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That first leap

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Having had a few 3somes and met up for full swap couple we are extremely turned on at the thought of being involved in a couples orgy/group sex scenario but don't wanna jump straight in with couples we don't know or haven't met before any advice??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just take it easy, meet the couple and trust your instincts, if it feels right, then have fun,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having had a few 3somes and met up for full swap couple we are extremely turned on at the thought of being involved in a couples orgy/group sex scenario but don't wanna jump straight in with couples we don't know or haven't met before any advice?? "

Have you tried dropping hints to friends and family?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sometimes I even wonder why I post in here some people are just morons you ask a genuine question then someone has to be a twat about it, forget thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

now then mr duracell . would you ask her indoors to join you ? bet its a NOT ON YA LIFE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lighten up please, sorry if I offended you, it was only meant as a bit of light hearted fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure if you are on the club scene but clubs are great ways to socialise. No need to play at all . You could meet lovely people and talk first then you will meet couples etc who you get to know and like then take it from there x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Proactively contact other people for prospective frienships and shortlist and meet those that fill your criteria. Once you've done that. Arrange a social meet with all your shortlist, especially those who express a preference and interest in group sex.

There

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having had a few 3somes and met up for full swap couple we are extremely turned on at the thought of being involved in a couples orgy/group sex scenario but don't wanna jump straight in with couples we don't know or haven't met before any advice?? "

Build up a group of trusted FB who you meet and have verified then suggest to them what your looking for - trust me its better way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"now then mr duracell . would you ask her indoors to join you ? bet its a NOT ON YA LIFE "

Yep I did actually the other day. She's now moved back to her mothers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you such a joker daft bugger you .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's true! I'll pm you all details in a bit x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I even wonder why I post in here some people are just morons you ask a genuine question then someone has to be a twat about it, forget thread"

I agree but the clue is in someones fab name. Some names just sum up the person too well. Just ignore it. And don't let bastards grind you down.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Have a look around for some parties.... ones where there is a strong social feel to them, you'll know what I mean when you read how they are advertised. A great way to meet a few couples at a time, chat, see if you click and either go for it then or exchange details to hook-up again.

I don't know what it is about the stranger thing which is putting you off that route.............. you may find it is great fun in the right surroundings, but yes it's down to you.

Have you tried a club on a couples only night. You don't need to jump straight into a group session, you can chat and soacialise and see where the mood takes you. You don't need to do anything you don't want to or are not ready to do. No one will think anything less of you if you don't play with anyone at a club, you can go just to test the water.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Parties or clubs are your best bet you dont have to play but they are fun to watch all in a safe environment.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Club is a good idea as observing in an open room with no pressure to play would give you time to decide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I even wonder why I post in here some people are just morons you ask a genuine question then someone has to be a twat about it, forget thread

I agree but the clue is in someones fab name. Some names just sum up the person too well. Just ignore it. And don't let bastards grind you down.

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So you've met me then have you? Sorry once again but it's hardly crime of the century to post something that you find humorous. Unfortunately other people didnt, hence the apology. I've had enough tragedy in my life to not take anything seriously anymore. I'm sorry I spoke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A club local to me has a social night every thursday, 7-10, free entry, if you want to stay and play after 10 then you can and pay a resonable fee. why not check out ones local'ish to you to see if they do something similar. that way if you decide its not for you, you can just leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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So you've met me then have you? Sorry once again but it's hardly crime of the century to post something that you find humorous. Unfortunately other people didnt, hence the apology. I've had enough tragedy in my life to not take anything seriously anymore. I'm sorry I spoke "

lol, think they're trying to say your a dick!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the genuine replies appreciate it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear so chilled but the dummy is out of the pram. Just try to think or count to 10 before you post.

And sometimes the tragedy is still happening and not everything has an hysterical punchline.

Apology accepted.

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