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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When younger lads want to Dom me I think "ah how sweet" in a sort of lioness licking her lips kind of way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When younger lads want to Dom me I think "ah how sweet" in a sort of lioness licking her lips kind of way.

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I want you to dominate me LOL

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

It should not be a matter of age, it should be a matter of whether the person steps up correctly.

A strong submissive (whether a lioness or not) is a good thing, but a brat (whether a lioness or not) is a pain in the arse.

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich


"When younger lads want to Dom me I think "ah how sweet" in a sort of lioness licking her lips kind of way.

"

I show baby girl some of those kinds of messages as it gives her a giggle.

One very slender young lad had sent a quite full on messaage. Babygirl laughed and said "he would bounce off me if he tried to ram me like you did and i would snap him in half if i rode him"

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Respect appears to be an odd concept at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Respect appears to be an odd concept at times."

Ha ha.. I agree x

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"It should not be a matter of age, it should be a matter of whether the person steps up correctly.

A strong submissive (whether a lioness or not) is a good thing, but a brat (whether a lioness or not) is a pain in the arse.

"

Of course age comes into it. Partly because how can a 22-year-old (for example) have been in the scene long enough to have the necessary experience? But mainly because how could I take seriously and submit to someone young enough that I could have given birth to them?

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand


"When younger lads want to Dom me I think "ah how sweet" in a sort of lioness licking her lips kind of way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It should not be a matter of age, it should be a matter of whether the person steps up correctly.

A strong submissive (whether a lioness or not) is a good thing, but a brat (whether a lioness or not) is a pain in the arse.

Of course age comes into it. Partly because how can a 22-year-old (for example) have been in the scene long enough to have the necessary experience? But mainly because how could I take seriously and submit to someone young enough that I could have given birth to them?"

Ha!

The under 30 female dominatrixes with older men as their bitches on the fetish website beg to differ!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to be domed by older guys. Just a personal choice xxxxxx

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich


"

Ha!

The under 30 female dominatrixes with older men as their bitches on the fetish website beg to differ! "

Not really. The OP was talking about young Men wanting to dominant her.

Older men wanting to be dominanted is slightly different. Often its about be emasculated, so it makes sense to sunmit to someone younger.

For women in the most part a Dom needs to be convincing enough to hit that mental switch for her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Ha!

The under 30 female dominatrixes with older men as their bitches on the fetish website beg to differ!

Not really. The OP was talking about young Men wanting to dominant her.

Older men wanting to be dominanted is slightly different. Often its about be emasculated, so it makes sense to sunmit to someone younger.

For women in the most part a Dom needs to be convincing enough to hit that mental switch for her.

"

Well yes really as she said age comes into it.

I don’t believe it does to the extent some think it does. Dominant men don’t need to be old, just as dominant women don’t need to be.

There are no rules in kink, some submissive men simply want to submit to powerful women and powerful women come in all ages. If it doesn’t work for one person that’s fine, but there are young Dom’s out there who would put many older ones to shame.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Spot on. The mental, the mind body soul connection rarely found down to one thing- lack of years of just living. Anyway just having fun with you all. Big love
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Ha!

The under 30 female dominatrixes with older men as their bitches on the fetish website beg to differ!

Not really. The OP was talking about young Men wanting to dominant her.

Older men wanting to be dominanted is slightly different. Often its about be emasculated, so it makes sense to sunmit to someone younger.

For women in the most part a Dom needs to be convincing enough to hit that mental switch for her.

"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I agree. And because I am most definitely a switch, a brat AND I have a huge ass, I'm a double as hard to handle.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good point. I get a lot I'd submissive men wanting me to dominate in a similar way but rarely an "alpha-match". I think because I'm 100% switch I don't want a pure sub.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree. And because I am most definitely a switch, a brat AND I have a huge ass, I'm a double as hard to handle. "

You sound like me! Although I’m not a switch. Definitely a best with a huge ass!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you got big bums then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We should team up and squash all these boys with our asses lol. Like some kind of kink horror movie lol. Be my friend? I need girlfriends in here we are outnumbered xx
"I agree. And because I am most definitely a switch, a brat AND I have a huge ass, I'm a double as hard to handle.

