FabSwingers.com forum: Aspergers Guy looking for fun

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would it be possible to ask , I’m looking for fun with a curvy woman who would be happy to help me , I have Aspergers ( mild autism ) and I also wear a bag due to a non functioning bladder . I’m a genuine guy with genuine needs .

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By *erDirtyRockstarMan
over a year ago

buckinghamshire

Good luck matey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would it be possible to ask , I’m looking for fun with a curvy woman who would be happy to help me , I have Aspergers ( mild autism ) and I also wear a bag due to a non functioning bladder . I’m a genuine guy with genuine needs . "

Whilst we understand your issues, are you looking for a sympathy fuck??

This site will not make you feel good about yourself.

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By *erDirtyRockstarMan
over a year ago

buckinghamshire

No, I think the guy is just being earnest and honest .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Possible to ask but you aren't meeting my fantasy sex.

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By *ichelle999Couple
over a year ago

leicester

We to think he's being honest about his issues wish you all the luck in the world buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I think the guy is just being earnest and honest . "

We are sure he is.

Totally wrong site though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes iam been honest, I’m ok with other people’s opinions , as I said I’ve got genuine needs .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No I aren’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I think the guy is just being earnest and honest .

We are sure he is.

Totally wrong site though. "

Why? I have met a guy with a stoma (think that's what it's called) if I fancy someone, most things aren't an issue... It might be a slog OP but there is no reason you can't find someone.

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By *atBottomGirlsWoman
over a year ago

St Austell-ish

We've all got genuine needs.

Not to be rude/impolite but having needs doesn't mean the world owes them to us.

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By *ongueandgroove555Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

OP, fair play for your openness and honesty..if im not mistaken your aperrant bluntness in not either crude or as was stated looking for a sympathy fuck but actually just who u are. Some folks just don't get it or understand.

With aspergers i know you will have difficulty making the connections with people to actually arrange a meet so my advice to you is this.

Be yourself, be honest and stick with it somewhere out there is someone for you. It may not be this site but you will find someone who understands your needs and if ever we find ourselves in your part if the world we will have a beer and a chat. Best of luck my friend.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I do think that everyone deserves a change , if they have a disability or not , we all have feelings & because I have Aspergers doesn’t mean I’m any different, my way of thinking is different , that’s all it is , no I aren’t looking for sympathy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Possible to ask but you aren't meeting my fantasy sex. "

A bit snide don’t you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've all got genuine needs.

Not to be rude/impolite but having needs doesn't mean the world owes them to us. "

True.

We are being blunt, just as the OP is.

This site can be very very harsh.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thankyou for your advice . I don’t want to be discriminated for having a disability .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Possible to ask but you aren't meeting my fantasy sex.

A bit snide don’t you think?"

Snide, or just brutal honesty? ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Possible to ask but you aren't meeting my fantasy sex.

A bit snide don’t you think?"

No. The OP asked and I gave my honest response. I wasn't rude or harsh.

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By *ustfun 1984Man
over a year ago

exeter

"We've all got genuine needs.

Not to be rude/impolite but having needs doesn't mean the world owes them to us.

True.

We are being blunt, just as the OP is.

This site can be very very harsh.

And your the proof how harsh it can be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've all got genuine needs.

Not to be rude/impolite but having needs doesn't mean the world owes them to us.

True.

We are being blunt, just as the OP is.

This site can be very very harsh.

It’s only as harsh as those who are on the site?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"We've all got genuine needs.

Not to be rude/impolite but having needs doesn't mean the world owes them to us.

True.

We are being blunt, just as the OP is.

This site can be very very harsh.

The OP has a form of autism. Are you aware that people with autism often can be perceived to be blunt? It's not by design or intentional.

If what he posts isn't for you, why not just mooch on by?

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By *ongueandgroove555Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

"We've all got genuine needs.

Not to be rude/impolite but having needs doesn't mean the world owes them to us.

True.

We are being blunt, just as the OP is.

This site can be very very harsh.

Sometimes understanding why the OP is blunt is the first step and maybe then tempering our responses is the best approach. And this site is harsh, doesn't mean everyone has to be

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

I’m neurodiverse OP and I do ok even with a tragic profile.

It’s all about the message and the pics you send with it. Make sure you fit into their needs and it’s all good.

Good luck.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"We've all got genuine needs.

Not to be rude/impolite but having needs doesn't mean the world owes them to us.

True.

We are being blunt, just as the OP is.

This site can be very very harsh.

Sometimes understanding why the OP is blunt is the first step and maybe then tempering our responses is the best approach. And this site is harsh, doesn't mean everyone has to be "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've all got genuine needs.

Not to be rude/impolite but having needs doesn't mean the world owes them to us.

True.

We are being blunt, just as the OP is.

This site can be very very harsh.

