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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is a SEX DATING site and full of horny people looking to full fill thier sexual desires

Question is -

Where does the desire for more sex stop and Respect for the other persons likes/dislikes/requirments take over

Reason for question is that having "looked" (only)at a fem on here the other day i was questioned why; because in her words

" my profile says im not looking for men over 35 - but you still looked"

Looking at profile gives us opportunity to see what the other person is looking for; but on speaking to her more it turns out that despite her profile she gets most mail off men older than 35 years - some even 65 lol - and she she it as being disrespectful

Answers on a post card to ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"sex dating"?????

I'm outa here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get loads of messages from guys that start

I know im not what your looking for but.....

I dont think its lack of respect, most people use the age filter etc as a guide line only, how many times have you seen profiles where they are verified by people who according to their profile they dont meet? if they are only a year or two either way many people will waver it

So long as they take a poilte no thanks i dont mind men mailing me as most say if you dont ask you dont get

Some people just like to moan about anything tho

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""sex dating"?????

I'm outa here! "

Sorry to shatter your illusions did you think FAB stood for

Find A Book

or

Free American Bears

or ???????????????

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

Now would you know what she is looking for without viewing her profile ?

If she doesn't want to be contacted by men outside of her desired age range, someone should point her in the direction on the message filters.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get loads of messages from guys that start

I know im not what your looking for but.....

I dont think its lack of respect, most people use the age filter etc as a guide line only, how many times have you seen profiles where they are verified by people who according to their profile they dont meet? if they are only a year or two either way many people will waver it

So long as they take a poilte no thanks i dont mind men mailing me as most say if you dont ask you dont get

Some people just like to moan about anything tho"

Well put @ naughty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""sex dating"?????

I'm outa here!

Sorry to shatter your illusions did you think FAB stood for

Find A Book

or

Free American Bears

or ???????????????

"

i woulnt call it a sex dating site, ive met loads of guys off here never had a date with any tho

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Now would you know what she is looking for without viewing her profile ?

If she doesn't want to be contacted by men outside of her desired age range, someone should point her in the direction on the message filters.

"

I agree - but in an open sex society that FAB creates it does not give thos options easily for stopping people looking at her that our outside her/thier range - yes filtres work for messaging but not for looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""sex dating"?????

I'm outa here!

Sorry to shatter your illusions did you think FAB stood for

Find A Book

or

Free American Bears

or ???????????????

"

Oh I do apologise, I thought FAB was

FELLA'S ALWAYS BITCHING!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""sex dating"?????

I'm outa here!

Sorry to shatter your illusions did you think FAB stood for

Find A Book

or

Free American Bears

or ???????????????

i woulnt call it a sex dating site, ive met loads of guys off here never had a date with any tho "

The voice of reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But you wouldnt have known what she was looking for until you looked

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""sex dating"?????

I'm outa here!

Sorry to shatter your illusions did you think FAB stood for

Find A Book

or

Free American Bears

or ???????????????

i woulnt call it a sex dating site, ive met loads of guys off here never had a date with any tho "

in some way id agree has i have a few nice mates off here and elsewhere that meet without sex and have become friends - so not all FAB contacts have to end in bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well, i am sorry that if she thinks that looking at her profile is disrespectful, then she is just a little sensitive as far as i am concerned.

i still look at profiles even if the heading says VWE BBC wanted.... and i aint either of them...

i look at profiles because i am curious to see different people and different profiles. i certainly dont think it shows a lack of respect. she needs to lighten up a bit.

its different if i messaged saying ' i know i am not VWE BBC but.....'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""sex dating"?????

I'm outa here!

Sorry to shatter your illusions did you think FAB stood for

Find A Book

or

Free American Bears

or ???????????????

Oh I do apologise, I thought FAB was

FELLA'S ALWAYS BITCHING! "

oi - men dont bitch we just moan alot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""sex dating"?????

I'm outa here!

