some pictures previously. And yes I agree, you must have an attraction to warrant taking things further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are happy to provide face pics as part of a chat, but we keep them all private now, after losing control of some pictures previously. And yes I agree, you must have an attraction to warrant taking things further."

This....

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I’m on show .... nothing to hide here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a must if you can send it when asked.

But if your profile is full of cock, no need to send a face at all.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

We happily share once chatting has started.

Has to be both ways though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always send a face pic with opening message.

Thinking about it that's probably why I never get a reply lol

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I show my face and do like seeing the faces of others on pics but fully understand if they have none on show.

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Don’t have face pic in public but happy to send to genuine people who I’m chatting with

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall


"I’ve nothing to hide and would prefer to know who I’m talking to."

This is me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they a must for you or ok to keep to private for friends or private messaging?"

Not a must but if someone wants to take things further than messages it’s a must for my wife but then it’s all set out in our profile that is only there to help and not hinder.

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are a must for me and obviously I am happy to show my face.

I have no secrets from anyone and really don't care if someone steals them tbh, I know the risk being on the internet

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By *siancouplehantsCouple
over a year ago

K-PAX

Never show face unless we plan to meet

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By *urchoicenowCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

We keep ours private.

Thing that annoys us is people asking for face pic who have none themselves

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

yeah there


"We keep ours private.

Thing that annoys us is people asking for face pic who have none themselves "

We send ours with a 1st message if others have theirs on public. If others contact that don't have their public asking for face pics we tend to delete if their message doesn't contain one. Similarly if we're the ones asking we send 1st.

Never expect others to do what you won't 1st.

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By *urchoicenowCouple
over a year ago

Ashford


"We keep ours private.

Thing that annoys us is people asking for face pic who have none themselves

We send ours with a 1st message if others have theirs on public. If others contact that don't have their public asking for face pics we tend to delete if their message doesn't contain one. Similarly if we're the ones asking we send 1st.

Never expect others to do what you won't 1st."

Exactly

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"We keep ours private.

Thing that annoys us is people asking for face pic who have none themselves "

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By *aneyyMan
over a year ago

leeds

I have a couple that are not private simply because I think it helps you stand out against all the other torsos lol

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By *oublethefunMan
over a year ago

royston

We both have our faces on show and when looking for someone to play with we would like and expect the same as in them sending said pictures to us. This is not blind date after all and without face pictures there cannot be a mutual attraction. Yes this is a site for nas sex but most couples and single wimen will not meet people without being able to see them simple. If you were on a vanilla dating site and were looking for a partner I don't think many people would arrange to meet someone without seeing what they looked like before let along a site that is to meet people for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We keep ours in our friends.

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Only friends I'm afraid!

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By *r GLTMan
over a year ago

Richmond Upon Thames

Mine is on show from experience i would not meet a couple or female again without first seeing them. I prefer to meet in clubs obviously not at the moment due to covid.

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By *reaming of pleasing OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere only we know


"We are happy to provide face pics as part of a chat, but we keep them all private now, after losing control of some pictures previously. And yes I agree, you must have an attraction to warrant taking things further."

That’s what I feel like is the danger on here sometimes, you can feel like someone is genuine but they end up not being as you’d expect. Thankfully the majority of people I’ve spoken to over the years make it a better place

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"Mine is on show from experience i would not meet a couple or female again without first seeing them. I prefer to meet in clubs obviously not at the moment due to covid."

Missing all things filthy kinky clubbing. . Definitely the best place to meet new friends. If the pictures and chat don’t quite make it in the flesh then it can still be a super fun night.

V x

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Ours set as private. But happy to share if asked by people we'd like to meet.

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By *exandthesuburbans83Couple
over a year ago

EASTBOURNE

We are happy to share face pics after a couple of messages but we don't have them publicly. Its our secret and hopefully it helps it stay that way and keeps our privacy. However, we do appreciate the need for them which is why we send them if asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people don’t have public face pics for the similar reasons, privacy, loss of control of images etc. The list goes on.

For some of us this is a secret little life we have that we don’t want publicly exposing. “Ha ha, your a swinger” in the workplace isn’t a good look.

I have chatted with someone and after a while it became apparent that we may know each other professionally. We just left it there. No face pics shared, both our secrets intact.

I feel it’s only worth sharing face pics once I have got chatting and it feels like it may lead somewhere. “Face pic on first message or you will be ignored” kind of frustrates me. How may people miss out on potential good times because of this?

No initial face pic doesn’t necessarily mean you are taking to the elephant man

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By *andy KTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere


"We both have our faces on show and when looking for someone to play with we would like and expect the same as in them sending said pictures to us. This is not blind date after all and without face pictures there cannot be a mutual attraction. Yes this is a site for nas sex but most couples and single wimen will not meet people without being able to see them simple. If you were on a vanilla dating site and were looking for a partner I don't think many people would arrange to meet someone without seeing what they looked like before let along a site that is to meet people for sex. "

I think above said it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A little snipet to give an idea is fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not a must for your profile but I do like to see who I’m talking with. I always send my face pic on a first message it’s polite even if you’re message is ignored.

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By *incsladyandscotsmanCouple
over a year ago

North fife

There must be a face picture to see if there is an attraction or what's the point in chatting?

Our face pics are in our friends folder...we do not accept blind friends requests because of this... These pictures are reserved for people we have met.

We are happy to send a face picture on a message if the person we are speaking to are of interest.

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By *reaming of pleasing OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere only we know


"There must be a face picture to see if there is an attraction or what's the point in chatting?

Our face pics are in our friends folder...we do not accept blind friends requests because of this... These pictures are reserved for people we have met.

We are happy to send a face picture on a message if the person we are speaking to are of interest. "

Yeah always send a face picture in the first message, may as well know from the start of I would be of interest to the recipient or not!

Just don’t have them in the public area as you never know who’ll be looking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just changed our profile pic so it shows our faces. That'll put people off...

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By *reaming of pleasing OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere only we know


"Just changed our profile pic so it shows our faces. That'll put people off... "

That’s part of my thinking for not showing mine haha

Don’t worry I think you’ll do ok!

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

Previously, when I was on here, I used to have a couple on show.

This time around I have kept them private. Has it made a difference? Previously I was reasonably successful, this time, not so. But then last time we weren't in a global pandemic.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I wouldn't put mine public, so understand why people keep them as friends /private.

As long as we swap one early on if chatting, that's fine for me.

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By *unCpl1003Couple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Don’t have any on my Profile but happy to send one

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

stockport

I show my face and my ass. Lol

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

I have mine in friends only or I will happily send in a message, but don’t have them public as I work with people who are not very tolerant and are particularly ruthless when it comes to shaming people

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By *picy2Couple
over a year ago

essex

Private for us

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

I have my face on show. I am.not ashamed of being into the scene.

I don't shout it from the rooftops but if asked I dont deny it.

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