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Sex Drive.....or lack of it!

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By *issy lou OP   Woman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

I have several female friends, all in their 50s, who say they have no interest in sex any more! They just don’t get horny! I don’t get that, I’m still horny as ever! Who is normal? Me or them? I hate the thought that I am going to go off it!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have several female friends, all in their 50s, who say they have no interest in sex any more! They just don’t get horny! I don’t get that, I’m still horny as ever! Who is normal? Me or them? I hate the thought that I am going to go off it!!! "

Each to their own, really. Everyone is different.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

All of you. Everyone is different, I'm not 40 yet but have zero sex drive. I put that down to covid & no suitable guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alot of my friends in relationship dont really have a sex drive it's boring to them but it's a need for me and it's only getting worse

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool


"I have several female friends, all in their 50s, who say they have no interest in sex any more! They just don’t get horny! I don’t get that, I’m still horny as ever! Who is normal? Me or them? I hate the thought that I am going to go off it!!! "
If you got it ...flaunt it ..enjoy it ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And all us young guys fantasizing over a horny older lady and then to find out they have no sex drive...what lol

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By *issy lou OP   Woman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands


"I have several female friends, all in their 50s, who say they have no interest in sex any more! They just don’t get horny! I don’t get that, I’m still horny as ever! Who is normal? Me or them? I hate the thought that I am going to go off it!!! If you got it ...flaunt it ..enjoy it .. "

Oh I intend to

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Mine gradually reduced since becoming post-menopausal in my early 30s, and has been generally quite low for the last 2 or 3 years.

Now officially in menopause and on HRT so hoping it will improve.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

That should say pre-menopausal

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By *riental_brit_studMan
over a year ago

London

Everyone to their own. I know a 60-year-old woman who loves to tease on xHamster and has sex at least once a week. She can't understand why her peers don't enjoy that euphoric desire of being lusted after, the feeling of being horny, and the release of being satisfied. I understand that desire but I also appreciate that not everyone's has the same desires and needs. A lot of people go mad for football, some don't, same for sex and swinging. That's my take anyway.

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By *issy lou OP   Woman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands


"And all us young guys fantasizing over a horny older lady and then to find out they have no sex drive...what lol "

Well some of us have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love an older lady with a good sex drive and curves x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right now it might be a blessing if it were to disappear due to current circumstances but oh no its there firing on all cylinders driving me half mad

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By *issy lou OP   Woman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands


"Right now it might be a blessing if it were to disappear due to current circumstances but oh no its there firing on all cylinders driving me half mad "

Oh me too!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I have several female friends, all in their 50s, who say they have no interest in sex any more! They just don’t get horny! I don’t get that, I’m still horny as ever! Who is normal? Me or them? I hate the thought that I am going to go off it!!! "

You're all normal.

It's normal for some women to have a lower sex drive as they get older and normal for some women to remain the same or higher.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We've known people in their 20s with low sex drives. Some just aren't bothered about sex, each to their own.

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich

Much is probably down to hormones.

Estrogen plays a huge part in sex drive for men and Women.

Women obviously produce Estrogen from the ovaries but in men a certain amount of testosterone comverts to estrogen.

As our hormones decline with age sex drive can drop.

My theory on why some still have a big sex drive after menopause is that some people are more driven to sex mentally rather than hormonally.

So even without sex hormone there is a deep desire and need in the mind and soul that still needs fulfilling.

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By *issy lou OP   Woman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands


"Much is probably down to hormones.

Estrogen plays a huge part in sex drive for men and Women.

Women obviously produce Estrogen from the ovaries but in men a certain amount of testosterone comverts to estrogen.

As our hormones decline with age sex drive can drop.

My theory on why some still have a big sex drive after menopause is that some people are more driven to sex mentally rather than hormonally.

So even without sex hormone there is a deep desire and need in the mind and soul that still needs fulfilling.

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Great explanation. Thank you

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

I really do get that and find the less sex you have the less you want it and have been in that position myself ,BUT now within a meet senario im insatiable ,yes most of my friends are not having sex mainly due to health issues ie menopause ,which im glad not to be going through at 56 ,i do have health issues but at a meet they are forgot and im a desired ,sexual woman again and i take full advantage ,but its not for all ,the ones i feel sorry for who not only have no sex but nothing tactile either ,inbetween no sex periods hubby and i are very tactile keeps our physical relationship alive ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 45 and my sex drive is through the roof at the moment

Maybe it's the lack of sex and wanting what I can't have

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Alot of my friends in relationship dont really have a sex drive it's boring to them but it's a need for me and it's only getting worse "

We've known people like that in relationships, they make no effort to be sexy or seductive but then one gets some random attention or they split up and their sex drive goes through the roof

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've still got a very high sex drive. I don't think that i will ever go off sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have several female friends, all in their 50s, who say they have no interest in sex any more! They just don’t get horny! I don’t get that, I’m still horny as ever! Who is normal? Me or them? I hate the thought that I am going to go off it!!! "

You are perfectly normal x

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By *ymrocruMan
over a year ago

penygroes


"I have several female friends, all in their 50s, who say they have no interest in sex any more! They just don’t get horny! I don’t get that, I’m still horny as ever! Who is normal? Me or them? I hate the thought that I am going to go off it!!! "

My wife has lost all interest in sex, she wasn't the horniest to start with now she doesn't want it at all. That's why I'm on here. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just getting into "swinging"of things.. then lock down..

Whatever i had has got up and gone

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