Sorry to shatter your illusions did you think FAB stood for

Find A Book

or

Free American Bears

or ???????????????

i woulnt call it a sex dating site, ive met loads of guys off here never had a date with any tho

in some way id agree has i have a few nice mates off here and elsewhere that meet without sex and have become friends - so not all FAB contacts have to end in bed "

me too, but the clue is in the title..

swingers....essentially people who have sex with people other than their usual partner... so yes.. a sex site....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"well, i am sorry that if she thinks that looking at her profile is disrespectful, then she is just a little sensitive as far as i am concerned.

i still look at profiles even if the heading says VWE BBC wanted.... and i aint either of them...

i look at profiles because i am curious to see different people and different profiles. i certainly dont think it shows a lack of respect. she needs to lighten up a bit.

its different if i messaged saying ' i know i am not VWE BBC but.....'"

Well put fella - but i think in her case it was what wnet on from thier that offended her more ie; they still contacted her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But you wouldnt have known what she was looking for until you looked "

exactly! We don't all use the browse facility and it's filters...sometimes we click on a picture we like the look of or a verification on another profile...

One thing that always makes me smile are couples or single women who are looking for men only who look at our very obviously a couple profile...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""sex dating"?????

I'm outa here!

Sorry to shatter your illusions did you think FAB stood for

Find A Book

or

Free American Bears

or ???????????????

i woulnt call it a sex dating site, ive met loads of guys off here never had a date with any tho

in some way id agree has i have a few nice mates off here and elsewhere that meet without sex and have become friends - so not all FAB contacts have to end in bed

me too, but the clue is in the title..

swingers....essentially people who have sex with people other than their usual partner... so yes.. a sex site...."

argh ... but what about the swinger that only swing with thier partners at same time .... now thats a cunumbrum !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""sex dating"?????

I'm outa here!

Sorry to shatter your illusions did you think FAB stood for

Find A Book

or

Free American Bears

or ???????????????

Oh I do apologise, I thought FAB was

FELLA'S ALWAYS BITCHING! "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But you wouldnt have known what she was looking for until you looked

exactly! We don't all use the browse facility and it's filters...sometimes we click on a picture we like the look of or a verification on another profile...

One thing that always makes me smile are couples or single women who are looking for men only who look at our very obviously a couple profile... "

Thats is a sensible assumption on here if guess Bangers n mash - but who knows how our minds work really when we are in honrny moods

i am gulty as charged here to because if a nice looking single fem or a couple on here that have met men, i will say hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps she was just in a bad mood ?

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" in some way id agree has i have a few nice mates off here and elsewhere that meet without sex and have become friends - so not all FAB contacts have to end in bed "

nor have mine, but they usually the ones i dont like lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

One thing that always makes me smile are couples or single women who are looking for men only who look at our very obviously a couple profile... "

yes... but they don't know until they look do they?

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" in some way id agree has i have a few nice mates off here and elsewhere that meet without sex and have become friends - so not all FAB contacts have to end in bed

nor have mine, but they usually the ones i dont like lol"

Again you speak honestly and that works both ways i guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why was she looking to see who had looked at her anyway? Seems a bit of an odd feature to use, to me. If people are interested they will mail. If they aren't interested they won't. Simple.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why was she looking to see who had looked at her anyway? Seems a bit of an odd feature to use, to me. If people are interested they will mail. If they aren't interested they won't. Simple. "

Scarlet - i think she was more put out that after they looked they still sent messages even though they where not what she was looking for etc ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why was she looking to see who had looked at her anyway? Seems a bit of an odd feature to use, to me. If people are interested they will mail. If they aren't interested they won't. Simple.

Scarlet - i think she was more put out that after they looked they still sent messages even though they where not what she was looking for etc ...."

but in your opening post you said you only looked at her profile, yet she mailed you asking why when shes not looking for gusy over 35?

So shes not only 'put out' about those who mail her shes moaning about them who just look!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


" This is a SEX DATING site "

Fuck me have I logged onto FabSexDating again...... how do I keep doing that


"- but i think in her case it was what wnet on from thier that offended her more ie; they still contacted her "

Offened because people look who are too old and MORE offended because they sent a message.... hmmmmm.

My advice for your sensitive friend..... anyone who is THAT easy to offend really is better off leaving now before their head blows up. The great Admin God gave us a delete button for a reason and even a monkey can be trained to push a button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why was she looking to see who had looked at her anyway? Seems a bit of an odd feature to use, to me. If people are interested they will mail. If they aren't interested they won't. Simple.

Scarlet - i think she was more put out that after they looked they still sent messages even though they where not what she was looking for etc ...."

that wasn't what was implied by your

OP-it was that she objected to being looked at by someone outside of her preferences...

