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By *ear in the chair OP   Man
over a year ago

yeah there

My better half having been contacted by a cheated upon spouse is withdrawing her single account for a while.

When she comes back. Is the below too harsh or in anyway unclear to add to her profile?

'A quick note for 'single' guys. Actually please be single or playing with the consent of your partner! Having been recently accosted by a partner who was unaware, I do not want to meet married gents playing away.

It's your issue and your choice with no condemnation but if you lie to me or deceive and your spouse/partner then makes contact I will not cover for you either! You chose if you create your own hang man's noose!'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's probably a bit unnecessary really

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

That will surely do the trick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They pay no heed anyway. I'm very clear on my profile about cheaters but they either don't read it or think they will be the exception.

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By *ear in the chair OP   Man
over a year ago

yeah there

We know it won't stop them but it makes it clear that consequences are theirs to endure.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No reason why she shouldn't put it if that's what she wants on her profile. I'd also advise her not to take communication away from fab

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

By all means put it on, but sadly many take no notice

I have that I won't meet cheats on mu profile, doesn't sadly stop them winking or messaging me.

Hope she's OK, it's a pretty low thing to do to someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It sounds reasonable to us..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

99% of the fellas on here are cheating we seem to have found.

They just need to be honest and up front!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great another stick the boot in the married cheaters thread. I am sure there is absolutely no chance of any comeback from a spouse unless the person is as thick as feck. How would they ever make the link between you. Nonsense if you ask me

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"My better half having been contacted by a cheated upon spouse is withdrawing her single account for a while.

When she comes back. Is the below too harsh or in anyway unclear to add to her profile?

'A quick note for 'single' guys. Actually please be single or playing with the consent of your partner! Having been recently accosted by a partner who was unaware, I do not want to meet married gents playing away.

It's your issue and your choice with no condemnation but if you lie to me or deceive and your spouse/partner then makes contact I will not cover for you either! You chose if you create your own hang man's noose!'"

Yes, put it in. If she feels that strongly, go for it.

I'm sorry she had to endure that, especially as it wasn't her fault. X

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I do sometimes wonder if cheaters 'allow' themselves to be caught. Saves having to calmly 'fess up and takes away the accountability of admitting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why we have in black and white on our profiles that its Al above board for both of us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will have no effect, it's either not read or disregarded.

If they are going to lie their partner then they will lie to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They won't care, will still be messaging, will still try to get to meet. Speaking from experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got emailed by the GF of a single man I had met a couple of times. She had found his messages to me asking for meets in his sent emails. Although they had been separated when we were meeting, he had been messaging asking for sex since they had got back together. I did cover his ass as best I could and said I met him down the pub and we had sex a couple of times.

If your partner wants to put something on her profile to try to prevent attached persons from asking for meets, then she definitely should.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"Great another stick the boot in the married cheaters thread. I am sure there is absolutely no chance of any comeback from a spouse unless the person is as thick as feck. How would they ever make the link between you. Nonsense if you ask me"

It does happen, seen posts on here several times about it

People get careless or the partner is already suspicious and goes through texts /messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Will have no effect, it's either not read or disregarded.

If they are going to lie their partner then they will lie to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great another stick the boot in the married cheaters thread. I am sure there is absolutely no chance of any comeback from a spouse unless the person is as thick as feck. How would they ever make the link between you. Nonsense if you ask me

It does happen, seen posts on here several times about it

People get careless or the partner is already suspicious and goes through texts /messages

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Firstly the person is an idiot for not covering their tracks.

Secondly so they got an email from someone. Whoop de doo. You would think fabbers were getting accosted regularly in the street by angry wives.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"Great another stick the boot in the married cheaters thread. I am sure there is absolutely no chance of any comeback from a spouse unless the person is as thick as feck. How would they ever make the link between you. Nonsense if you ask me

It does happen, seen posts on here several times about it

People get careless or the partner is already suspicious and goes through texts /messages

Firstly the person is an idiot for not covering their tracks.

Secondly so they got an email from someone. Whoop de doo. You would think fabbers were getting accosted regularly in the street by angry wives. "

It doesn't make it right if the person was unaware they were married.

Some get angry calls from. Partners they didn't know existed and it leaves them feeling pretty used.

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By *ear in the chair OP   Man
over a year ago

yeah there


"Great another stick the boot in the married cheaters thread. I am sure there is absolutely no chance of any comeback from a spouse unless the person is as thick as feck. How would they ever make the link between you. Nonsense if you ask me

It does happen, seen posts on here several times about it

People get careless or the partner is already suspicious and goes through texts /messages

Firstly the person is an idiot for not covering their tracks.

Secondly so they got an email from someone. Whoop de doo. You would think fabbers were getting accosted regularly in the street by angry wives.

It doesn't make it right if the person was unaware they were married.

Some get angry calls from. Partners they didn't know existed and it leaves them feeling pretty used. "

Exactly what happened. With associated threat because of a perceived affair.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

It does happen and it happened to me.

I would advise her to put it in her profile if that's what she would like to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My better half having been contacted by a cheated upon spouse is withdrawing her single account for a while.

When she comes back. Is the below too harsh or in anyway unclear to add to her profile?

'A quick note for 'single' guys. Actually please be single or playing with the consent of your partner! Having been recently accosted by a partner who was unaware, I do not want to meet married gents playing away.

It's your issue and your choice with no condemnation but if you lie to me or deceive and your spouse/partner then makes contact I will not cover for you either! You chose if you create your own hang man's noose!'"

They will always lie anyway, so pointless really x

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By *reampie_vickyTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I think the wording is fine, not aggressive and makes clear her preference.

Sadly I doubt it would deter the intended audience, if they are willing to cheat on their partner they will be willing to lie to a stranger.

Its just a shame the cheated partner felt the need to reach out to you instead of dealing with the issue close to home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great another stick the boot in the married cheaters thread. I am sure there is absolutely no chance of any comeback from a spouse unless the person is as thick as feck. How would they ever make the link between you. Nonsense if you ask me

It does happen, seen posts on here several times about it

People get careless or the partner is already suspicious and goes through texts /messages

Firstly the person is an idiot for not covering their tracks.

Secondly so they got an email from someone. Whoop de doo. You would think fabbers were getting accosted regularly in the street by angry wives.

It doesn't make it right if the person was unaware they were married.

Some get angry calls from. Partners they didn't know existed and it leaves them feeling pretty used.

Exactly what happened. With associated threat because of a perceived affair."

I know personally of a few cases where the third party was actually physically attacked by angry and jealous husbands/wives.

It does happen.

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