FabSwingers.com forum: Women that have had kids.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A question predominantly aimed at the fellas.

Can you honestly tell the difference between a female thats had children to one that hasnt during penetrative sex and why are some men so put off by it if you can ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are men put off by it? Can they really tell? I couldn't give a toss and tbh the sight of stretch marks turns me on no end. I think the idea that you're somehow looser is absolute guff.

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

Nope, but some women do get very self conscious about this sort of thing.

If a play partner is wondering about whether a certain lady has had children during a meet, then they’re probably not the right play partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A question predominantly aimed at the fellas.

Can you honestly tell the difference between a female thats had children to one that hasnt during penetrative sex and why are some men so put off by it if you can ??"

Real men like real women of all shapes and sizes. I have never come across a man who has said he doesn’t have sex with a woman who has given birth.

I am all for women and men having preferences but saying something like that is rather abusive in my view.

Move on from anyone who says that and don’t give them the time of day, or suggest they save up for a sex doll if they want a virgin.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There is definitely a stigma attached to women apparently being looser after having children

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

New one on me: never heard of a man turning down pussy because a baby had come out of it!

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By *ranfondoMan
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

I would say there is nothing in it...comparing a fabber friend who had never had children & another who had 3 children, both different figures which also has nowt to do with it of course....who cares really...

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"There is definitely a stigma attached to women apparently being looser after having children

Maybe your age and younger , not at our age , it’s the norm. Met one that opted to pay for c sections to keep things neater, I didn't think much of her as a person but yes it was tighter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a mum and guys regularly comment that I'm very tight. I was worried after birth and asked my husband when we started having sex again xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm a mum and guys regularly comment that I'm very tight. I was worried after birth and asked my husband when we started having sex again xx"

Exactly the same for me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To this day I'm yet to have sex with a woman and think fuckinh hell she is lose more often I think they are tight maybe I'm wrong but it's not like I'm.throwing a sausage up the m5 is it lol

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I'd say you can tell but not for the reason I think the OP means.

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

I have predominately played with married women who've had children, and some single mums too - and never noticed anything different in 'that department'... :-0

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"There is definitely a stigma attached to women apparently being looser after having children

Maybe your age and younger , not at our age , it’s the norm. Met one that opted to pay for c sections to keep things neater, I didn't think much of her as a person but yes it was tighter. "

I had two children and until recently, had damage due to it (finally repaired in August after 18yrs). Even with the damage, it's always been commented on that I'm tight. I haven't come across any stigma.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it says more around the male insecurities and ego, if they ‘think’ it’s an issue!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd say you can tell but not for the reason I think the OP means."

So for what reasons to do think you can tell lovely

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"There is definitely a stigma attached to women apparently being looser after having children

Could be an age thing and the porn generation, the unrealistic image of how bodies should look I guess.

Life experiences with "real" woman opposed to Instagram vixens soon change that.

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich

No it makes little to no difference.

We have kids and we also enjoy fisting but Babygirls pussy and still be so tight she can squeeze ny soul out of my cock.

Although i love fucking her feshly fisted slack pussy.

It always goes back to nornal

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

No I can't tell the difference at all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There is definitely a stigma attached to women apparently being looser after having children

Could be an age thing and the porn generation, the unrealistic image of how bodies should look I guess.

Life experiences with "real" woman opposed to Instagram vixens soon change that."

Totally agree id much rather be a 'real' woman anyday

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"I'd say you can tell but not for the reason I think the OP means.

So for what reasons to do think you can tell lovely

In my experience woman that have had kids are a lot better. They know a good hard fuck won't break anything

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I'm a mum and guys regularly comment that I'm very tight. I was worried after birth and asked my husband when we started having sex again xx"

Have to say that's a conversation I never had with my husband as didn't even think about it let alone worry.

Had first child naturally at 22 the other three were c-sections.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is definitely a stigma attached to women apparently being looser after having children

I can honestly say I’ve never cared. I’ve had sex with women without children who aren’t as tight as some who have had them. It’s legitimately irrelevant in my mind and from what I’ve seen/heard I couldn’t have told you there was any stigma. A few women have mentioned it but that would more be their own misconceptions and worries which I’d always try to alleviate

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd say you can tell but not for the reason I think the OP means.