I'm with Oscar Wilde...paraphrased of course...only one thing worse than being looked at...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why was she looking to see who had looked at her anyway? Seems a bit of an odd feature to use, to me. If people are interested they will mail. If they aren't interested they won't. Simple.

Scarlet - i think she was more put out that after they looked they still sent messages even though they where not what she was looking for etc ....

but in your opening post you said you only looked at her profile, yet she mailed you asking why when shes not looking for gusy over 35?

So shes not only 'put out' about those who mail her shes moaning about them who just look!"

Naughty - i think it was because she had responded because id "looked2 at her a couple of times over a period of a week ish - and to be honest once we exchanged messages after explanations etc she ok lass - and although im well not her "type" she ok really

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Why was she looking to see who had looked at her anyway? Seems a bit of an odd feature to use, to me. If people are interested they will mail. If they aren't interested they won't. Simple.

Scarlet - i think she was more put out that after they looked they still sent messages even though they where not what she was looking for etc ....

but in your opening post you said you only looked at her profile, yet she mailed you asking why when shes not looking for gusy over 35?

So shes not only 'put out' about those who mail her shes moaning about them who just look!

Naughty - i think it was because she had responded because id "looked2 at her a couple of times over a period of a week ish - and to be honest once we exchanged messages after explanations etc she ok lass - and although im well not her "type" she ok really

"

Hold on....... so she is offended by older guys looking, MORE offended if they message her and if they don't message her .......... she goes checking who has looked and then messages them Is this so she can be even MORE offended?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do people really message someone who looked at them asking them why they looked.

They have way to much time on there hands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people really message someone who looked at them asking them why they looked.

They have way to much time on there hands "

Have you seen the forums? This place is some people's lives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Hold on....... so she is offended by older guys looking, MORE offended if they message her and if they don't message her .......... she goes checking who has looked and then messages them Is this so she can be even MORE offended?

"

sounds like a case of selective looking disorder to me.

my advice is don't buy a talking mirror!

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Naughty i said previously it was because i had looked at her a few times it was then she messaged me - and to be frank she at least opened the discussion up and here we all are debating same ....it must have worked then ??...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do people really message someone who looked at them asking them why they looked.

They have way to much time on there hands

Have you seen the forums? This place is some people's lives."

I wouldnt go that far but those that do create topics and repond to more than just sex related questions its go to be a good thing hasn't it ? ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" This is a SEX DATING site

Fuck me have I logged onto FabSexDating again...... how do I keep doing that

- but i think in her case it was what wnet on from thier that offended her more ie; they still contacted her

Offened because people look who are too old and MORE offended because they sent a message.... hmmmmm.

My advice for your sensitive friend..... anyone who is THAT easy to offend really is better off leaving now before their head blows up. The great Admin God gave us a delete button for a reason and even a monkey can be trained to push a button."

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But you wouldnt have known what she was looking for until you looked

exactly! We don't all use the browse facility and it's filters...sometimes we click on a picture we like the look of or a verification on another profile...

One thing that always makes me smile are couples or single women who are looking for men only who look at our very obviously a couple profile... "

We as a couple don't meet other couples but do look at other couples profiles mainly for a good perv, we may not have anything in common but can still appreciate a nice collection of pics, same with single women who are straight we wouldn't message them but will have a look and even fab a pic if we like it, that's not us saying we want to meet you more us saying very nice, as for the op's post unless its in her tag line how does anyone know what she wants without looking at her profile, that's like saying I'll tell you what I want but I'm not going to talk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people really message someone who looked at them asking them why they looked.

They have way to much time on there hands

Have you seen the forums? This place is some people's lives.

I wouldnt go that far but those that do create topics and repond to more than just sex related questions its go to be a good thing hasn't it ? ??"

Absolutely! I love a bit of banter.

Now where do I find the forums?.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some people are idiots.profile wise.simple fact.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do people really message someone who looked at them asking them why they looked.

They have way to much time on there hands

Have you seen the forums? This place is some people's lives.

I wouldnt go that far but those that do create topics and repond to more than just sex related questions its go to be a good thing hasn't it ? ??

Absolutely! I love a bit of banter.

Now where do I find the forums?..... "

Good

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