You sound like me! Although I’m not a switch. Definitely a best with a huge ass! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It should not be a matter of age, it should be a matter of whether the person steps up correctly.

A strong submissive (whether a lioness or not) is a good thing, but a brat (whether a lioness or not) is a pain in the arse.

"

A brat is only a pain in the arse if her dominant isn’t bothered about her! Maybe her bratty behaviour says more about the dominants skills, than her behaviour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a fan of brats

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a fan of brats "

We don’t care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We should team up and squash all these boys with our asses lol. Like some kind of kink horror movie lol. Be my friend? I need girlfriends in here we are outnumbered xx I agree. And because I am most definitely a switch, a brat AND I have a huge ass, I'm a double as hard to handle.

You sound like me! Although I’m not a switch. Definitely a best with a huge ass! "

Yes let’s be friends!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It should not be a matter of age, it should be a matter of whether the person steps up correctly.

A strong submissive (whether a lioness or not) is a good thing, but a brat (whether a lioness or not) is a pain in the arse.

A brat is only a pain in the arse if her dominant isn’t bothered about her! Maybe her bratty behaviour says more about the dominants skills, than her behaviour "

Spot on beautiful. Taking time to unravel, get under her skin, relish riding a wild stallion knowing you could lose your grip at any wrong turn and fall. Takes a bit of dedication to rise to that challenge. With it the mutual respect increases. Mmm makes me horny picturing it but boy is it rare.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not a fan of brats

We don’t care. "

I just guffawed out loud for first time in ages. We're besties already. Xx

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By *enedict2020Man
over a year ago

London


"When younger lads want to Dom me I think "ah how sweet" in a sort of lioness licking her lips kind of way.

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Thanks for sharing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It should not be a matter of age, it should be a matter of whether the person steps up correctly.

A strong submissive (whether a lioness or not) is a good thing, but a brat (whether a lioness or not) is a pain in the arse.

A brat is only a pain in the arse if her dominant isn’t bothered about her! Maybe her bratty behaviour says more about the dominants skills, than her behaviour

Spot on beautiful. Taking time to unravel, get under her skin, relish riding a wild stallion knowing you could lose your grip at any wrong turn and fall. Takes a bit of dedication to rise to that challenge. With it the mutual respect increases. Mmm makes me horny picturing it but boy is it rare.

"

From personal experience a true brat tamer is a rare bread, but they do exist and when u find one it’s the most magical thing in the world! The ability to nurture so the brat becomes more calmer and knowing how to get the best from

Her! On the flip side for when the brat just needs to tantrum he has the firmest of grips on her that he knows just to reset and calm her again. It’s a rollercoaster but the most amazing ride if a brat find the right man

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By *Jones19Man
over a year ago

Evesham, Worcester, Pershore


"Not a fan of brats

We don’t care. "

That was the most perfect response I've seen in a forum on anything Sub/dom in a long time. Almost lost my mouth full of tea.

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich


"Not a fan of brats

We don’t care. "

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Not a fan of brats

We don’t care. "

This is literally the most brat response possible lol

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"It should not be a matter of age, it should be a matter of whether the person steps up correctly.

A strong submissive (whether a lioness or not) is a good thing, but a brat (whether a lioness or not) is a pain in the arse.

Of course age comes into it. Partly because how can a 22-year-old (for example) have been in the scene long enough to have the necessary experience? But mainly because how could I take seriously and submit to someone young enough that I could have given birth to them?

Ha!

The under 30 female dominatrixes with older men as their bitches on the fetish website beg to differ! "

If that works for all concerned then good for them. It wouldn’t work for me.

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By *orkshire_roses999Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire


"Not a fan of brats

We don’t care.

That was the most perfect response I've seen in a forum on anything Sub/dom in a long time. Almost lost my mouth full of tea. "

I thought exactly the same!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It should not be a matter of age, it should be a matter of whether the person steps up correctly.

A strong submissive (whether a lioness or not) is a good thing, but a brat (whether a lioness or not) is a pain in the arse.

