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Profile....or looks?

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By *egasusQ OP   Man
over a year ago

Ashbourne

What most attracts you to a potential partner/s? Is it reading their profile or is it simply looking at their pics and thinking they’re hot?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me personally it will be looks first and then I will read the profile. I have to be physically attracted to someone first. But if I like the looks and the personality is not there then I won’t take it any further

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich


"What most attracts you to a potential partner/s? Is it reading their profile or is it simply looking at their pics and thinking they’re hot?"

Both really. If they are not attractive to us their profile means nothing.

But if they are attractive to us and have taken the time to creat a decent profile it shows effort. Which we appreciate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Equipment

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By *um6a9funMan
over a year ago

Messy End

Profile and interests list first, and if I like what I read, I’m happy to message, regardless of a photo. Someone can be really attractive, but it’s pointless if our interests or needs differ!

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

It has to be both. Looks only takes someone so far, if the rest doesn’t fit then I wouldn’t be interested.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Both.

If the text is nonexistent or full of text speak, that will put me off as much as no or poor photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both but probably more the pics actually xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of both unless redhead and curvy... Im hooked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s bit of a balance .. obvs I have to be attracted .. but if the shillings aren’t adding up then lol .. looks count for nothing

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By *egasusQ OP   Man
over a year ago

Ashbourne

Yeah I get that. So in your opinion, and I know everyone’s is different, what creates a ‘decent’ profile? Is it a guy that you think best suits what you’re looking for?

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By *egasusQ OP   Man
over a year ago

Ashbourne

Thanks, my thoughts too!

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By *ebel Red HotWoman
over a year ago

York

Both I like looks and a mentally stimulating mind and it has to be both for me.

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By *egasusQ OP   Man
over a year ago

Ashbourne


"Both I like looks and a mentally stimulating mind and it has to be both for me. "

Ok, but if you HAD to choose, would you rather meet with someone who you found physically unattractive but with a gorgeous personality, or someone you found literally drop dead stunning looking but with a horrible personality?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fact that they can spell

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By *notherGentMan
over a year ago

doncaster

Yeah a bit of both on this, can’t be all of one or the other

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By *candiumWoman
over a year ago

oban


"Fact that they can spell "

Yup.

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By *nigmatic_AngelWoman
over a year ago

The place where fairies live


"What most attracts you to a potential partner/s? Is it reading their profile or is it simply looking at their pics and thinking they’re hot?"

Looks then profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction - looks play a part, but how they interact with me and others is important

Public visibility / representation isn't particularly important to me, but how they act in private is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree. Chemistry is vital as it adds to the excitement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile for me

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

First thing we look for is if they can accommodate, I guess second to that is pictures then bio.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Both I like looks and a mentally stimulating mind and it has to be both for me.

Ok, but if you HAD to choose, would you rather meet with someone who you found physically unattractive but with a gorgeous personality, or someone you found literally drop dead stunning looking but with a horrible personality?"

Neither, I have dildos. But if it was choose or die, and just a one-off, I’d go for the attractive one. If I find someone physically repulsive it doesn’t matter how nice they are, I just won’t be able to have sex with them. However, those two extremes are rare and in the real world, I want a mix of looks and personality. You originally asked pics or profile, I’ve recently deleted messages from several very attractive men because their messages were generic and when I looked at their profiles there was nothing there. I need to be able to have a conversation with someone before I think about meeting them and if I don’t think a conversation is possible, it doesn’t matter how good-looking they are.

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By *uck1buddyMan
over a year ago

midlands

I’ve got chatting to some hot ladies on here but Personality Wise it wasn’t there. I couldn’t find my self sexually attracted to someone with the personality of a fly but the looks of Meganne fox. Has to be a happy medium. But in the past I’ve found myself attracted to people I never thought I would be, further down the line after spending so much time with them (at work etc) and realising they have a great personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile 80 looks 20 Iv never once ever met someone solely based on looks, I have to be stimulated or think there’s something to engage with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve got chatting to some hot ladies on here but Personality Wise it wasn’t there. I couldn’t find my self sexually attracted to someone with the personality of a fly but the looks of Meganne fox. Has to be a happy medium. But in the past I’ve found myself attracted to people I never thought I would be, further down the line after spending so much time with them (at work etc) and realising they have a great personality. "

when someone “isn’t your type” but they grow on and u start to see beautiful things about them the more u learn about them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must be some pretty impressive dildos..

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By *ussexcouple40Couple
over a year ago

Sussex

Profile every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks first then profile . It’s the physical that attracts me first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be both, however, If the profile is ill written or has the ubiquitous "fill in later" we tend to overlook them, no matter how appealing the pics may be..

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