FabSwingers.com forum: beyond a joke...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok my turn for a rant!!!!

Why do people feel the need to post nasty remarks/comments etc?

If you don't like a thread then don't post! This place is so full of pathetic immature people!

I've been posting for a few weeks and the same things come up that are not needed...eg...

Already been discussed, why not search first? - ok hundreds of people all have the same qs/situations/worries/wants/ideas etc etc. sometimes people just want instant advice/help/reassurance without trailing through threads. The time it takes someone to write something like 'oh why don't you look in search its covered all the time' or 'im sick of these same threads' they could have been more productive!!!!

Also the whole 'we don't care what you look like at all' situation constantly arises.....everyone has a little vain-ness in them. i agree one persons trash is anothers treasure but looks will always come into it somewhere! Your definition of ugly/fat/skinny will stop you playing with certain people. so when people say 'i ONLY care about personality' i would be very surprised if this was the case! Yet they voice it so strongly to the point where others are wrong for saying any different!!

A lot of people on here are 'older' yet can act so immature!

I massively agree everyone is entitled to their own opinion and more than welcome to voice it but very rarely do i see people being helpful/nice!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I don't think it is that bad in terms of the amount of people that do it. There are a select few (we all know who they are) that take delight in belittling others. They participate a lot in the threads which makes it seem a whole lot worse than it actually is. On the whole a pretty friendly bunch i reckon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Boro Couple

Do you feel better for the RANT lol

Most of what you say is true; but there are lots of people who flit in and out of here as "hunter gatheres" and t be honest they couldnt give a fig if same subject post elsewhere - You only ahve to lok at the "INTRODUCTIONS" forum to make your case stand out its predominately full of "look at my profile" - " profile advise please" etc etc

I loved your RANT but id be surprised if anyone will take notice of it - but im pretty sure some might try and dis you here - if they do just dont rise to the bait

Good topic well put

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Haha thank you both!!

I do feel better and any slack won't hurt me or bother me either!

Just annoys me sometimes people feel free to dive in threads being nasty/belittling etc. always thought unless provoked; if you've nothing nice to say then shut the he'll up!!

But thanks again

i feel i can go on in this boiling (over stuffy) day smiling! Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hell*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what about all the ballons ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe need a search button to find what thread your looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm full agreement with the op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe need a search button to find what thread your looking for"

There is one - top left

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"what about all the ballons ???"

what balloons?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think it is that bad in terms of the amount of people that do it. There are a select few (we all know who they are) that take delight in belittling others. They participate a lot in the threads which makes it seem a whole lot worse than it actually is. On the whole a pretty friendly bunch i reckon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The other thing id add that having lked at your profile you do make very clear to everyone who/what your looking for so in my eyes for this site it makes a fairly rational couple lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree with the op and have often not posted because of the aggressive , surly or plain rudeness of some on here - well said

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

".........

Have you ever stopped for a moment and thought ... the more a subject is covered the less effort some people will feel like putting into their replies. Aside from the fact it really does get boring when there are 8 different "Does the size of my cock really matter" threads on the go, is there really a need to start a thread on the same subject if there is already one at the bottom od the first page?

Some of the best replies may well be in one of the previous threads.

Just because a thread was started by someone else and is 2 days old, does that mean it's done, dead, the replies in that thread don't count?

Are we so time precious and self absorbed that a reply given to someone else is not good enough, we want our own and we want it now... layed on a plate?

You make the point it possibly takes the same time to write "use the search, this has been covered a lot" as it would to answer the question... which I doubt... not if as you say a person is seeking advice. But I put it to you that is takes less time to type a couple of words in the search and the click than it does to write an opening post ... unless the opening post is only two words long.

Is the advice of yesterday any less valid that advice typed today?

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By *jeasyriderMan
over a year ago

near paisley

1 person went nasty with me as i refuse to send them a pict of me

an then name and shame (user is reported)yet is allowed to be on site why is this

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

just to throw in some useless information. A search on cock size produces 25 hits. Quite good if you want some tips on how to measure one

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Oh... by the way.... the reason I only replied to that bit of your post was the rest seems to be a massive contradiction.... people can have opinions yet you are ranting about them having an opinion you don't agree with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Im ranting at those people who give opinions etc in nasty way. no need for or point in it.

People can also advise others to use the search button in a more respectful way than they do.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"Im ranting at those people who give opinions etc in nasty way. no need for or point in it.

People can also advise others to use the search button in a more respectful way than they do.

xx"

I really feel you should make this clearer then. You have give 3 examples of the type of post you are ranting about and at best one could be considered edging towards nasty by stating they were 'sick' of it..... pretty much like you are saying about those who claim looks don't matter.

May be you should have used better examples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Totally agree with the op and have often not posted because of the aggressive , surly or plain rudeness of some on here - well said

Me too. And they scrutinise your profile too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will always get this on forums, not matter what forum it is. Some people take delight in being the "top posters" They like "show up" other less knowledgeable on the forum makes them feel big,feel important, tho in fact it doesn't make them look big,it just makes them look pathetic,rude and small minded.

And then you have the forum trolls,they just like to get a reaction, any reaction as it gives them a buzz for some strange reason.

Anyone used to reading forums knows this, has come across this before and ignores them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is so ture, There are the same few people who always have to stick there 2 pennys in where it is not needed, All they are doing is puting people of writing new posts, Im wonding why admin dont say anythink??

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

There will always be disagreements and strong characters on any internet forum,this is no different here

Some will use their talents to make people smile and others prefer to use it the other way

Everyone has a right and is welcome to post on here as long as you're within the rules

Personally I don't find it difficult to ignore those that prefer to dig and look for controversy and theres loads of threads that are welcoming,interesting and have really good debates going on

If you see a post on a thread that you think is against the rules you can report it from the post,mods are not on here 24/7 and admin like the feedback

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