A brat is only a pain in the arse if her dominant isn’t bothered about her! Maybe her bratty behaviour says more about the dominants skills, than her behaviour

Spot on beautiful. Taking time to unravel, get under her skin, relish riding a wild stallion knowing you could lose your grip at any wrong turn and fall. Takes a bit of dedication to rise to that challenge. With it the mutual respect increases. Mmm makes me horny picturing it but boy is it rare.

From personal experience a true brat tamer is a rare bread, but they do exist and when u find one it’s the most magical thing in the world! The ability to nurture so the brat becomes more calmer and knowing how to get the best from

Her! On the flip side for when the brat just needs to tantrum he has the firmest of grips on her that he knows just to reset and calm her again. It’s a rollercoaster but the most amazing ride if a brat find the right man "

You sound like the cat that got her cream. I'm super happy for you! For a while I had to negotiate three gentlemen (ethically, all aware of each other) in order to get my needs met holistically. I felt like the lass from Spike Lees- she's gotta have it. Managing the fragile Egos of men is just as hard as managing a brat for the record

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not a fan of brats

We don’t care.

This is literally the most brat response possible lol"

So true! Tongue in cheek response x

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"When younger lads want to Dom me I think "ah how sweet" in a sort of lioness licking her lips kind of way.

"

Hahaha yep!

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By *nforcer68Man
over a year ago

leeds

The main difference between a young inexperienced Dom and an older experienced one is we Dom from the mind down, they start from the knees up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

young ladies are usually as unconvincing

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton


"It should not be a matter of age, it should be a matter of whether the person steps up correctly.

A strong submissive (whether a lioness or not) is a good thing, but a brat (whether a lioness or not) is a pain in the arse.

A brat is only a pain in the arse if her dominant isn’t bothered about her! Maybe her bratty behaviour says more about the dominants skills, than her behaviour "

I think it is not a question of skills but of aptitude. Expecially as some brats are really trying to top from the bottom. However as you say further on brat tamers are a specific breed.

I am at the moment talking to a pixie.

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!


"Not a fan of brats

We don’t care.

This is literally the most brat response possible lol

So true! Tongue in cheek response x"

God I love Brats!

Occasionally after looking at sub/Dom Twitter I’ll just look up at Kitty and yell I really want us to meet a pet brat to play with!

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton


"It should not be a matter of age, it should be a matter of whether the person steps up correctly.

A strong submissive (whether a lioness or not) is a good thing, but a brat (whether a lioness or not) is a pain in the arse.

A brat is only a pain in the arse if her dominant isn’t bothered about her! Maybe her bratty behaviour says more about the dominants skills, than her behaviour

Spot on beautiful. Taking time to unravel, get under her skin, relish riding a wild stallion knowing you could lose your grip at any wrong turn and fall. Takes a bit of dedication to rise to that challenge. With it the mutual respect increases. Mmm makes me horny picturing it but boy is it rare.

"

I think I distinguished between strong submissives and brats.

I always steal a quote that I saw on FL from a domme. It goes " I don't want wimpy submissives I want lions as submissives. I am Boudicca with her warriors".

There is a distinction between ensuring the dominant has the character and skills to be worthy of a submissive and someone pushing buttons for the sake of pushing buttons.

But with all things in kink its horses for courses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The main difference between a young inexperienced Dom and an older experienced one is we Dom from the mind down, they start from the knees up "

Not always!

The “weakest” and most misinformed Dom I ever came across was in his 50s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It should not be a matter of age, it should be a matter of whether the person steps up correctly.

A strong submissive (whether a lioness or not) is a good thing, but a brat (whether a lioness or not) is a pain in the arse.

"

but what if it is all about age to the submissive woman ? then i guess it matters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i suspect out of all those that call themselves doms sexually or kink wise its a lot lot less alot of people will say anything just to get a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It should not be a matter of age, it should be a matter of whether the person steps up correctly.

A strong submissive (whether a lioness or not) is a good thing, but a brat (whether a lioness or not) is a pain in the arse.

but what if it is all about age to the submissive woman ? then i guess it matters"

or submissive man ...

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By *icole123Woman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"When younger lads want to Dom me I think "ah how sweet" in a sort of lioness licking her lips kind of way.

"

I think Exactly the same...I could eat them for breakfast.