So for what reasons to do think you can tell lovely

In my experience woman that have had kids are a lot better. They know a good hard fuck won't break anything

Lol class answer

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"There is definitely a stigma attached to women apparently being looser after having children

Or a misconception probably from people watching too much porn and becoming ignorant about such things, that such things become a 'stigma' or even a thing to think about in a relationship is a dad sign of the times..

Him..

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"There is definitely a stigma attached to women apparently being looser after having children

Him.."

Sad not dad..

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

Every woman is different... one of the tightest pussies I’ve been inside belonged to a mother of 3... one of the “more accommodating “ was completely child free... and honestly I don’t care either way as long as they’re a friendly person and we’re having fun

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

"A question predominantly aimed at the fellas.

Can you honestly tell the difference between a female thats had children to one that hasnt during penetrative sex and why are some men so put off by it if you can ??"

I have four kids. I can’t tell any difference.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"I'd say you can tell but not for the reason I think the OP means.

So for what reasons to do think you can tell lovely

In my experience woman that have had kids are a lot better. They know a good hard fuck won't break anything

Lol class answer

A 'real world' answer as far as I know, there have been a couple of exceptions to prove the rule but that it what I have found

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"There is definitely a stigma attached to women apparently being looser after having children

Him..

Sad not dad.."

I knew what you meant...and agree.

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By *ill67Man
over a year ago

alloa

can safely say never felt a difference either way younger or older women and never bothered either way well looked after trimmed or bald interests me more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, you can tell but it is absolutely fine. Miss B hasn’t had kids and has the tightest pussy I’ve ever had mmm. She suggests for her pussy to remain tight she wouldn’t want to give birth naturally. Her pussy grips my cock like I’m going no where once she has her wicked way

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Yes, you can tell but it is absolutely fine. Miss B hasn’t had kids and has the tightest pussy I’ve ever had mmm. She suggests for her pussy to remain tight she wouldn’t want to give birth naturally. Her pussy grips my cock like I’m going no where once she has her wicked way

Having a C section might not avoid changes to the vagina. Just the weight of carrying pregnancy can change the pelvic floor muscles and result in things like prolapse and other issues. So can not having babies to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sadly yeah not only vaginal deliveries can cause a problem within the pelvic floor etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if someone is worried about the fact you be had kids or not, how tight you are or that you have any marks would suggest they:

A) Do not understand how female physiology works

B) That any scarring on a body is the story of their life and those marks are something that hopefully brought a lot more happiness and joy into their lives than the person complaining can ever offer.

If that is an issue for someone, they are not for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think if someone is worried about the fact you be had kids or not, how tight you are or that you have any marks would suggest they:

A) Do not understand how female physiology works

If that is an issue for someone, they are not for you. "

Great reply totally agree

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By *nigmatic_AngelWoman
over a year ago

The place where fairies live

"A question predominantly aimed at the fellas.

Can you honestly tell the difference between a female thats had children to one that hasnt during penetrative sex and why are some men so put off by it if you can ??"

I've had a hysterectomy and while. He was down there he did a little nip and tuck.

Fresh as a daisy now

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By *ynetaurusMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

On a lighter note fellas...You spend nine months trying to get out and the rest of your life trying to get back in !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like loose women.

I actually know a woman that's not had children and she takes a good fisting and my ex who's had 4 is just right when wet.

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By *nigmatic_AngelWoman
over a year ago

The place where fairies live

Pelvic floor exercises can have a great effect on the vagina

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A question predominantly aimed at the fellas.

Can you honestly tell the difference between a female thats had children to one that hasnt during penetrative sex and why are some men so put off by it if you can ??

I've had a hysterectomy and while. He was down there he did a little nip and tuck.

Fresh as a daisy now

Really glad for you

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By *nigmatic_AngelWoman
over a year ago

The place where fairies live

"A question predominantly aimed at the fellas.

Can you honestly tell the difference between a female thats had children to one that hasnt during penetrative sex and why are some men so put off by it if you can ??

I've had a hysterectomy and while. He was down there he did a little nip and tuck.

Fresh as a daisy now

Really glad for you

Well tbh it's always felt amazing for me but for my FB..... It's pretty great for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A question predominantly aimed at the fellas.

