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"You mean you want to take the competition away, yeah, nah that isn’t going to happen, so maybe Concentrate on the things you can control, like photos, bio and How you interact with women, then the number of men on here will be Irrelevant." This  | |||
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"You mean you want to take the competition away, yeah, nah that isn’t going to happen, so maybe Concentrate on the things you can control, like photos, bio and How you interact with women, then the number of men on here will be Irrelevant." Not worried about competition at all its just a statistical fact..  | |||
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"You mean you want to take the competition away, yeah, nah that isn’t going to happen, so maybe Concentrate on the things you can control, like photos, bio and How you interact with women, then the number of men on here will be Irrelevant. This "Seconded | |||
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"You mean you want to take the competition away, yeah, nah that isn’t going to happen, so maybe Concentrate on the things you can control, like photos, bio and How you interact with women, then the number of men on here will be Irrelevant. This
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It's actually not that far off the truth OP that if you take out the single male profiles that don't "get" the site and how it works, have the wrong expectations and attitude - that the number imbalance isn't actually that big.
As said above, why worry about how others use the site? Focus on your experience of it and interacting with it, and other users, in the best possible way and you'll either sink or swim on your own merits. | |||
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"Not worried about competition at all its just a statistical fact.. "If you are not concerned about competition and just pointing out a statistical fact why do you believe the numbers of male profiles needs to be reduced? | |||
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"Isnt it more about making it a more enjoyable place for women to change the balance? That won't happen until some men start treating women with more respect here. " Some men will never treat women with respect. Or get used to hearing "no thank you". | |||
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"the ratio of men to women on the site is so so disproportionate how do we reduce the number of men to balance the equation ...?? any suggestions "If I'm attracted to 1% of the men here, I'd still only be attracted to the same amount even if there thousands less to chose from. It's not down to numbers, if every single woman wanted just a random cock for fucking, we wouldn't be here and there wouldn't be hundreds of threads from men asking why they can't get laid. | |||
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"the ratio of men to women on the site is so so disproportionate how do we reduce the number of men to balance the equation ...?? any suggestions "Yep a FAB singles site Or perhaps you can devise you’re own OP  | |||
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"Isnt it more about making it a more enjoyable place for women to change the balance? That won't happen until some men start treating women with more respect here. " | |||
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"Isnt it more about making it a more enjoyable place for women to change the balance? That won't happen until some men start treating women with more respect here. "Thank you this is the most positive and balanced view which can really make a difference..... people do get overly defensive when faced by facts...... Have a lovely Friday  | |||
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"A propose an annual cull like they do with deer. " I would subscribe to that ... | |||
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"Make it a site condition that all men have to identify as women on alternate days." I think some already do | |||
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"Also, even if there was less men, it doesn’t mean women would want you. That’s not a dig or me being mean, but there could be just you on this site, and thousands of women. Not all of them would want you " Why would do you think i would want someone to want me ..... I just said if you have a suggestion on how to balance it out.... | |||
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"Get more in I say. I’d stand out even more then "more is always good, however stiffer competition is not fair lol.. guys with huge anacondas just keep the others guys as spectators | |||
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"Get more in I say. I’d stand out even more then
more is always good, however stiffer competition is not fair lol.. guys with huge anacondas just keep the others guys as spectators "It’s not about cock size ‘apparently’  | |||
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"A cull? Similar to the purge. Anyone who gets in the way of your beauty and sexual prowess gets it in the juglar. I should be a court judge ...... " I was going to suggest a fight to the death, Granny. Roman-esque gladiatorial battle (leather skirts optional)  | |||
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"A cull? Similar to the purge. Anyone who gets in the way of your beauty and sexual prowess gets it in the juglar. I should be a court judge ...... I was going to suggest a fight to the death, Granny. Roman-esque gladiatorial battle (leather skirts optional) " | |||
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"Do men get more attractive when there are less of them? "^ this. Maybe op thinks that if there aren't enough men the women will 'make do' with the ones we have | |||
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"You mean you want to take the competition away, yeah, nah that isn’t going to happen, so maybe Concentrate on the things you can control, like photos, bio and How you interact with women, then the number of men on here will be Irrelevant." Good post. | |||
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"the ratio of men to women on the site is so so disproportionate how do we reduce the number of men to balance the equation ...?? any suggestions "Yeah mate just remove yourself!! He he Jokes | |||
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"the ratio of men to women on the site is so so disproportionate how do we reduce the number of men to balance the equation ...?? any suggestions
Yeah mate just remove yourself!!
