FabSwingers.com forum: Cold feet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So there have been a few cases now in the last weeks where I've either spoken to a couple or single lady about meeting. Examples where we've spent upwards of 30-40 messages getting to know each other and we've just gotten to asking about each other's availability.

But then within moments of asking about arrangements...they delete their accounts.

Some of these I can totally understand because they involve kinks I suppose they just aren't ready for, but the people who also say they don't like time wasters? What is the excuse there?

Is it normal for that many people to get cold feet at that late of a stage?

Maybe I scared them off