FabSwingers.com forum: Falling for them how to prevent

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How to stop feelings growing with friend know all wrong his attached and want to be fun only, we agreed just online now due to everything then I realised I will miss him and f do not want to never see him.

Been open chatting to others and trying to distract myself, any tips need to toughen up

By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

Very difficult situation, never easy if that happens but probably best to withdraw for awhile and let things cool down between youse... See if you can cope with less really. Good luck

By *entlecaressMan
over a year ago

Wakefield/ Beverley

"How to stop feelings growing with friend know all wrong his attached and want to be fun only, we agreed just online now due to everything then I realised I will miss him and f do not want to never see him.

Been open chatting to others and trying to distract myself, any tips need to toughen up

That's the only way I'm afraid its hard when your feelings become entangled. We usually pay very close attention to people we share a sexual connection with so i guess that can sometimes get confused with an emotional connection. Boundaries are really hard to keep too when that happens.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the greatest risk of all in swinging. Years ago married couples only ever wanted married men to join them for a threesome for this very reason. Nowadays especially on here, everyone has got very self righteous and are risking trouble by introducing an attractive single man (or woman) to their bed. It used to be sex sex sex now because of the internet its all friends friends friends and that can get uncontrollable

By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

My advice would be to cut all contact for a period of time and to then only talk about non sexual/flirtatious items.

Start to see and treat them as only a friend

By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

Simple

Don’t ever meet attached people..

Meet people who are free to reciprocate your feelings..