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"the ratio of men to women on the site is so so disproportionate how do we reduce the number of men to balance the equation ...?? any suggestions
Yeah mate just remove yourself!!
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Jokes will do on the last day my subscription expires "Subscription? | |||
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"You mean you want to take the competition away, yeah, nah that isn’t going to happen, so maybe Concentrate on the things you can control, like photos, bio and How you interact with women, then the number of men on here will be Irrelevant. Good post." Bad post | |||
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"A cull? Similar to the purge. Anyone who gets in the way of your beauty and sexual prowess gets it in the juglar. I should be a court judge ...... I was going to suggest a fight to the death, Granny. Roman-esque gladiatorial battle (leather skirts optional) "Agreed. No nickers tho ...... | |||
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"the ratio of men to women on the site is so so disproportionate how do we reduce the number of men to balance the equation ...?? any suggestions
Yeah mate just remove yourself!!
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"A propose an annual cull like they do with deer. I would subscribe to that ... "What didn't you like about my suggestion ? | |||
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"Do you think reducing the number will bring you more success? Instead of trying to reduce the number which will never happen, why don’t you try a different approach on here and see if that works?" Thanks yeah will do that | |||
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"A propose an annual cull like they do with deer. I would subscribe to that ...
What didn't you like about my suggestion ?"I did like your suggestion that is why I said i would "subscribe" meaning happily involved in that ... | |||
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"A propose an annual cull like they do with deer. I would subscribe to that ...
What didn't you like about my suggestion ?
I did like your suggestion that is why I said i would "subscribe" meaning happily involved in that ... "Not till someone else said it George. Tut..... | |||
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"A propose an annual cull like they do with deer. I would subscribe to that ...
What didn't you like about my suggestion ?
I did like your suggestion that is why I said i would "subscribe" meaning happily involved in that ...
Not till someone else said it George. Tut..... " | |||
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"Also, even if there was less men, it doesn’t mean women would want you. That’s not a dig or me being mean, but there could be just you on this site, and thousands of women. Not all of them would want you " I agree,its not enough to be nice,its whether your nice enough ! | |||
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"the ratio of men to women on the site is so so disproportionate how do we reduce the number of men to balance the equation ...?? any suggestions "All the men who find this to be an issue and complain should leave  | |||
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"It may help if men actually gave women who joined the site a bit of time to find their feet, but instead as a woman joining the site you know nothing about filters, and within the first 24 hours you get HUNDREDS of messages calling you beautiful etc even before you have any pics up. You feel like you've been thrown into shark infested water. So maybe, just maybe, if women were treated with a little humility and care upon joining, more women would stay." A little humility and care, full stop. | |||
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"It may help if men actually gave women who joined the site a bit of time to find their feet, but instead as a woman joining the site you know nothing about filters, and within the first 24 hours you get HUNDREDS of messages calling you beautiful etc even before you have any pics up. You feel like you've been thrown into shark infested water. So maybe, just maybe, if women were treated with a little humility and care upon joining, more women would stay." There are filters for new members only site supporters and verified members can pester the living daylights out of new members. Maybe they should know better  | |||
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"You mean you want to take the competition away, yeah, nah that isn’t going to happen, so maybe Concentrate on the things you can control, like photos, bio and How you interact with women, then the number of men on here will be Irrelevant. Good post. Bad post "And there’s your problem, it’s nothing to do with how many men are on here, maybe look a little closer to home, it’s glaringly obvious. | |||
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"It may help if men actually gave women who joined the site a bit of time to find their feet, but instead as a woman joining the site you know nothing about filters, and within the first 24 hours you get HUNDREDS of messages calling you beautiful etc even before you have any pics up. You feel like you've been thrown into shark infested water. So maybe, just maybe, if women were treated with a little humility and care upon joining, more women would stay." Indeed. A friend of mine has long since argued that all filters should be in place for new people joining this site, and it would up to them to switch them off | |||
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"It may help if men actually gave women who joined the site a bit of time to find their feet, but instead as a woman joining the site you know nothing about filters, and within the first 24 hours you get HUNDREDS of messages calling you beautiful etc even before you have any pics up. You feel like you've been thrown into shark infested water. So maybe, just maybe, if women were treated with a little humility and care upon joining, more women would stay. Indeed. A friend of mine has long since argued that all filters should be in place for new people joining this site, and it would up to them to switch them off " I think that should be the case, I really do. | |||
