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"I want to talk to both, because I want to know the woman actually exists and is fully on board. But more than anything I’d like to know which one I’m talking to at any given time. Too many couples don’t actually sign off their messages so you know who you’re talking to." I'm guilty of that at times, sure. I try and make it clear but doesn't always happen! | |||
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"We try not to let on who's typing the messages (unless in the forum) because we don't think people should speak to either of us differently. If you're having a nice respectful conversation, getting to know a couple the is there really a need to know Which is typing?" This is our approach generally. It's interesting how things unfold and how assumptions are made on the initial approach (most of which assume only Mr KC is the one reading and replying). | |||
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"If it's only one person from a couple (or... from a "couple"...) talking in messages, who do you generally prefer it to be? I think it's fairly safe to say both is best, but if not, then what? When it's only the man, there are various alarm bells that she doesn't even exist, or isn't really into it. But when it's the woman, it then makes us worry that the man is just awful, especially when there's so often little sign of them in their pics. Certainly been caught out in person in the latter case, but so far the former ones never went anywhere, and just annoyed the hell out of us. So who do you prefer? And is it influenced by your gender? I mean, would men obviously rather talk to the other woman etc?" Both preferably. | |||
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"Interesting to here that lack of a male chatting is an issue. In what way do you mean “awful”? For us SjA (male) can’t stand Fab because of its horrible UX design so he takes on the duty of keeping the apps going and chatting on them. We give each other a nudge if we find someone interesting so we can make a decision together of where things go" Well awful like he has all the charisma of a soggy cardboard cut out! Awful UX?! I'm sure I've no idea what you mean! | |||
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"Be nice if I was contacted be a couple I only seem to attract single males ??" I suggest you block single men from messaging you then..? | |||
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"We try not to let on who's typing the messages (unless in the forum) because we don't think people should speak to either of us differently. If you're having a nice respectful conversation, getting to know a couple the is there really a need to know Which is typing? This is our approach generally. It's interesting how things unfold and how assumptions are made on the initial approach (most of which assume only Mr KC is the one reading and replying)." The guys will always assume it's the male replying when they get turned down fed up of explaining that he's straight, hes not the one judging if they're attractive | |||
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