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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How would you rate yourself and how do you know that you are good in bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am good for the people I have chemistry with and I am crap for the people I don't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't rate myself at all... I have a good time.. I do things because I enjoy them...

It just so happens mostly other people seem to enjoy it too..

Cali

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have so many threads about rating others on the site thought I would try it with a twist.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I don't rate myself but I have been told I am the most selfish lover one person has ever met... and he loved it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess if you never get told you are a crap shag and people you have had the pleasure to play with keep coming back for more then you could consider yourself a 'good shag'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nah I'm no good me... still learning, and worse than a buckaroo... dun't know how the women put up wi' it...

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"nah I'm no good me... still learning, and worse than a buckaroo... dun't know how the women put up wi' it...

Wolf

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That is why one shag is never enough and always gets left wanting more I must need the practice lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who cares? I enjoy it!

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex


"I am good for the people I have chemistry with and I am crap for the people I don't!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A full page satisfaction survey...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can we have a like button I love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When (if) they say "thank you" at the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cos they keep coming back for more lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When (if) they say "thank you" at the end "

Or - They leave you money without you ever even asking them to..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just whip my gray bra and granny pants off and let them at my bushy bush.. lying there motionless like a sack of potatoes and make the occasional encouraging moan, while trying to decide what colour to paint the downstairs bog!!

they still come back for more, go figure lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

i'm awesome in bed - not one of my meets have twigged that i am faking it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im so crap that my lovers do the times crossword while i shag them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just whip my gray bra and granny pants off and let them at my bushy bush.. lying there motionless like a sack of potatoes and make the occasional encouraging moan, while trying to decide what colour to paint the downstairs bog!!

they still come back for more, go figure lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How would you rate yourself and how do you know that you are good in bed."

I wouldn't like to rate myself. I always pick blokes that I seem to get along with, not anyone 'out of my league'.

I've had 3 blokes on different occasions with this look on their face when I've done with them-

I was worried I'd 'broken' them but they were all very happy so I must have done something right.

All the other blokes had this look on their face-

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usualy use 'the walk' test. If the lady can walk to another room without having to lean against a wall to support her wobble knees, I haven't shagged her properly......... I couldn't rate myself, but my meets don't often retain a firm footing.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good question! I doubt crap shags know they're crap. I've never been brutally honest.

Without sounding too modest (!), the reactions of "wow, that was amazing", I take as a compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there such a thing as a crap shag. All sex is good, it's just that some is better than others.

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By *ayjay999Man
over a year ago

Uk


"How would you rate yourself and how do you know that you are good in bed."

If u get a inv the second time then u are a good shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How would you rate yourself and how do you know that you are good in bed.

If u get a inv the second time then u are a good shag"

I've called up bad shags after a night on the liquor.

Only to regret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your only as good as the person your shagging

sometimes sex is great and i feel i was on top form, other times theres just nothing there and because i didnt connect with who i was with sexually i felt i was rubbish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there such a thing as a crap shag. All sex is good, it's just that some is better than others."

cant agree with that, ive met some right lazy fookers in bed and it was crap

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By *inge61Couple
over a year ago

n/wales

when they keep.you too. themselves. hmmm

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By *now-bbw-bunnyCouple
over a year ago

southend-on-sea

At party's guy's and women come back for seconds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"cos they keep coming back for more lol"

No better rating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They cum

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I'm crap but willing to be instructed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your only as good as the person your shagging

sometimes sex is great and i feel i was on top form, other times theres just nothing there and because i didnt connect with who i was with sexually i felt i was rubbish"

Yes that's it!! There has to be a connection for me too.

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By *ermandrMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Couldn't agree more than with Naughtynypho. There's no such thing as a good lover. There are good lovers. No one in isolation can say "I'm a great shag" anymore than someone can say "I am the best dancer of the tango". It takes two to tango and two (or more) for sex.

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By *abloBackMan
over a year ago

London

I must be good, they always tip me when I get paid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am good for the people I have chemistry with and I am crap for the people I don't!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find that all the broken furniture is a clue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How would you rate yourself and how do you know that you are good in bed."