Can you honestly tell the difference between a female thats had children to one that hasnt during penetrative sex and why are some men so put off by it if you can ??"

No and no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A question predominantly aimed at the fellas.

Can you honestly tell the difference between a female thats had children to one that hasnt during penetrative sex and why are some men so put off by it if you can ??

I've had a hysterectomy and while. He was down there he did a little nip and tuck.

Fresh as a daisy now

Really glad for you

Well tbh it's always felt amazing for me but for my FB..... It's pretty great for them

Yeah i bet lol

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"There is definitely a stigma attached to women apparently being looser after having children

Him..

Sad not dad..

I knew what you meant...and agree."

Is it a single or shallow male thing I wonder, most men in a relationship who have been there for the pregnancy and the birth are just relieved and thankful that all is well after..

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

Pelvic floor exercises can have a great effect on the vagina

exactly!!!!! and even at 61 and had 2 kids I still dont need tena!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely no that's a very outdated opinion well at least I thought it was.

Some males only feel potentially threatened by the VWE males a female could've had in the past.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I trust she'll pay for a c section then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, but some women do get very self conscious about this sort of thing.

If a play partner is wondering about whether a certain lady has had children during a meet, then they’re probably not the right play partner."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some males only feel potentially threatened by the VWE males a female could've had in the past."

Spot on.

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By *iscreet-is-paramountMan
over a year ago

somewhere only we know.

Only difference I notice is a bit of tummy or odd stretch mark. Wouldn't say because they've had kids it's like a gaping cavern.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No difference whatsoever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A question predominantly aimed at the fellas.

Can you honestly tell the difference between a female thats had children to one that hasnt during penetrative sex and why are some men so put off by it if you can ??"

Im unaware if men being put off by this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is definitely a stigma attached to women apparently being looser after having children

As others have stated..Who cares..?

Invite another male if the 'accommodation' will allow and discuss its' benefits..

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By *ocksareoffMan
over a year ago

Out n About

"There is definitely a stigma attached to women apparently being looser after having children

Men who think that women are looser are very narrow minded plonkers to put it mildly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think if a man is asking these questions he is really not the right person for any woman i would hope a true gent would not be so rude to ask , and for the original question no you can't tell the diffrence , if he dose say anything its because he's got a pencil dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I tell? Sometimes yes.

Does it stop me from being attracted and wanting to play? Absolutely not.

I think it also matters how many kids, I've known few women with say 1 or 2 kids where it made much discernable difference. But one former playmate had 5 and suffice it to say that there wasn't a whole lot of stretching going on. Still a great playmate though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can I tell? Sometimes yes.

Does it stop me from being attracted and wanting to play? Absolutely not.

So do you think from either of those that if you didnt know for a fact they had children u would still have that same conclusion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I tell? Sometimes yes.

Does it stop me from being attracted and wanting to play? Absolutely not.

So do you think from either of those that if you didnt know for a fact they had children u would still have that same conclusion "

Well, I mean it's difficult to speak in hypotheticals about what I might have thought had I not known but what I would say is that certainly the vast majority of mothers I've fucked (yes, evidently I'm a motherfucker haha) I wouldn't have assumed they had had kids if I didn't know, because for those women there was no evidence to assume from.

But there are a few where it would have been an assumption that they probably had kids due to physical attributes. The alternative interpretation simply being that they naturally had gigantic vaginas and other things. Which is of course also possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the only stigma attached to us it the same stigma attached to men without 10in cocks.

Ie its all in your head. Most people won't turn down someone for that. Some may but that's a filter that those are people you dont want to meet anyhow

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Not at all. It all part of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never told a difference by feel or sensation tbh, have had discomfort from touching a woman's coil in some deep pen positions though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can tell the difference before I have sex with a woman. I ask her and she tells me.

I suspect the men put off by it are also the men who speak of "a female thats had children" instead of "a women who has had children". But that's just me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I asked my mother once. She had five kids, four of us were born naturally. I knew that the 'giving birth stretches out and 'ruins' a vagina' was a myth but was just curious as to whether she felt any different after multiple births.

She said no and that no partner has ever commented on it.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I find they seem to be the same type of guy that thinks having a lot of sex it loose.

i.e. immature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only time I felt a difference with a woman, was after we had got out the big toys.

