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By *ikingCool OP   Man
over a year ago

carmarthen

What is everyons thoughts on this'if you had been chatting to a couple on here who wanted a single guy or couple to join them, there profile said straight, you got on so well and arranged a meeting but they mentioned that they would like the guys to touch and do oral would you still meet and if so does this make you bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is everyons thoughts on this'if you had been chatting to a couple on here who wanted a single guy or couple to join them, there profile said straight, you got on so well and arranged a meeting but they mentioned that they would like the guys to touch and do oral would you still meet and if so does this make you bi. "

Only do it if it turns you on, and if it does, then maybe your bi yes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd definitely be happy to try it if the mood took me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bi anyway so not a problem. The "couples" I do have a problem with are the ones where they want me to meet the guy alone first, or where suddenly they decide that the woman "only meets women". Honesty is the best policy from the start!

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By *nique_78Woman
over a year ago

Home, somewhere in Norfolk


"What is everyons thoughts on this'if you had been chatting to a couple on here who wanted a single guy or couple to join them, there profile said straight, you got on so well and arranged a meeting but they mentioned that they would like the guys to touch and do oral would you still meet and if so does this make you bi. "

It's your personal preference, so don't feel like you have to take part playing with their male partner.

If you find the idea hot, you might be bi curious...in my opinion bisexual is when you've experienced penetrative sex and choose to continue having it going forward.

focus on enjoyment rather than labels

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By *ikingCool OP   Man
over a year ago

carmarthen

I agree, that is a good Way to look at it thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, ditch the labels, go with what feels right and dont be afraid to cross swords! Being opportunistically a bit bi is quite different from actively seeking. Be honest with them about where you're at and let your cock lead the way x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had straight on here (male) but have changed to bi curious. Some couples are put off by bi guys , recently had a bit of bi fun and hence changed my profile , even if I dont always play bi

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By *iscreet-is-paramountMan
over a year ago

travel around a lot.

Plenty of cpls do this and attempt to "trap" men into meet8ng with the allure of a sexy wife. Full marks....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would all depend on whether there was an attraction

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By *uncpl187Couple
over a year ago

Ramsgate

Bi or not to Bi that is the question

Answer... Does it really matter? If you feel comfortable in yourself then everything is good.

I tried it with a guy because my wife wanted me to, and I thought it was good.

I don't find men attractive but fun is fun. Just go with what you feel is comfortable for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is everyons thoughts on this'if you had been chatting to a couple on here who wanted a single guy or couple to join them, there profile said straight, you got on so well and arranged a meeting but they mentioned that they would like the guys to touch and do oral would you still meet and if so does this make you bi.

It's your personal preference, so don't feel like you have to take part playing with their male partner.

If you find the idea hot, you might be bi curious...in my opinion bisexual is when you've experienced penetrative sex and choose to continue having it going forward.

focus on enjoyment rather than labels"

Exactly...Labels are bad...

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By *ullpa72Man
over a year ago

Isle of Arran


"I'm bi anyway so not a problem. The "couples" I do have a problem with are the ones where they want me to meet the guy alone first, or where suddenly they decide that the woman "only meets women". Honesty is the best policy from the start!"
Absolutely right ,let's forget all the labels and just be honest with what we want/like .

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"What is everyons thoughts on this'if you had been chatting to a couple on here who wanted a single guy or couple to join them, there profile said straight, you got on so well and arranged a meeting but they mentioned that they would like the guys to touch and do oral would you still meet and if so does this make you bi. "

If the oral was his finger or toes would that be a bisexual act ?

Two men cuddling whilst naked a bisexual act ?

Kiss a guy on the lips but no tongue a bisexual act ?

Kiss a guy with tongue a bisexual act ?

Kiss a guy and actually fancy him a bisexual or gay act ?

Put on a strap on and fuck him up the arse a bisexual act ?

Put your cock up his ass etc...

You decide, as you could ask these questions and plenty of people would agree all are bisexual acts or only some of them. Who knows and to be honest if someone else is judging or cares on your behalf..fuck them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is everyons thoughts on this'if you had been chatting to a couple on here who wanted a single guy or couple to join them, there profile said straight, you got on so well and arranged a meeting but they mentioned that they would like the guys to touch and do oral would you still meet and if so does this make you bi. "

Only makes you liberated and view a wider horizon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is everyons thoughts on this'if you had been chatting to a couple on here who wanted a single guy or couple to join them, there profile said straight, you got on so well and arranged a meeting but they mentioned that they would like the guys to touch and do oral would you still meet and if so does this make you bi. "

No I wouldn’t and in my eyes yes it does but if you enjoy it why not!!!!

I’d be more offended if you asked me to watch West Ham while you fucked my wife.

T

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