Modesty prevents me from saying - however if pushed id say ???????? lol

To be totally frank it never for me to say how i think i perform in /out of bed is it; its surley down to your sex partner on that occasion -

But then i add that we all have off days - dont we ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if some one is to think your crap then surely they would take over or tell you what they want. At the end off the day if someone was to tell you what they want you wouldn't think back to your self and think your crap, you would think you dirty little spinks/bastard and give it all to them.

When you think about it, if some is telling you what to do, its going to be horny as fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can usually tell by how long it takes the gal to wake up from her orgasm induced coma!!

(or going in opp direction) by the amount of nails filed during a good (for me that is) doggy session!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10/10!!!!

And because when im finished she'll be red cheeked and look like she's been in a sauna for an hour! ;p

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire


"Is there such a thing as a crap shag. All sex is good, it's just that some is better than others."

I have received 30 seconds That is a crap shag

N

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Wouldn't know how to rate myself? How do I know? Not sure I do - people could just be kind when they say "you were amazing"...

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Is there such a thing as a crap shag. All sex is good, it's just that some is better than others.

I have received 30 seconds That is a crap shag

N "

30 seconds? That's six shags worth!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its all relative to peoples perceptions..

i know i can make a woman orgasm and from comments i get from them they seem to enjoy it so am i a good shag? i dont care...

i know guys whocan fuck for ages without cumming but soe women dont like that but some will say they are the best..

doesnt matter as long as you all have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a single man on here, I have a question.

What's a shag? Lol

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

[Removed by poster at 05/07/12 11:20:42]

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire


"Is there such a thing as a crap shag. All sex is good, it's just that some is better than others.

I have received 30 seconds That is a crap shag

N

30 seconds? That's six shags worth!"

Well, that's you off my 'to do list'

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"How would you rate yourself and how do you know that you are good in bed."

87%...... I have a visitors book by the door and evaluation forms.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Is there such a thing as a crap shag. All sex is good, it's just that some is better than others.

I have received 30 seconds That is a crap shag

N

30 seconds? That's six shags worth!

Well, that's you off my 'to do list' "

I was on your list? Awesome!

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"How would you rate yourself and how do you know that you are good in bed.

87%...... I have a visitors book by the door and evaluation forms."

Seriously? :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"cos they keep coming back for more lol"

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

i just do what i enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How would you rate yourself and how do you know that you are good in bed.

out of 10, 100, 1000, not sure about myself, i give you full marks 10 out of 10, 100 out 100 1000 out of 1000, if woman cush and orgasams and legs go to jelly i think i done ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It takes 2 to make a good shag and a little chemistry! Basically for me if the guy can't kiss it's not going to do it for me, haven't been proved wrong yet lol

Saying that, I have been told a few times I am an amazing shag, who am I to say otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you got amazing arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How would you rate yourself and how do you know that you are good in bed."

I don't rate myself. I let others do that....

But Perky is one hell of a fuck!! Ha ha!

(had to say that really, didn't I??)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It takes 2 to make a good shag and a little chemistry! Basically for me if the guy can't kiss it's not going to do it for me, haven't been proved wrong yet lol

Saying that, I have been told a few times I am an amazing shag, who am I to say otherwise "

I have that rule too, if he can't kiss I won't go any further. BUT I broke it once... really great guy, very handsome but then OMG his kissing wasn't good at all! I still continued and he was an amazing shag! I actually met him a few times and I sorted his kissing improved big time. Was worth it mmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

110%

i can shag for hours, cum multiple times without going soft and have a massive cock.

women are booking weeks in advance to see me...

in fact men are booking there wives in with me....

so i must be good surely??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"110%

i can shag for hours, cum multiple times without going soft and have a massive cock.

women are booking weeks in advance to see me...

in fact men are booking there wives in with me....

so i must be good surely??????

