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How nice is too nice?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have you met a really polite person before? Is politeness something you appreciate? Or is it weird?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you met a really polite person before? Is politeness something you appreciate? Or is it weird? "

In my stupid but humble opinion politeness is not a thing the British tend to do on a daily basis but we think that here it’s just a way of life and not creepy at all.

T

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes, over here, being nice can seem creepy.


"Have you met a really polite person before? Is politeness something you appreciate? Or is it weird?

In my stupid but humble opinion politeness is not a thing the British tend to do on a daily basis but we think that here it’s just a way of life and not creepy at all.

T"

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By *eachesAndCream99Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Cardiff just off the M4

We still like manners, respect and politeness, there’s a time and a place for everything in life...

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ


"Have you met a really polite person before? Is politeness something you appreciate? Or is it weird?

In my stupid but humble opinion politeness is not a thing the British tend to do on a daily basis but we think that here it’s just a way of life and not creepy at all.

T"

Sorry? Poss a typo but you believe that the Britsh are *not* generally polite?? From personal experience and travel it's one of the things they are reknowned for. Watch queues in airports, opening doors, traffic managment etc... Being polite diffuses much better than most other methods but YMMV - and it may be a default approach for most but it can switch faster than a Fab guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am always polite, however the majority of the time on here it counts for nothing, i totally get lots get inundated etc and im fully aware there are others that make it hard for the genuine ones etc but i think manners cost nothing, fab is one of those places im life where it doesn't matter.

Im under the impression nowadays of its just this place and not to let it bother me and i think others could be the same, but as we all say its life, we all deal with things differently and cope in certain ways.

There a little rant over, one of those that what make any difference anyeay.

Over and out

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

I’ve been dumped more than once for being ‘too nice’

Not bothered though, I’m just me, it’s their loss.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I always appreciate people being nice and polite.

I have no interest in rude people.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

We're both overly polite (didn't realise till late) and yes we often get a strange look. Not going to change though, part of our characters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Politeness is not weird, it's nice. I'm polite and that will never change. I like people who are polite to me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no such thing as too nice... You just have to know who deserves your niceness

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"We're both overly polite (didn't realise till late) and yes we often get a strange look. Not going to change though, part of our characters."

I would always ask nicely if I could eat your ass out

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By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"Have you met a really polite person before? Is politeness something you appreciate? Or is it weird? "

What is weird about being polite?

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"We're both overly polite (didn't realise till late) and yes we often get a strange look. Not going to change though, part of our characters.

I would always ask nicely if I could eat your ass out "

Forgot please.

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"We're both overly polite (didn't realise till late) and yes we often get a strange look. Not going to change though, part of our characters.

I would always ask nicely if I could eat your ass out

Forgot please. "

I haven’t asked yet.........your very welcome

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I’ve been dumped more than once for being ‘too nice’

Not bothered though, I’m just me, it’s their loss. "

If it’s any consolation you’re not alone there! I’ve been single for 8 years after 2 relationships lasting 20 years in total. I was ‘too nice’ to both of them - and they both thought it was a license to treat me like shit!

We can’t change who we are though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're both overly polite (didn't realise till late) and yes we often get a strange look. Not going to change though, part of our characters.

I would always ask nicely if I could eat your ass out

Forgot please. "

Excuse me mrs, could I have permission to lick your delightful arse pretty please?

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent


"I’ve been dumped more than once for being ‘too nice’

Not bothered though, I’m just me, it’s their loss.

If it’s any consolation you’re not alone there! I’ve been single for 8 years after 2 relationships lasting 20 years in total. I was ‘too nice’ to both of them - and they both thought it was a license to treat me like shit!

We can’t change who we are though! "

Yep. It’s them who’ve lost out. We can celebrate our niceness until someone comes along and deserves us

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha. Thanks for sharing. I understand you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Absolutely. I think that's a good approach to life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol. Sounds like something I'd say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finally my username is relevant!

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By *oberts_onMan
over a year ago

King's Lynn

I alaways tty to be polite, maybe thats where im going wrong!?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That sucks. So sorry to hear. I hope you've managed to heal.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ah! Makes sense.

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