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Picking someone less attractive to meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has anyone on purpose picked someone who they consider less attractive than themselves or their partner to avoid jealousy issues?

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Jealousy from who?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You or your partner

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

i prefer someone much better looking than me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i prefer someone much better looking than me "

Is that even possible :p

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

They cant all be very attractive, i myself prefer a plain jane ,

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"You or your partner"

There shouldn't be any feelings of jealousy in swinging in our opinion. If one of us felt jealousy then we would have to take a step back. We aren't here to be feeling bad and negative emotions, just the good feelings.

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away


"You or your partner"

There should be no jealousy in swinging.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are you a plain Jane? I'm talking about picking someone in purpose because they are less attractive...not because you haven't got any choice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You or your partner

There should be no jealousy in swinging."

There shouldn't be but there is... It's part of being human

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh everyone I meet is less attractive than me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone on purpose picked someone who they consider less attractive than themselves or their partner to avoid jealousy issues?"

Oh hell yes my wife picked me.

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is more attractive than me but no one is more attractive than my partner.

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By *ustyshowoffCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

For us it’s about personality and how we get on more than looks

Jxx

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!


"You or your partner

There shouldn't be any feelings of jealousy in swinging in our opinion. If one of us felt jealousy then we would have to take a step back. We aren't here to be feeling bad and negative emotions, just the good feelings."

I know what you mean, but it’s always an emotional reaction that sometimes can appear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When meeting with a partner, it should be by mutual consent imho - unless the dynamic of your relationship allows for one of you to always make the choice

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By *oetic licenceCouple
over a year ago

Matlock

There should be no jealousy in swinging. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Everyone is more attractive than me but no one is more attractive than my partner. "

Awwwwww

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There should be no jealousy in swinging. X"

Yet there is sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course there is jealousy. But jealousy isn't the problem. How we respond to it is the issue. Personally I find jealousy to be motivating and exciting. If I wasn't a little jealous I would have to assume it is because I didn't care anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone on purpose picked someone who they consider less attractive than themselves or their partner to avoid jealousy issues?"

If that's the case, then there's issues already.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"You or your partner

There should be no jealousy in swinging.

There shouldn't be but there is... It's part of being human "

Those people are playing a dangerous game. So many become Male or Female playing alone. There definitely should be no jealousy. Swingers should actually enjoy their partner giving or receiving pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you a plain Jane? I'm talking about picking someone in purpose because they are less attractive...not because you haven't got any choice."

A couple chose me because of exactly that after the meet. Well the mr did.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No, never.

For me jealousy wouldn’t be something I felt over looks. If I was to feel it it would be because my partner did something like take another woman somewhere he'd always promised to take me but never had, how she looked wouldn't matter. He's never done anything like that so, no jealousy

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