"

Okay, forum vultures . . . time to swoop me thinks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you got amazing arse"

Why thank u x maybe I should rebrand as abbiearse?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am good for the people I have chemistry with and I am crap for the people I don't!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It takes 2 to make a good shag and a little chemistry! Basically for me if the guy can't kiss it's not going to do it for me, haven't been proved wrong yet lol

Saying that, I have been told a few times I am an amazing shag, who am I to say otherwise

I have that rule too, if he can't kiss I won't go any further. BUT I broke it once... really great guy, very handsome but then OMG his kissing wasn't good at all! I still continued and he was an amazing shag! I actually met him a few times and I sorted his kissing improved big time. Was worth it mmmmmm "

Something to keep in mind for future reference!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Okay, forum vultures . . . time to swoop me thinks!

"

Look up there... you can see 'em circling

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It takes 2 to make a good shag and a little chemistry! Basically for me if the guy can't kiss it's not going to do it for me, haven't been proved wrong yet lol

Saying that, I have been told a few times I am an amazing shag, who am I to say otherwise

I have that rule too, if he can't kiss I won't go any further. BUT I broke it once... really great guy, very handsome but then OMG his kissing wasn't good at all! I still continued and he was an amazing shag! I actually met him a few times and I sorted his kissing improved big time. Was worth it mmmmmm

Something to keep in mind for future reference!!!!! "

yeah only do that if he's worth it.... I guess this would roll into polo's fuck buddy thread lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It takes 2 to make a good shag and a little chemistry! Basically for me if the guy can't kiss it's not going to do it for me, haven't been proved wrong yet lol

Saying that, I have been told a few times I am an amazing shag, who am I to say otherwise

I have that rule too, if he can't kiss I won't go any further. BUT I broke it once... really great guy, very handsome but then OMG his kissing wasn't good at all! I still continued and he was an amazing shag! I actually met him a few times and I sorted his kissing improved big time. Was worth it mmmmmm

Something to keep in mind for future reference!!!!!

yeah only do that if he's worth it.... I guess this would roll into polo's fuck buddy thread lol"

Lol been there and done that thread! I count myself luck to have 2 fbs and they can both kiss so no teaching needed

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By *eavy Metal BallzMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"you got amazing arse

Why thank u x maybe I should rebrand as abbiearse?!"

It is quite stunning to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It takes 2 to make a good shag and a little chemistry! Basically for me if the guy can't kiss it's not going to do it for me, haven't been proved wrong yet lol

Saying that, I have been told a few times I am an amazing shag, who am I to say otherwise

I have that rule too, if he can't kiss I won't go any further. BUT I broke it once... really great guy, very handsome but then OMG his kissing wasn't good at all! I still continued and he was an amazing shag! I actually met him a few times and I sorted his kissing improved big time. Was worth it mmmmmm

Something to keep in mind for future reference!!!!!

yeah only do that if he's worth it.... I guess this would roll into polo's fuck buddy thread lol

Lol been there and done that thread! I count myself luck to have 2 fbs and they can both kiss so no teaching needed "

I wish they all came fully trained lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you got amazing arse

Why thank u x maybe I should rebrand as abbiearse?!

It is quite stunning to be honest "

Having had a perv ur not bad urself xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It takes 2 to make a good shag and a little chemistry! Basically for me if the guy can't kiss it's not going to do it for me, haven't been proved wrong yet lol

Saying that, I have been told a few times I am an amazing shag, who am I to say otherwise

I have that rule too, if he can't kiss I won't go any further. BUT I broke it once... really great guy, very handsome but then OMG his kissing wasn't good at all! I still continued and he was an amazing shag! I actually met him a few times and I sorted his kissing improved big time. Was worth it mmmmmm

Something to keep in mind for future reference!!!!!

yeah only do that if he's worth it.... I guess this would roll into polo's fuck buddy thread lol

Lol been there and done that thread! I count myself luck to have 2 fbs and they can both kiss so no teaching needed

I wish they all came fully trained lol... "

Lol and able to use a Hoover and washing machine!!!!

