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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We don't, but lots of you do. Does anyone ever feel jealous?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

no never feel jealous

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"no never feel jealous"

Your lucky, wish I was the same x

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By *alkdirty2meCouple
over a year ago

20 miles south of Edinburgh

Almost all of the couple that the Male half can meet separately are fake

The female doesn’t exist

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By *awk90Man
over a year ago

Amsterdam


"Almost all of the couple that the Male half can meet separately are fake

The female doesn’t exist "

Sounds just like something my definitely real girlfriend would say!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Almost all of the couple that the Male half can meet separately are fake

The female doesn’t exist "

Yes! We have also found this, and heard of a few bad experiences also. X

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Almost all of the couple that the Male half can meet separately are fake

The female doesn’t exist "

Sounds like a sweeping generalisation!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never jealous excited and nervous but definitely a thrill for us x

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By *asterandGenieCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

I have arranged for someone to come over for Genie while I took little one to the park and listened via a call while they had fun.

I often meet others when I’m away working so it’s all good.

M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Almost all of the couple that the Male half can meet separately are fake

The female doesn’t exist

Sounds like a sweeping generalisation!"

We exist and both la separately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet and my husband doesn't at all. No issues xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Works all ways for us if it didn't we wouldn't do it x

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By *alkdirty2meCouple
over a year ago

20 miles south of Edinburgh

Please note the use of the word

Almost

Feel free to u twist your knickers if you are actually 1 of the limited number of the actual genuine ones

But, seriously, even you guys know the truth, so why shoot the messenger, it’s the fakes that are making it harder for you guys not the people highlighting that the fakes are in a 99% majority

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"Almost all of the couple that the Male half can meet separately are fake

The female doesn’t exist "

Or is at work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet separately on occasion. We don't meet singles of the opposite sex. So its bi fun for Janet cpuple looking for single ladies. Or couples/GB's looking for guys for me. X

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

We’ve not done it yet, but Kitty might meet alone in the Hotwife dynamic as I (The Boy) won’t be jealous but Kitty doesn’t want me to meet alone. So I won’t!

It’s always a complex situation and I expect that anyone’s dynamic is likely to be fluid!

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!


"Almost all of the couple that the Male half can meet separately are fake

The female doesn’t exist "

The massively suspicious ones are the ones with statuses like “I’m out, does someone want to sort my fella out?” Etc

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

[Removed by poster at 22/10/20 11:19:24]

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"Almost all of the couple that the Male half can meet separately are fake

The female doesn’t exist

Sounds like a sweeping generalisation!

We exist and both la separately "

You both more rear than unicorns

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

been swinging 25 ++ years never been any jealousy ..why would there be if we both want the same ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feeling jealous is quiet natural in a relationship or else how would you know you love each other ?

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'm half a couple who meets separately and can honestly say no, never felt jealous

I ask Jack for pics of his meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tried it a few years ago and didn't like it. We found that 90% (if not more) it was just the male that could meet and that put us off. We come as a package and won't be separately.

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By *aywalton1Man
over a year ago

Walton on the Hill

Some partners get off on not being present when the other is playing. The thrill of imagining what's happening. I enjoy both, meeting couples together, whether the husband joins in to pleasure the lady, or if the female meets me on her own, whatever they prefer, but I must admit, meeting the female half on her own with her partner's knowledge just edges it! Most of the couples I've met tend to prefer meeting together, also for the lady's safety.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don’t meet separately simply because the enjoyment of swinging for us is watching each other interact sexually with other people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Feeling jealous is quiet natural in a relationship or else how would you know you love each other ?

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This is how I feel, x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We don’t meet separately simply because the enjoyment of swinging for us is watching each other interact sexually with other people "

Same x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feeling jealous is quiet natural in a relationship or else how would you know you love each other ?

"

jealousy is not a indicator for love ?? just ask those jealous people who beat the crap out of each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and theres nothing wrong with couples not meeting on there own either its just what makes you happy to do then do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feeling jealous is quiet natural in a relationship or else how would you know you love each other ?

jealousy is not a indicator for love ?? just ask those jealous people who beat the crap out of each other"

We are talking about swingers , so keep that in context please .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am talking about swingers ???

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By *eachyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Events as advertised …


"Almost all of the couple that the Male half can meet separately are fake

The female doesn’t exist

Sounds like a sweeping generalisation!

We exist and both la separately "

They are definitely both real. And lovely. We met them back in the world before Covid. ahhh. We miss those days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i am talking about swingers ???"

So you want to say that cpls who come into swinging ended in violence out of jealousy?

Well they shouldnt be swinging in first place then ? Swinging should be a collective decision and not one sided .

Although I haven't heard about any such beating cases on Fab yet . Have you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i am talking about swingers ???

So you want to say that cpls who come into swinging ended in violence out of jealousy?

Well they shouldnt be swinging in first place then ? Swinging should be a collective decision and not one sided .

Although I haven't heard about any such beating cases on Fab yet . Have you ?"

there will always be that case there are plenty of couples that come into swinging for the wrong reasons how many times do you see folk falling out at swinging clubs because of jealousy ...quite often .... and just like every other walk of life there will be violence because of it ... i only answered because you said how can you tell if you love someone without jealousy well judging by the 1,000s of swinger's who play separately id say alot love without jealousy ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So jealousy ends in violence only ? It can't be expressed otherwise like the OP feels ?