But she still squeezed very tightly during her orgasm.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I can tell the difference before I have sex with a woman. I ask her and she tells me.

Why do you feel the need to ask her ?

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

Every woman is different (the same as every man is different) so you'd never get the same experience with one as another regardless.

If there is a difference (and I've not noticed one) after childbirth how could you tell unless it was comparing before and after with the same woman?

The only way to really try and show if anyone can tell is by doing a "pepsi challenge" type glory hole experiment.

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By *oxyVikingCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia

"A question predominantly aimed at the fellas.

Can you honestly tell the difference between a female thats had children to one that hasnt during penetrative sex and why are some men so put off by it if you can ??"

Off subject, but OP your bum is incredible! Wow x

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"I think if someone is worried about the fact you be had kids or not, how tight you are or that you have any marks would suggest they:

A) Do not understand how female physiology works

If that is an issue for someone, they are not for you. "

Don’t you know fab is full of experts on female anatomy and physiology ?

There is actually an expert on here, but she won’t comment for professional reasons , she does amazing work for women’s health in the private sector. Stuff that GPs just dismiss as normal after having kids or you wait years and years like another poster above said. Having kids changes your body , it would be bloody weird if you grow and could push them things out with no impact....

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I think if someone is worried about the fact you be had kids or not, how tight you are or that you have any marks would suggest they:

A) Do not understand how female physiology works

If that is an issue for someone, they are not for you.

Don’t you know fab is full of experts on female anatomy and physiology ?

The dismissiveness of the "experts" is why it took 18yrs for my childbirth related damage to be repaired. In that time, I suffered considerably to the point where I could no longer go to the toilet without aid, and even then I couldn't "go" properly. But apparently that's normal

Most of the damage is now fixed and it's like I have a new lease of life. I can go to the loo in a couple of minutes, rather than half an hour or more. I still have uterine prolapse but I manage that with a medical device. I can have a normal and very satisfying sex life and most people would never know about any of my issues unless told (or they feel the device).

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A question predominantly aimed at the fellas.

Can you honestly tell the difference between a female thats had children to one that hasnt during penetrative sex and why are some men so put off by it if you can ??

Off subject, but OP your bum is incredible! Wow x

Thankyou

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

No difference whatsoever but you get silly guys who believe a woman with four kids has a loose vagina because of that fact, ridiculous. You can educate them till you're blue in the face with pelvic floor exercises, natural muscle retention, whatever, and they still won't believe it. I (he) use the 'woman with four kids' example because the tightest woman I've ever been with had four children, go figure. It's a silly assumption.

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By *rJonesx30Man
over a year ago

Barcelna - London

I love moms, not only because of their pussy feeling but because of their naughtiness and sexual apettite.

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

I don’t give a damn if they’ve had kids or not. Everybody’s different in lots of ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol

What a load of bollocks...

Well if it puts them off great, more for me

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Never found any difference. My favourite lady had three and she was perfect in my eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A question predominantly aimed at the fellas.

Can you honestly tell the difference between a female thats had children to one that hasnt during penetrative sex and why are some men so put off by it if you can ??"

My bits down there have definitely changed. I had my first by c section and then second vaginal and had a 3rd degree tear so had to be sewn up!

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

There's always Thier asshole if fanny is too baggy

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By *fter dinner delightCouple
over a year ago

bury st edmunds/london

Ben here I say yes pussy is a lot toghter

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By *aneyyMan
over a year ago

london

I sorta feel that guys saying they don’t notice a difference ( if it’s a long term partner) are being diplomatic. Some, I believe can be tighter, if they had to have stitching done? But I personally could tell.

Although if it’s the first time meeting somone or someone I’ve not met frequently I don’t think I could really notice as I don’t have a proper before reference. All that aside I feel a lot of women notice a difference after themselves anyway. Correct me if I’m wrong.

Honestly though I don’t think it’s anything to worry about at all. An ex of mine was very tight, a fwb I felt was a lot looser. Neither had had kids. Everyone is different. Embrace it x

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I sorta feel that guys saying they don’t notice a difference ( if it’s a long term partner) are being diplomatic. Some, I believe can be tighter, if they had to have stitching done? But I personally could tell.