The OP has a form of autism. Are you aware that people with autism often can be perceived to be blunt? It's not by design or intentional.

If what he posts isn't for you, why not just mooch on by?"

So op can be blunt but responses can't be? Why not let op comment rather than talking for them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Possible to ask but you aren't meeting my fantasy sex.

A bit snide don’t you think?

No. The OP asked and I gave my honest response. I wasn't rude or harsh. "

Sometimes honestly is just so snide.

There was no need to post that comment.

You may have a beautiful shape but I would much rather have a beautiful mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've all got genuine needs.

Not to be rude/impolite but having needs doesn't mean the world owes them to us.

True.

We are being blunt, just as the OP is.

This site can be very very harsh.

And your the proof how harsh it can be "

We are totally happy with that.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"We've all got genuine needs.

Not to be rude/impolite but having needs doesn't mean the world owes them to us.

True.

We are being blunt, just as the OP is.

This site can be very very harsh.

The OP has a form of autism. Are you aware that people with autism often can be perceived to be blunt? It's not by design or intentional.

If what he posts isn't for you, why not just mooch on by?

So op can be blunt but responses can't be? Why not let op comment rather than talking for them?"

There's a difference between being intentionally blunt (by design, to prove a point, to be rude, who knows?) and being blunt due to it being unavoidable.

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By *atBottomGirlsWoman
over a year ago

St Austell-ish

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By *erDirtyRockstarMan
over a year ago

buckinghamshire

"We've all got genuine needs.

Not to be rude/impolite but having needs doesn't mean the world owes them to us.

True.

We are being blunt, just as the OP is.

This site can be very very harsh.

Yes and there is no need to be harsh as is sometimes needlessly prevalent in these forums. Honesty and openess should be celebrated, not scrutinised in a split second and counted upon. It offers no value

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By *atBottomGirlsWoman
over a year ago

St Austell-ish

"We've all got genuine needs.

Not to be rude/impolite but having needs doesn't mean the world owes them to us.

True.

We are being blunt, just as the OP is.

This site can be very very harsh.

And your the proof how harsh it can be "

So--Are YOU willing to have sex with anyone, simply because "he has needs, too" ????

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By *ustfun 1984Man
over a year ago

exeter

"We've all got genuine needs.

Not to be rude/impolite but having needs doesn't mean the world owes them to us.

True.

We are being blunt, just as the OP is.

This site can be very very harsh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've all got genuine needs.

Not to be rude/impolite but having needs doesn't mean the world owes them to us.

True.

We are being blunt, just as the OP is.

This site can be very very harsh.

The OP has a form of autism. Are you aware that people with autism often can be perceived to be blunt? It's not by design or intentional.

If what he posts isn't for you, why not just mooch on by?

So op can be blunt but responses can't be? Why not let op comment rather than talking for them?

There's a difference between being intentionally blunt (by design, to prove a point, to be rude, who knows?) and being blunt due to it being unavoidable."

How do you know i don't have a mental health issue?

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By *erDirtyRockstarMan
over a year ago

buckinghamshire

"We've all got genuine needs.

Not to be rude/impolite but having needs doesn't mean the world owes them to us.

True.

We are being blunt, just as the OP is.

This site can be very very harsh.

The OP has a form of autism. Are you aware that people with autism often can be perceived to be blunt? It's not by design or intentional.

If what he posts isn't for you, why not just mooch on by?"

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"We've all got genuine needs.

Not to be rude/impolite but having needs doesn't mean the world owes them to us.

True.

We are being blunt, just as the OP is.

This site can be very very harsh.

And your the proof how harsh it can be

So--Are YOU willing to have sex with anyone, simply because "he has needs, too" ????"

Jeez. You don't have to have sex with the guy no more than anyone else does. Just keep scrolling if it's not for you, what's the need to be unpleasant? The OP has not been unpleasant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've all got genuine needs.

Not to be rude/impolite but having needs doesn't mean the world owes them to us.

True.

We are being blunt, just as the OP is.

This site can be very very harsh.

And your the proof how harsh it can be

So--Are YOU willing to have sex with anyone, simply because "he has needs, too" ????"

Is that what he said?!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"We've all got genuine needs.

Not to be rude/impolite but having needs doesn't mean the world owes them to us.

True.

We are being blunt, just as the OP is.

This site can be very very harsh.

The OP has a form of autism. Are you aware that people with autism often can be perceived to be blunt? It's not by design or intentional.

If what he posts isn't for you, why not just mooch on by?

So op can be blunt but responses can't be? Why not let op comment rather than talking for them?

There's a difference between being intentionally blunt (by design, to prove a point, to be rude, who knows?) and being blunt due to it being unavoidable.

How do you know i don't have a mental health issue?"