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"the ratio of men to women on the site is so so disproportionate how do we reduce the number of men to balance the equation ...?? any suggestions "Have you tried a kalashnikov? | |||
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"It may help if men actually gave women who joined the site a bit of time to find their feet, but instead as a woman joining the site you know nothing about filters, and within the first 24 hours you get HUNDREDS of messages calling you beautiful etc even before you have any pics up. You feel like you've been thrown into shark infested water. So maybe, just maybe, if women were treated with a little humility and care upon joining, more women would stay. Indeed. A friend of mine has long since argued that all filters should be in place for new people joining this site, and it would up to them to switch them off " I'd make the FAQ a bit more robust. Women and couples tend to get an overwhelming amount of mail on first joining, and we strongly recommend turning filters on high (like (example)) for a day or two while you learn to navigate the site. | |||
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"It may help if men actually gave women who joined the site a bit of time to find their feet, but instead as a woman joining the site you know nothing about filters, and within the first 24 hours you get HUNDREDS of messages calling you beautiful etc even before you have any pics up. You feel like you've been thrown into shark infested water. So maybe, just maybe, if women were treated with a little humility and care upon joining, more women would stay. Indeed. A friend of mine has long since argued that all filters should be in place for new people joining this site, and it would up to them to switch them off I think that should be the case, I really do." I would subscribe to that too
Seriously I would. Let newbies get to grips with filters and the dynamic of the site before being inundated. Maybe a few days stealth mode option by default. | |||
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"Do men get more attractive when there are less of them? "LOL | |||
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"It may help if men actually gave women who joined the site a bit of time to find their feet, but instead as a woman joining the site you know nothing about filters, and within the first 24 hours you get HUNDREDS of messages calling you beautiful etc even before you have any pics up. You feel like you've been thrown into shark infested water. So maybe, just maybe, if women were treated with a little humility and care upon joining, more women would stay." I’m not a single female but if I were & joined this site I’d maybe see all the messages before I’d even put a pic or a profile up as a good thing. Block, block, block........ S | |||
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"It may help if men actually gave women who joined the site a bit of time to find their feet, but instead as a woman joining the site you know nothing about filters, and within the first 24 hours you get HUNDREDS of messages calling you beautiful etc even before you have any pics up. You feel like you've been thrown into shark infested water. So maybe, just maybe, if women were treated with a little humility and care upon joining, more women would stay. I’m not a single female but if I were & joined this site I’d maybe see all the messages before I’d even put a pic or a profile up as a good thing. Block, block, block........ S" Why block just like that a simple delete may be the best reaction. | |||
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"It may help if men actually gave women who joined the site a bit of time to find their feet, but instead as a woman joining the site you know nothing about filters, and within the first 24 hours you get HUNDREDS of messages calling you beautiful etc even before you have any pics up. You feel like you've been thrown into shark infested water. So maybe, just maybe, if women were treated with a little humility and care upon joining, more women would stay. I’m not a single female but if I were & joined this site I’d maybe see all the messages before I’d even put a pic or a profile up as a good thing. Block, block, block........ S" Mostly
My best friend on here messaged me when I had a placeholder five minute job profile text and actually took my first Fab photo.
But his message made sense in context and wasn't over the top bordering on deranged | |||
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"the ratio of men to women on the site is so so disproportionate how do we reduce the number of men to balance the equation ...?? any suggestions "in crease the nubber of women would be better. | |||
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"It may help if men actually gave women who joined the site a bit of time to find their feet, but instead as a woman joining the site you know nothing about filters, and within the first 24 hours you get HUNDREDS of messages calling you beautiful etc even before you have any pics up. You feel like you've been thrown into shark infested water. So maybe, just maybe, if women were treated with a little humility and care upon joining, more women would stay." Oh yea our first 24 hours was nuts! | |||
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"the ratio of men to women on the site is so so disproportionate how do we reduce the number of men to balance the equation ...?? any suggestions in crease the nubber of women would be better. "Yup. How we do that is the question | |||
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"the ratio of men to women on the site is so so disproportionate how do we reduce the number of men to balance the equation ...?? any suggestions in crease the nubber of women would be better.