Honestly though I don’t think it’s anything to worry about at all. An ex of mine was very tight, a fwb I felt was a lot looser. Neither had had kids. Everyone is different. Embrace it x"

Being stitched after childbirth has bugger all to do with tightness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all and im be honest have been with a hell.of alot of women. Ive found gym girls/yoga goers have the tightest foofs.

The tightest women ive been with is a friend thats had 4 kids naturally but does yoga and is a daily gym goer.

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By *aneyyMan
over a year ago

london

I Meant the sensation of it being tighter as scar tissue doesn’t stretch as well. ( for women)

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I Meant the sensation of it being tighter as scar tissue doesn’t stretch as well. ( for women) "

Inflexible scar tissue also hurts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

J was worried about this after she had the kids too. Kept saying sorry I am not tight anymore.

But I couldn’t tell the difference and also enjoy stretching her anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have 2 children. Both by c-section.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had my son at a young age and I believe that makes a difference in how things bounce back. I’ve been told by quite a few sexual partners that I feel right, and I don’t think it‘s purely down to flattery as my last sexual partner wouldn’t have understood flattery if it hit Him in the face an he said it too.

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By *andy2Man
over a year ago

Ealing

No I couldn’t but appreciate the mores spacious ones

Seem to be more juicy

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By *iL DeVeLWoman
over a year ago

Luton

Just one thing to say on this.....Pelvic floor exercises.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Just one thing to say on this.....Pelvic floor exercises. "

Only work if your pelvic floor muscles are intact and/or your prolapse isn't below the pelvic floor muscles

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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago

ribble valley

Hell yeah! The ex wife went from a "mouses ear" to a "wizards sleeve"

Very disappointed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A question predominantly aimed at the fellas.

Can you honestly tell the difference between a female thats had children to one that hasnt during penetrative sex and why are some men so put off by it if you can ??"

Never been able to tell, I think men just assume that a lady eho has had children is not going to be as tight as they would like...

We all know that just like dicks, all vaginas are different. I have been with someone who has had 3 children and she was as tight as anything, then again I have been with someone who hasn't had children and she was quite loose...

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

Personally I think it's rubbish. I doubt many would be able to tell the difference.

I used to play with someone who enjoyed fisting on a regular basis. The only thing she would insist on is cumming after a fisting as she felt it tightened her back up. Couldn't say if it was true but she pretty tight regardless. Plus she'd had two children. I would suggest it was someone who didn't really know what they were talking about. Unless there were extreme complications in giving birth, perhaps.

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By *ewhorizonsCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

After our child was born my wife wasn’t as tight as before. It was marginal and if anything helped me last a bit longer so nothing lost really.

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"A question predominantly aimed at the fellas.

Can you honestly tell the difference between a female thats had children to one that hasnt during penetrative sex and why are some men so put off by it if you can ??"

If your fucking her in the maternity ward then yes you can tell

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By *olidOak85Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Pelvic floor exercises can have a great effect on the vagina

This has prompted me to get squeezing

Every woman's body is different isn't it, unique and more perfect than you yourself might think. I've had a couple of c-sections myself and come complete with body hangups from my mahoosive babies (there was no way my 10lb 3-er was coming outta me naturally!), which the amazing man next to me (snoring his head off and not letting me chuffing sleep

) is helping me overcome. Being on this site has really opened my eyes as to how different, unique and beautiful people are in their their own way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't tell the difference. Every woman is different. I wouldn't ever say to a woman either

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By *alter2911Man
over a year ago

London

Yes it does feel different but sex is 10% friction 99% in the mind ..... they do return to near normal With exercise

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I've never been noticed any difference. I know a woman with two children whose tight. The loosest I have ever come across had not had any kids.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never heard of it ,and my take on it is a boy comes out of a vagina and he spends half of his adult life trying to get back in one

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By *outhbucksCouple
over a year ago

Great Missenden

I (Mr S) delivered one of our children unaided as we had no time to even get downstairs, so I have seen close up Mrs S' body do amazing things. It has never put me off though.

I loved Robbie Williams comment on watching the birth of one his children - 'it was like watching my favourite pub burn down'

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Doesn't bother me x

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"There is definitely a stigma attached to women apparently being looser after having children

Him..

Sad not dad..

I knew what you meant...and agree.

