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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey I'm new to the scene, am a young single guy and it has quickly become apparent to me that single guys are not the most popular people for swingers.

Was wondering if any couples or ladies had any advice for a newbie single guy on how to attract people for meets. Im plenty experienced with women and had a couple threesomes so just wanna know how I can sell myself better x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know you've asked for advice from women and couples but as a single guy who has been on and off here for a few years with, I suppose a fair amount of success with single and couples profiles I'd give the following as some of my pearls of wisdom:

Be honest with people you message/chat to. If you're attached or married don't hide the fact.

When you message anyone the last thing most folk want to hear in an initial message is a request or offer of sex, chat as if you're chatting to someone you've met in a bar at the start.

Don't come across as desperate, if you've sent a few messages and haven't herd back don't keep messaging.

Keep your profile positive, worst thing, I think to put folk off is a whinging profile (not that yours is)

Be a wee bit more specific, you say interested in women of any age and in the same sentence looking for older women.

There's 101 other things but theres a few to think about, good luck.

PS. your meet today asking for a woman to rim and suck you and telling them they'll get nothing in return as youre selfish isn't likely to get any response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know you've asked for advice from women and couples but as a single guy who has been on and off here for a few years with, I suppose a fair amount of success with single and couples profiles I'd give the following as some of my pearls of wisdom:

Be honest with people you message/chat to. If you're attached or married don't hide the fact.

When you message anyone the last thing most folk want to hear in an initial message is a request or offer of sex, chat as if you're chatting to someone you've met in a bar at the start.

Don't come across as desperate, if you've sent a few messages and haven't herd back don't keep messaging.

Keep your profile positive, worst thing, I think to put folk off is a whinging profile (not that yours is)

Be a wee bit more specific, you say interested in women of any age and in the same sentence looking for older women.

There's 101 other things but theres a few to think about, good luck.

PS. your meet today asking for a woman to rim and suck you and telling them they'll get nothing in return as youre selfish isn't likely to get any response."

this is gold this ^^^

Good luck

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yer I just said women and couples because thought it would be good to hear from the people I'm trying to message, what kind of things is best to say in a first message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody can say for sure what's best in a first message but look at it like an interview maybe, show them you've read their profile, that you suit what they're looking for and tell them a wee bit about yourself, also don't go messaging folk too far away unless you seriously intend travelling.

That'll be £20.00 consultation fee please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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PS. your meet today asking for a woman to rim and suck you and telling them they'll get nothing in return as youre selfish isn't likely to get any response."

Did it seriously say that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It did but removed now, good decision methinks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

PS. your meet today asking for a woman to rim and suck you and telling them they'll get nothing in return as youre selfish isn't likely to get any response.

Did it seriously say that? "

Ha yeah somebody else told me to do that technique, I never thought it was too clever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ffs, what a charmer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't figure out how you ladies and couples could resist such an offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't figure out how you ladies and couples could resist such an offer "

i know, you wouldnt think most of us joined here for our own pleasure!

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