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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi I was just after people's opinions on swinging and kissing.

For me it's quite an essential part of meeting, and love to indulge as much as possible, I think my lips have a direct link to my cock via my brain, I find extremely erotic and sensual.

I appreciate it's not for everyone, but just wondered if it's an acceptable thing to do.

Obviously I would ask first. Any thoughts would be great to hear.

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By *axx82Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

Kissing is essential. Not sure about tongue.

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

We both like kissing xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Most people find kissing essential and won't meet people like us who don't kiss. So you will be fine on that score

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By *oson-BlueCouple
over a year ago

North Kent

Love kissing on a meet its a real turn on

Ms

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By *ullpa72Man
over a year ago

Isle of Arran

love kissing ,hate hurried cum and go type meets .I enjoy the build up way too much not to be kissing and cuddling before and after.

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe


"Hi I was just after people's opinions on swinging and kissing.

For me it's quite an essential part of meeting, and love to indulge as much as possible, I think my lips have a direct link to my cock via my brain, I find extremely erotic and sensual.

I appreciate it's not for everyone, but just wondered if it's an acceptable thing to do.

Obviously I would ask first. Any thoughts would be great to hear."

Love kissing but only with girls and my dog.

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice

Essential and a massive part of the whole arousal process

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it when you find someone that you just need to snog their face off and you just fit right!

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice


"I love it when you find someone that you just need to snog their face off and you just fit right! "

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a must. Biggest part of fore play for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a must big part of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find kissing very important if not essential. I always kiss on meets and usually french xx

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

If you do not want to kiss me then you won't ever get to touch me. Simple.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So it sounds like the general consensus of opinion is that kissing is acceptable to ask about pre meet, and to most people is essential.

Thanks for your replies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both like kissing as we feel its part of the fun

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By *aywalton1Man
over a year ago

Walton on the Hill

I do understand why some couples reserve intimate kissing just for themselves, but for me personally, sex without kissing is a bit like driving with the handbrake on. You are still going to get to the final destination, but the journey is not as enjoyable as it could be!!! Kissing is one of my biggest turn ons, and makes you want what's coming next even more.

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

I love kissing but have found it very difficult to find a good one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have turned down meets before where the lady said she doesn't kiss.

That's a crucial sensual element for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing. It’s very important on meets

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"If you do not want to kiss me then you won't ever get to touch me. Simple."

Exactly this! After the worst meet I ever had, where the female didn’t kiss others, I always ask up front, and won’t meet people who don’t

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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago

London/ South West (Devon, Somerset).

Have to kiss, love it.

Later in the meet it’s also nice when she’s kissing and passing something back to you!!!

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

nr stonehaven

If you're not going to kiss, then why do the rest

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"If you're not going to kiss, then why do the rest "

Why not?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"So it sounds like the general consensus of opinion is that kissing is acceptable to ask about pre meet, and to most people is essential.

Thanks for your replies."

Yes there have been loads of threads on the subject. You are best off asking if it's something that's vital for you. We mention in our profile that we don't kiss other people passionately it gives everyone the choice then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi I was just after people's opinions on swinging and kissing.

For me it's quite an essential part of meeting, and love to indulge as much as possible, I think my lips have a direct link to my cock via my brain, I find extremely erotic and sensual.

I appreciate it's not for everyone, but just wondered if it's an acceptable thing to do.

Obviously I would ask first. Any thoughts would be great to hear."

What's this... Swingakissathon. Count me in for snogging..

Its best part.

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

Kissing is fundamental

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a good kiss it’s sends tingles around my body

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I love kiss and is a must defenitly is a must , kiss to me is much important as sex

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By *entlecaressMan
over a year ago

Wakefield/ Beverley

Kissing is so sensuous for me and I love it so yes a major part of my play meets.

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By *man91Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Kissing usually just makes the whole experience of a meet so much better for me.

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

I find kissing to be an important aspect it can also be an icebreaker, often after that first kiss people relax more but then I do also enjoy the build up to that very first kiss.

I personally think without kissing it's too clinical and don't think I could meet with someone who doesn't kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i dont fancy the guy enought to kiss then im not meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good kissing is essential

Wet and sloppy

No thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a few things that are strictly off limits and just for us... Kissing is not one of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing it is essential

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi I was just after people's opinions on swinging and kissing.

For me it's quite an essential part of meeting, and love to indulge as much as possible, I think my lips have a direct link to my cock via my brain, I find extremely erotic and sensual.