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By *ebel Red HotWoman
over a year ago

York


"When younger lads want to Dom me I think "ah how sweet" in a sort of lioness licking her lips kind of way.

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Do you pat them on the head and give them an ice cream?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It should not be a matter of age, it should be a matter of whether the person steps up correctly.

A strong submissive (whether a lioness or not) is a good thing, but a brat (whether a lioness or not) is a pain in the arse.

A brat is only a pain in the arse if her dominant isn’t bothered about her! Maybe her bratty behaviour says more about the dominants skills, than her behaviour

Spot on beautiful. Taking time to unravel, get under her skin, relish riding a wild stallion knowing you could lose your grip at any wrong turn and fall. Takes a bit of dedication to rise to that challenge. With it the mutual respect increases. Mmm makes me horny picturing it but boy is it rare.

From personal experience a true brat tamer is a rare bread, but they do exist and when u find one it’s the most magical thing in the world! The ability to nurture so the brat becomes more calmer and knowing how to get the best from

Her! On the flip side for when the brat just needs to tantrum he has the firmest of grips on her that he knows just to reset and calm her again. It’s a rollercoaster but the most amazing ride if a brat find the right man

You sound like the cat that got her cream. I'm super happy for you! For a while I had to negotiate three gentlemen (ethically, all aware of each other) in order to get my needs met holistically. I felt like the lass from Spike Lees- she's gotta have it. Managing the fragile Egos of men is just as hard as managing a brat for the record "

Lol unfortunately I’ve only ever found two men So far, who were my type of Dom, they had the amazing mix of daddy and master and knew my personality to a ‘T’ and both knew exactly how to get the best from me and in return I worshiped them unconditionally... have now been searching for a year to find perfect number 3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have to agree age does come into play as a male Dom...

In my twenties I was all about.... I’m going to do this to you and this is your safe word to all my subs...

In my thirties, I learned about the mental build up to the play scene and aftercare.....

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By *nforcer68Man
over a year ago

leeds


"The main difference between a young inexperienced Dom and an older experienced one is we Dom from the mind down, they start from the knees up

Not always!

The “weakest” and most misinformed Dom I ever came across was in his 50s. "

Obviously someone who either learnt nothing or who couldn't be bothered to learn. The worst kind of plastic Dom's.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It should not be a matter of age, it should be a matter of whether the person steps up correctly.

A strong submissive (whether a lioness or not) is a good thing, but a brat (whether a lioness or not) is a pain in the arse.

A brat is only a pain in the arse if her dominant isn’t bothered about her! Maybe her bratty behaviour says more about the dominants skills, than her behaviour

Spot on beautiful. Taking time to unravel, get under her skin, relish riding a wild stallion knowing you could lose your grip at any wrong turn and fall. Takes a bit of dedication to rise to that challenge. With it the mutual respect increases. Mmm makes me horny picturing it but boy is it rare.

I think I distinguished between strong submissives and brats.

I always steal a quote that I saw on FL from a domme. It goes " I don't want wimpy submissives I want lions as submissives. I am Boudicca with her warriors".

There is a distinction between ensuring the dominant has the character and skills to be worthy of a submissive and someone pushing buttons for the sake of pushing buttons.

But with all things in kink its horses for courses."

THIS is the quote I have been searching for all my life. And warriors are hard to find. I love it and am gonna pin it to my board of thoughts. Thank you so much for sharing! X

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

Thanks for starting a great post which everyone discussed in good faith.x

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I have yet to meet a younger man that I can submit too. All have been at least 5 years older than me.

It's a personal thing though. I have to mentally connect and younger guys just don't do that for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it’s a interesting to here what the ladies think

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By *aks036Man
over a year ago

swindon

Too be honest that’s a very good point. I mean from my personal perspective as a 21 year old male. I’m only really just starting to find out my own likes/ dislikes and limits. And because of that. Even if I was interested in taking in the more dominant role. I just couldn’t see my self having the know how needed to make her experience what she wants it to be.

Personally I think It may be best if beginners like me just stick to trying to get their feet under them as a sub and learn my way around this fantastic world of kink before We even think about putting on a pair of big boy pants and taking control.

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