Is it a single or shallow male thing I wonder, most men in a relationship who have been there for the pregnancy and the birth are just relieved and thankful that all is well after..

Some of the replies on here shows it's not just single males. If woman are planning not to have a vaginal birth to stay tight for their man...well...each to their own!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All woman are different, I don't see what all the hype is about. If one exercises their pelvic floor, a man will be none the wiser. Lets be honest, they all fit.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

perhaps the men that think things have been "stretched" and just extra small?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you tell if a woman has given birth? Well yes & no I guess - everyone is different, and vaginas stretch & change over a woman's lifetime anyway.

Penises are different shapes & sizes, and so are the internal workings of vaginas.

Some women who've had children, you'd have no way of knowing - others you can tell pretty much immediately.

I think the point is that everyone is different, and that's OK.

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By *ubyRonCouple
over a year ago

Lancashire

I'd say it's better if I'm honest. But not really noticeable. Ruby still makes me cum whatever the weather

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pelvic floor exercise work wonders!

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

Have any of you ladies given your man a Singapore grip ?

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By *aneyyMan
over a year ago

london

"perhaps the men that think things have been "stretched" and just extra small?"

So they got smaller after the female had a child? Loool

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By *orneycouple18Couple
over a year ago

Eastleigh

I think it would be an amazing test, for one of these so called “men” who believe this rubbish..... to have sex with a lady who has had children to find the opinion afterwards before telling him that the children were all c-sections!

If a “man” said anything like this to me I would walk on!

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By *had0wMan
over a year ago

Southampton

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By *had0wMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Every tigress has stripes

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

"Hell yeah! The ex wife went from a "mouses ear" to a "wizards sleeve"

Very disappointed!

I expect she was disappointed in you for that comment

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By *eas and RiceMan
over a year ago

WEST MIDLANDS

I've never noticed any difference tbf anyway it shouldn't make a difference if you like the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Father of 3 boys with ex wife and found no noticeable difference in tightness.

I had the snip after number 3 and no loss in volume of cum (a work colleague honestly asked me if I still cum after it)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't say I've ever noticed. Nor would it even occur to me, mid-deed, to ask '2 or 3 kids, dear?'.

Think I'm going to call bullshit on this one. I've never even asked a play partner if they have kids unless I'm thinking about a long term relationship and then it's because I way to get to know everything about them.

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By *ooneyCouple
over a year ago

Chester

I actually prefer the post effects of childbirth of a women especially sexy and I have done since first liaison with a single mum a long time ago, love the tummy the boobs and everything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had a guy say I'm loose, but if they did, I'd ask them are you sure it's not your grith

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I only look into eyes, the sensations match the dilation, oh, her eyes.

Never known a lady who climaxed who doesn’t clinch, children, or not.

The lady’s reaction is the best bit.

Not if they have had children it not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read this and thought my god I now feel really self conscious because I’ve had 4 vaginal births...... then I thought actually who cares because I created life that’s more important than whether my vagina is as tight as it was. If men have an issue with that then that’s their problem Not mine. Plus there is always a way around that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a woman has kids, you know she'll put out

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"If a woman has kids, you know she'll put out"

When a man speaks like that, you know a wide berth is best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a woman has kids, you know she'll put out"

Not with someone with that attitude.... we do have standards

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

"If a woman has kids, you know she'll put out"
put out what ?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"If a woman has kids, you know she'll put output out what ? "

His lights if he said that in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a woman has kids, you know she'll put output out what ?

His lights if he said that in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good Lord I was just kidding way too much sensitivity up in here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good Lord I was just kidding way too much sensitivity up in here

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By *otwife and MasterCouple
over a year ago

Derby

Women get enough body shaming as is. I don't understand why someone would post this really.

Mrs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every one is body shamed whether you are a woman or not....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A question predominantly aimed at the fellas.

Can you honestly tell the difference between a female thats had children to one that hasnt during penetrative sex and why are some men so put off by it if you can ??"

No, absolutely no difference whatsoever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes you can tell the difference, but like in life nothing is the same. I prefer having sex with women who have had kids and I think most men do! And the reason well let's get it right.. women who have had kids are less self conscious in the bedroom in my opinion....im having an affair with a woman at the minute and she's a mummy by day and in her words a free agent and naughty mummy when we meet.

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