I appreciate it's not for everyone, but just wondered if it's an acceptable thing to do.

Obviously I would ask first. Any thoughts would be great to hear."

Looks like it's just me who doesn't lol, I find kissing more intimate that sex, just something I reserve just for us. We have kissed at meets, just think some things need reserving. Bit totally get why people like it x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hi I was just after people's opinions on swinging and kissing.

For me it's quite an essential part of meeting, and love to indulge as much as possible, I think my lips have a direct link to my cock via my brain, I find extremely erotic and sensual.

I appreciate it's not for everyone, but just wondered if it's an acceptable thing to do.

Obviously I would ask first. Any thoughts would be great to hear.

Looks like it's just me who doesn't lol, I find kissing more intimate that sex, just something I reserve just for us. We have kissed at meets, just think some things need reserving. Bit totally get why people like it x"

Not just you. We don't kiss other people either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find kissing an amazing turn on and it just seems the right natural thing to do when having sex. I understand people’s views about it being intimate but you’re literally inside each other!

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By *ncemoreroundthesunCouple
over a year ago

on the move

It's a must for us. Don't meet non kissers.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"If you're not going to kiss, then why do the rest

Why not? "

Sex is just a detached, mechanical act, without the intimacy of kissing, in my opinion. Each to their own though

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

Definitely a must for me, certainly raises the pulse and level of sexual tension.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is essential for us, and be adept at it too. A washing machine we are not

Always wonder if the kissing is poor is the oral likely to mirror it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We choose to keep kissing between us as that’s an intimate part of our relationship we choose to keep those feelings separate. Prefer playing and having sex in front of other couples and soft swap. Kissing others is obviously very popular and is sexy but conscious the intimacy needs to be separate for us. Mr S

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We choose to keep kissing between us as that’s an intimate part of our relationship we choose to keep those feelings separate. Prefer playing and having sex in front of other couples and soft swap. Kissing others is obviously very popular and is sexy but conscious the intimacy needs to be separate for us. Mr S"

That's a boundary you choose to have in place, you don't need to justify it. Some people need intimacy to have sex but we don't find it necessary and don't think it possible to establish proper intimacy with a casual partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We choose to keep kissing between us as that’s an intimate part of our relationship we choose to keep those feelings separate. Prefer playing and having sex in front of other couples and soft swap. Kissing others is obviously very popular and is sexy but conscious the intimacy needs to be separate for us. Mr S"

Fully agree, thought it was just us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all starts with a snog. Just my personal preference but if I can't kiss you, I'm not having sex with you.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"It all starts with a snog. Just my personal preference but if I can't kiss you, I'm not having sex with you. "

Absolutely the same here

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By *ammy lynWoman
over a year ago

Stoke-on-trent


"It all starts with a snog. Just my personal preference but if I can't kiss you, I'm not having sex with you. "

I feel exactly the same, kissing is a major turn on for me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love the static build up and the anticipation before the lips meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing, for me, is more intimate than sex, and can be extremely horny. Soft, hard, slow or fast, its the closeness, eye contact and feeling the other person breathing on your skin.

Absolutely love a good kiss!

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By *on_ducor_ducoWoman
over a year ago

Rock and a hard place


"Kissing, for me, is more intimate than sex, and can be extremely horny. Soft, hard, slow or fast, its the closeness, eye contact and feeling the other person breathing on your skin.

Absolutely love a good kiss! "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kiss... or go home!

It's so many things. It is a connection, and indicator, a barometer of the feelings between you, and while it is a portal to pleasure, it's also a pleasure in itself. The soft touch of lips, the tenderness of tongues, the tempo, the breathing, the tingles that rush through your body... I love kissing, and sex without kissing is not the same for me.

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By *ustyshowoffCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

Kissing is a big turn in for us

Jxx

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By *inkyKittyWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

It’s hard when you’re all in the mood, then things get horny... the first thing I want to do is kiss.

Personally I wouldn’t meet those that don’t, as I feel awkward like I’m not enjoying myself and just going through the motions

I’d be interested to hear what the other side of the fence think, as I be curious to know if they too also feel awkward when playing ?

Going off topic slightly, how about meeting for foreplay only (aimed more at the singletons meeting one on one)?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s hard when you’re all in the mood, then things get horny... the first thing I want to do is kiss.

Personally I wouldn’t meet those that don’t, as I feel awkward like I’m not enjoying myself and just going through the motions

I’d be interested to hear what the other side of the fence think, as I be curious to know if they too also feel awkward when playing ?