You must be living in a wrong demographic area hun.

Do you get jealous ? And would you beat your partner when you jealous?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So jealousy ends in violence only ? It can't be expressed otherwise like the OP feels ?

You must be living in a wrong demographic area hun.

Do you get jealous ? And would you beat your partner when you jealous?

"

hahahaha see now your twisting it .. thats ok you twist away ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are making a lot of sweeping statements dear. Jealousy is a human emotion ,natural and if it leads to violence then there is something wrong with that violent person .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The little bit of jealous is good . We do it . You have to be totally secure . Maybe not all couples like that. But we are . It’s a good jealous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So jealousy ends in violence only ? It can't be expressed otherwise like the OP feels ?

You must be living in a wrong demographic area hun.

Do you get jealous ? And would you beat your partner when you jealous?

hahahaha see now your twisting it .. thats ok you twist away .."

If you can read your own posts ,you will see the plots and twists there . Lol

I simply said if you truly love someone then you do get jealous and I personally have witnessed twice in a swinging situation and we don't find anything wrong with it .

It's just they could have talked about it before swinging .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, not at all... I prefer watching him in action tho... Just knowing what he is up to works for me too tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, not at all... I prefer watching him in action tho... Just knowing what he is up to works for me too tho "

Same for us . Most of us gets turned on more by watching our partners getting pleasured by another person .

The reason behind this is ,we can't see their reaction when we are playing .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feeling jealous is quiet natural in a relationship or else how would you know you love each other ?

"

Jealousy has nothing to do with love, ever!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

taken from one of many write ups on psychlogy

It's a common misconception that jealousy is a sign of love.

Jealousy can be a major relationship problem—a survey of marital therapists reported that romantic jealousy was a serious problem for a third of their clients.1 I hope to dispel the myth that jealousy is a sign of love. But if it's not, then what really motivates jealous responses? Research has linked several traits to greater jealousy:

Low self-esteem.2,3

Neuroticism: a general tendency to be moody, anxious, and emotionally unstable.2,4

Feelings of insecurity and possessiveness.5

Dependence on your partner:6,7 Even asking people to imagine that they don’t have good alternative partners leads to more negative reactions to hypothetical jealousy-inducing scenarios.8

Feelings of inadequacy in your relationship: Generally fearing that you’re not good enough for your partner.3,9,10

An anxious attachment style: A chronic orientation toward romantic relationships that involves fear that your partner will leave you or won’t love you enough.11,12 Research has shown that temporarily causing people to feel more securely attached, by asking them to think about receiving support from a loved one, makes them react less severely to a hypothetical jealousy-inducing situation.13

All of these factors that relate to jealousy are about the insecurities of the jealous people, not about the love they have for their partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha now we have reference to context as well .

I have more counter argument on this based on books but we would digress to showing one upmanship.

The main question of the OP is " do you get jealous in separate meet?"

My reply is " it's normal to get jealous as it shows that you truly love that person "

It's a fair point .

We can write thesis about jealousy and love but some other day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha now we have reference to context as well .

I have more counter argument on this based on books but we would digress to showing one upmanship.

The main question of the OP is " do you get jealous in separate meet?"

My reply is " it's normal to get jealous as it shows that you truly love that person "

It's a fair point .

We can write thesis about jealousy and love but some other day "
totally agree . We get a bit butterfly jealous . It’s good reclaim and appreciation along with the buzz of it all .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexybum has met a guys separately who we used to know from work. I dropped her off and from that moment did feel a weird combination of jealousy and excitement. The moment he sent me pictures and a video of her cumming on his hand all that jealousy went and the excitement took over !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Almost all of the couple that the Male half can meet separately are fake

The female doesn’t exist "

I do lol!! No jealousy but it takes good communication and lots of it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexybum has met a guys separately who we used to know from work. I dropped her off and from that moment did feel a weird combination of jealousy and excitement. The moment he sent me pictures and a video of her cumming on his hand all that jealousy went and the excitement took over !!"

Exactly , you feel them butterflies in the stomach and loads of mix of emotions , right from apprehension about her safety, how the guy will treat her , and wish I could be there but I want to feel that experience of not being there .

Then when she comes home, you want to know everything in sequence ,right from the first hello to last goodbye.

Then the way she starts describing you pass through a wide spectrum of emotions and jealousy is one of them too.

You want to know everything as if you are present there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some partners get off on not being present when the other is playing. The thrill of imagining what's happening. I enjoy both, meeting couples together, whether the husband joins in to pleasure the lady, or if the female meets me on her own, whatever they prefer, but I must admit, meeting the female half on her own with her partner's knowledge just edges it! Most of the couples I've met tend to prefer meeting together, also for the lady's safety. "

This is perfect

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By *aywalton1Man
over a year ago

Walton on the Hill


"Some partners get off on not being present when the other is playing. The thrill of imagining what's happening. I enjoy both, meeting couples together, whether the husband joins in to pleasure the lady, or if the female meets me on her own, whatever they prefer, but I must admit, meeting the female half on her own with her partner's knowledge just edges it! Most of the couples I've met tend to prefer meeting together, also for the lady's safety.

This is perfect "

Which is your preference as a couple?

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