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By *s_4_u OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

Why do clubs have minimum age ?

Obviously you have to be 18 but why 25 ?

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By *rummiePartyManMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"Why do clubs have minimum age ?

Obviously you have to be 18 but why 25 ? "

I would guess that the average age of people in clubs is in the 35-45 bracket, and at that age an 18-20yo would be in the "son and daughter" age bracket to many, and a lot of people find it very uncomfortable mixing with the next generation on a sexual level.

Also there is a generalised perception that u25's lack the maturity to "handle" a swingers club, could let alcohol get the better of them or simply freak out. Which isn't to say that a 25yo is guaranteed to be any more mature, but I guess a line has to be drawn somewhere.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Why do clubs have minimum age ?

Obviously you have to be 18 but why 25 ? "

probably the same reasons you get id'd for alcohol if you lok under 25 these days.

youngsters are very clever at faking ID's and looking older than their years

minimises the risks of uderage people slipping through the net

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By *s_4_u OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

Which in our opinion is a ridiculous.. We have been together 11 years and are more mature than most people.

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By *s_4_u OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

Surely u can't think that ? If you have a passport or driving licence then surely ure old enought.

Also with the son and daughter thing wot about the 30 year older when the 50 plus people are in there ?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

have you never heard of fake ID?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably less likely to exhibit 'out of order' behaviour. Mind you, we all have our moments don't we?!

I've witnessed some 'laddish' conduct at a club which, whilst not a major issue, wasn't what most people were there for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do clubs have minimum age ?

Obviously you have to be 18 but why 25 ? "

So they can cover their arses... and I don't blame them one bit for doing so!

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By *s_4_u OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

Cover there asses against wot ???????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cover there asses against wot ??????????? "

Hmmmm now how does one respond to this one, I wonder........ ? Lol!

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By *s_4_u OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

?

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By *s_4_u OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

Must be a private joke that one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are clubs that you just have to be 18. Personally I think that it was 25 because many swingers were not younger... But now its becoming more popular.

I think that over 18 should be the age limits...

Cali

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By *s_4_u OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire


"There are clubs that you just have to be 18. Personally I think that it was 25 because many swingers were not younger... But now its becoming more popular.

I think that over 18 should be the age limits...

Cali "
me 2 I just cnt see the difference between 18 and 25. Ok some are gonna be immature and some might be young enough to be ure son and daughter. if so just don't play with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are clubs that you just have to be 18. Personally I think that it was 25 because many swingers were not younger... But now its becoming more popular.

I think that over 18 should be the age limits...

Cali "

Understand what you are saying Cali, and in an ideal World it should be 18, but..... clubs are owned by someone, and those 'someones' could get in bucket loads of trouble 'IF' (note - 'IF') after checking someones ID a million times, it was STILL found that they were under the legal age of consent.

It's the same as for the pub trade - the only way to cover yourself (or ones arse) is to up the min age limit AND check the ID's as if everyone 'might' be telling porkies about their age....

Hate to think of the field-day the tabloids would have if they caught a club letting in under-18's unwittingly or otherwise....

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By *s_4_u OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

I can understand that but end of the day if some one has a pass port or driving licence then that should be accepted. If they have seem this even if it was a good fake they wouldn't get done ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair most clubs I use have 18 or 21 as the policy.... As let's face it legal age for sex is 16.

Cali

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I can understand that but end of the day if some one has a pass port or driving licence then that should be accepted. If they have seem this even if it was a good fake they wouldn't get done ?"

i'm gonna keep asking this question until you answer it....have you never heard of fake ID??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest its now quite hard and expensive to get proper fake Id... Not sure people wanting to get into swingers clubs are going to go to that level.

Said that I know at one club that they take copies of Id so I guess that is how they protect themselves.

Cali

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By *s_4_u OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire


"I can understand that but end of the day if some one has a pass port or driving licence then that should be accepted. If they have seem this even if it was a good fake they wouldn't get done ?

i'm gonna keep asking this question until you answer it....have you never heard of fake ID??"
of course I have heard of fake I'd. Not often fake passports and driving licence to get in a swinging club, plus if it's been checked the club wouldn't get in trouble the person using fake I'd would.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

the 'real' world have a bad enough view on this lifestyle as it is, imagine if they heard that someone underage had been taken and allowed in to one of these clubs

OP, you've only got a year to wait...no biggie really is it?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I can understand that but end of the day if some one has a pass port or driving licence then that should be accepted. If they have seem this even if it was a good fake they wouldn't get done ?

i'm gonna keep asking this question until you answer it....have you never heard of fake ID?? of course I have heard of fake I'd. Not often fake passports and driving licence to get in a swinging club, plus if it's been checked the club wouldn't get in trouble the person using fake I'd would. "

of course they would get in trouble and if someone wants in badly enough they would use it, stranger things have happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just concentrate on the clubs that have 21 as the limit. Plenty of them around. To be fair most clubs accept Id that doesn't even have your age on it.

Like bank cards and a bill. So they aren't that fussed.

Cali

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By *s_4_u OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

We haven't got a year to wait as we wouldn't go to a club that uses this ridiculous rule.

Next time we go to chameleons one of the biggest clubs and most members in England I might just ask them why they let people in under 25. I'm sure they will say because there over 18 and have shown ids.

There is always people in life that will in life do illegal things as long as establishments do the necessary checks that's all they can do. No biggy is it.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

nope....no biggy

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