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By *elestial NavigatorMan
over a year ago

The moon

A lady I was seeing when I asked her what she gossiped about when she met with a female friend of hers from here for coffee the day after our meet...said "its very base what we discuss" so I said ok well just tell me one thing you said...she replied that she told her friend "my arse has been to heaven and back"

Have never forgot the exact words she used, because..well Im a man...and even if im good or not in bed thats one compliment I shall never forget

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there such a thing as a crap shag. All sex is good, it's just that some is better than others."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It takes 2 to make a good shag and a little chemistry! Basically for me if the guy can't kiss it's not going to do it for me, haven't been proved wrong yet lol

Saying that, I have been told a few times I am an amazing shag, who am I to say otherwise

I have that rule too, if he can't kiss I won't go any further. BUT I broke it once... really great guy, very handsome but then OMG his kissing wasn't good at all! I still continued and he was an amazing shag! I actually met him a few times and I sorted his kissing improved big time. Was worth it mmmmmm

Something to keep in mind for future reference!!!!!

yeah only do that if he's worth it.... I guess this would roll into polo's fuck buddy thread lol

Lol been there and done that thread! I count myself luck to have 2 fbs and they can both kiss so no teaching needed

I wish they all came fully trained lol...

Lol and able to use a Hoover and washing machine!!!! "

now you're just getting too demanding lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all you have made me giggle x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It takes 2 to make a good shag and a little chemistry! Basically for me if the guy can't kiss it's not going to do it for me, haven't been proved wrong yet lol

Saying that, I have been told a few times I am an amazing shag, who am I to say otherwise

I have that rule too, if he can't kiss I won't go any further. BUT I broke it once... really great guy, very handsome but then OMG his kissing wasn't good at all! I still continued and he was an amazing shag! I actually met him a few times and I sorted his kissing improved big time. Was worth it mmmmmm

Something to keep in mind for future reference!!!!!

yeah only do that if he's worth it.... I guess this would roll into polo's fuck buddy thread lol

Lol been there and done that thread! I count myself luck to have 2 fbs and they can both kiss so no teaching needed

I wish they all came fully trained lol...

Lol and able to use a Hoover and washing machine!!!!

now you're just getting too demanding lol"

U think?!?! Ok will take one who can make me cum daily!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"10/10!!!!

And because when im finished she'll be red cheeked and look like she's been in a sauna for an hour! ;p"

Even if she a black lady?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give the lady a questionnaire to fill out.

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By *ikerbob1957Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I just whip my gray bra and granny pants off and let them at my bushy bush.. lying there motionless like a sack of potatoes and make the occasional encouraging moan, while trying to decide what colour to paint the downstairs bog!!

they still come back for more, go figure lol"

I happen to like a hairy bush so I would certainly be back for more!! Whether I would be invited back is a different story, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they ask for a return meet

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Im going to message all my friends and ask them if im a good shag or not, one did tell me the other day that he guessed i was ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been asked for seconds ..........

Drop penny....

Klink......

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By *ess44Couple
over a year ago

northernireland

lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure if i am good or not but i have experienced both ends of the spectrum. From ladies who do seem almost lifeless during sex to 1 lady who when doing her in the "folded deckchair" postion shouted "don't stop i am going to cum",which resulted in nail marks all over my back and bite marks on my shoulder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure if i am good or not but i have experienced both ends of the spectrum. From ladies who do seem almost lifeless during sex to 1 lady who when doing her in the "folded deckchair" postion shouted "don't stop i am going to cum",which resulted in nail marks all over my back and bite marks on my shoulder."

folded deckchair? Whats that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How would you rate yourself and how do you know that you are good in bed."

Cos I'm fucking mint at it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been told I'm amazing that's why I know and of course the reaction and the fact that they keep coming back for more says it all lol. X.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Folded deckchair is basicly me on top with her legs over my shoulders then i lean into her and the closer i get the further back her legs go.Its a great position for deep penetration and will give the female an orgasm most of the time.Go on to bestsexvideos.com or google best sex positons and there will be a description of how to do it as well an a video showing it as well.Good luck you will be mega horny after watching those videos!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

been told im good. I have good and bad sessions however, sometimes i get too carried away with her curves and beauty and end too soon. Other times i hold it together and last the full 4 hours :P it all depends on mood im in, how horny i am and how good they are.

Usually I have a good time and so do they. I go out of my way to please others as it turns me on to see them having a good time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you seen my cock ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Health & Safety regs require a full Risk Assessment of the activity beforehand and of course a proper Audit Report in duplicate after completion of said activity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was told i Was the best 19 seconds she has ever had! What more can i say

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