Yup. How we do that is the question"Breeding programme?! | |||
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"It may help if men actually gave women who joined the site a bit of time to find their feet, but instead as a woman joining the site you know nothing about filters, and within the first 24 hours you get HUNDREDS of messages calling you beautiful etc even before you have any pics up. You feel like you've been thrown into shark infested water. So maybe, just maybe, if women were treated with a little humility and care upon joining, more women would stay. I’m not a single female but if I were & joined this site I’d maybe see all the messages before I’d even put a pic or a profile up as a good thing. Block, block, block........ S Why block just like that a simple delete may be the best reaction." My logic is that if they send a message based on zip info they really don’t give two monkeys what you look like & who you are. Delete the message & you’ll just get more apparently according to some ladies so just block the individuals sending the message not all men. S | |||
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"OP, you couldn’t be more wrong. Let’s run the numbers (fucking hell, you can tell I’ve been in meetings all day) If each woman likes 1% of the blokes then for every 100 men, 1 will get laid. If there were 500 men here, 5 would get laid so actually your chances of a shag have increased by 5. If anyone needs a creative accountant for fraud or government statistics, you’ve got my number " | |||
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"OP, you couldn’t be more wrong. Let’s run the numbers (fucking hell, you can tell I’ve been in meetings all day) If each woman likes 1% of the blokes then for every 100 men, 1 will get laid. If there were 500 men here, 5 would get laid so actually your chances of a shag have increased by 5. If anyone needs a creative accountant for fraud or government statistics, you’ve got my number " | |||
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"the ratio of men to women on the site is so so disproportionate how do we reduce the number of men to balance the equation ...?? any suggestions in crease the nubber of women would be better.
Yup. How we do that is the question
Breeding programme?! "I block those creeps too | |||
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"Do men get more attractive when there are less of them? "No | |||
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"the ratio of men to women on the site is so so disproportionate how do we reduce the number of men to balance the equation ...?? any suggestions "Admin changes all the men profiles to gay. Men mail each other demanding sex. Some fuck each other because a hole is a hole. Some leave because the messages from men kills their libido. The men who fuck each other decide to leave the site too because they don't need pussy anymore. Job done. | |||
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"the ratio of men to women on the site is so so disproportionate how do we reduce the number of men to balance the equation ...?? any suggestions
Admin changes all the men profiles to gay.
Men mail each other demanding sex.
Some fuck each other because a hole is a hole.
Some leave because the messages from men kills their libido.
The men who fuck each other decide to leave the site too because they don't need pussy anymore.
Job done. "Why the FUCK has this not been done sooner?! | |||
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"You can leave if you want. It won’t affect anything, but it’s a start " You can check out but you can never leave........ | |||
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"the ratio of men to women on the site is so so disproportionate how do we reduce the number of men to balance the equation ...?? any suggestions
Admin changes all the men profiles to gay.
Men mail each other demanding sex.
Some fuck each other because a hole is a hole.
Some leave because the messages from men kills their libido.
The men who fuck each other decide to leave the site too because they don't need pussy anymore.
Job done.
Why the FUCK has this not been done sooner?!
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"the ratio of men to women on the site is so so disproportionate how do we reduce the number of men to balance the equation ...?? any suggestions "Maybe you could set the example, and leave?? After all, it is your idea! | |||
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"OP, you couldn’t be more wrong. Let’s run the numbers (fucking hell, you can tell I’ve been in meetings all day) If each woman likes 1% of the blokes then for every 100 men, 1 will get laid. If there were 500 men here, 5 would get laid so actually your chances of a shag have increased by 5. If anyone needs a creative accountant for fraud or government statistics, you’ve got my number "Is there a spreadsheet to back this up? I find spreadsheets so sexy.....! | |||
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