Going off topic slightly, how about meeting for foreplay only (aimed more at the singletons meeting one on one)?! "

Foreplay meets are absolutely acceptable for me. The orgasm from oral are explosive!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've met a couple previously where the only kissing they'd do was fem to fem. Kissing was reserved for them as a couple which we respect and appreciate. Don't think we'd meet another couple with no kissing though. For us both kissing is part of the foreplay. Kissing is what gets us aroused. It felt sterile fucking them but not being able to kiss them.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

It’s essential for us, lots of kissing is all part of a lusty meet, without it it seems passionless and clinical.

But that’s our preference, and we can understand why it’s not one everyone shares.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It’s hard when you’re all in the mood, then things get horny... the first thing I want to do is kiss.

Personally I wouldn’t meet those that don’t, as I feel awkward like I’m not enjoying myself and just going through the motions

I’d be interested to hear what the other side of the fence think, as I be curious to know if they too also feel awkward when playing ?

Going off topic slightly, how about meeting for foreplay only (aimed more at the singletons meeting one on one)?! "

By other side of the fence do you mean those of us who don't kiss? We wouldn't meet people if it felt awkward. Not one single man we've met has insisted that I kiss him before I put his cock in my mouth and if they've felt awkward about it they've done a very good job of disguising it.

Do people kiss at gang bangs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s hard when you’re all in the mood, then things get horny... the first thing I want to do is kiss.

Personally I wouldn’t meet those that don’t, as I feel awkward like I’m not enjoying myself and just going through the motions

I’d be interested to hear what the other side of the fence think, as I be curious to know if they too also feel awkward when playing ?

Going off topic slightly, how about meeting for foreplay only (aimed more at the singletons meeting one on one)?!

By other side of the fence do you mean those of us who don't kiss? We wouldn't meet people if it felt awkward. Not one single man we've met has insisted that I kiss him before I put his cock in my mouth and if they've felt awkward about it they've done a very good job of disguising it.

Do people kiss at gang bangs? "

True, but the percentage that actually partake in gangbangs is we suspect quite low too?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It’s hard when you’re all in the mood, then things get horny... the first thing I want to do is kiss.

Personally I wouldn’t meet those that don’t, as I feel awkward like I’m not enjoying myself and just going through the motions

I’d be interested to hear what the other side of the fence think, as I be curious to know if they too also feel awkward when playing ?

Going off topic slightly, how about meeting for foreplay only (aimed more at the singletons meeting one on one)?!

By other side of the fence do you mean those of us who don't kiss? We wouldn't meet people if it felt awkward. Not one single man we've met has insisted that I kiss him before I put his cock in my mouth and if they've felt awkward about it they've done a very good job of disguising it.

Do people kiss at gang bangs?

True, but the percentage that actually partake in gangbangs is we suspect quite low too?"

Yes it probably is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s hard when you’re all in the mood, then things get horny... the first thing I want to do is kiss.

Personally I wouldn’t meet those that don’t, as I feel awkward like I’m not enjoying myself and just going through the motions

I’d be interested to hear what the other side of the fence think, as I be curious to know if they too also feel awkward when playing ?

Going off topic slightly, how about meeting for foreplay only (aimed more at the singletons meeting one on one)?!

By other side of the fence do you mean those of us who don't kiss? We wouldn't meet people if it felt awkward. Not one single man we've met has insisted that I kiss him before I put his cock in my mouth and if they've felt awkward about it they've done a very good job of disguising it.

Do people kiss at gang bangs? "

Great comment x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a good snog!

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By *uncpl187Couple
over a year ago

Ramsgate

Kissing is all part of the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had meets with no kissing, but much prefer them with.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Kissing is a must. especially before and after a deep long sensual one. When you can feel she is into really in to it and you bite the bottom lip at the end of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is overrated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing on a swinging meet is like steak sauce...

I can still enjoy my steak with or without it....

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Remember a three way kiss that was very erotic.

Never stopped kiss since.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

I love kissing.

It really builds up the arousal levels and makes the sex much more passionate.

If I haven't got that passion and connection, I may as well just use my hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to kiss. It is all part of the meet xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both enjoy kissing... It's really important for us. Love seeing cherry kiss another guy.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

We both love kissing others. Its really a big part of it for us.

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By *willMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

No Kissing no Fucky with me x

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Massive fan of kissing x

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