And what does that have to do with the price of fish? Autism is not a mental health issue for heaven's sake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've all got genuine needs.

Not to be rude/impolite but having needs doesn't mean the world owes them to us.

True.

We are being blunt, just as the OP is.

This site can be very very harsh.

And your the proof how harsh it can be

So--Are YOU willing to have sex with anyone, simply because "he has needs, too" ????

Jeez. You don't have to have sex with the guy no more than anyone else does. Just keep scrolling if it's not for you, what's the need to be unpleasant? The OP has not been unpleasant."

You seem to have confused being honest to being unpleasant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've all got genuine needs.

Not to be rude/impolite but having needs doesn't mean the world owes them to us.

True.

We are being blunt, just as the OP is.

This site can be very very harsh.

The OP has a form of autism. Are you aware that people with autism often can be perceived to be blunt? It's not by design or intentional.

If what he posts isn't for you, why not just mooch on by?

. "

In the same vein, if you feel the need to comment then comment. Last I saw we were all allowed to and not just those that declared mental illness with every post they make.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Bet you wish you never asked now Op

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"We've all got genuine needs.

Not to be rude/impolite but having needs doesn't mean the world owes them to us.

True.

We are being blunt, just as the OP is.

This site can be very very harsh.

The OP has a form of autism. Are you aware that people with autism often can be perceived to be blunt? It's not by design or intentional.

If what he posts isn't for you, why not just mooch on by?

In the same vein, if you feel the need to comment then comment. Last I saw we were all allowed to and not just those that declared mental illness with every post they make."

Autism is not a mental illness.

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By *atBottomGirlsWoman
over a year ago

St Austell-ish

"We've all got genuine needs.

Not to be rude/impolite but having needs doesn't mean the world owes them to us.

True.

We are being blunt, just as the OP is.

This site can be very very harsh.

And your the proof how harsh it can be

So--Are YOU willing to have sex with anyone, simply because "he has needs, too" ????

Is that what he said?! "

Genuine guy with genuine needs. So yes, that's how I read it.

We all have genuine needs. Doesn't mean we all get what we want, right? move on if we don't get it, why whinge?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've all got genuine needs.

Not to be rude/impolite but having needs doesn't mean the world owes them to us.

True.

We are being blunt, just as the OP is.

This site can be very very harsh.

The OP has a form of autism. Are you aware that people with autism often can be perceived to be blunt? It's not by design or intentional.

If what he posts isn't for you, why not just mooch on by?

In the same vein, if you feel the need to comment then comment. Last I saw we were all allowed to and not just those that declared mental illness with every post they make.

Autism is not a mental illness."

I don't believe i said it was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've all got genuine needs.

Not to be rude/impolite but having needs doesn't mean the world owes them to us.

True.

We are being blunt, just as the OP is.

This site can be very very harsh.

The OP has a form of autism. Are you aware that people with autism often can be perceived to be blunt? It's not by design or intentional.

If what he posts isn't for you, why not just mooch on by?

In the same vein, if you feel the need to comment then comment. Last I saw we were all allowed to and not just those that declared mental illness with every post they make.

Autism is not a mental illness."

Good point very well made!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've all got genuine needs.

Not to be rude/impolite but having needs doesn't mean the world owes them to us.

True.

We are being blunt, just as the OP is.

This site can be very very harsh.

And your the proof how harsh it can be

So--Are YOU willing to have sex with anyone, simply because "he has needs, too" ????

Is that what he said?!

Genuine guy with genuine needs. So yes, that's how I read it.

We all have genuine needs. Doesn't mean we all get what we want, right? move on if we don't get it, why whinge?"

True.

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By *ichelle999Couple
over a year ago

leicester

I have a 7 year old son with autism he is the most loving and honest child you will ever meet he is one in a million so so so clever am so proud of him to us he is like every person on this forum with equal rights no Matter what that is needs or wants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've all got genuine needs.

Not to be rude/impolite but having needs doesn't mean the world owes them to us.

True.

We are being blunt, just as the OP is.

This site can be very very harsh.

The OP has a form of autism. Are you aware that people with autism often can be perceived to be blunt? It's not by design or intentional.

If what he posts isn't for you, why not just mooch on by?

In the same vein, if you feel the need to comment then comment. Last I saw we were all allowed to and not just those that declared mental illness with every post they make.

Autism is not a mental illness.

Good point very well made!"

Sadly irrelevant. No one is debating that. Was just pointing out that I could have but not one of you jumping on my comments considered it. Interesting.

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By *ongueandgroove555Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

"We've all got genuine needs.

Not to be rude/impolite but having needs doesn't mean the world owes them to us.

True.

We are being blunt, just as the OP is.

This site can be very very harsh.

The OP has a form of autism. Are you aware that people with autism often can be perceived to be blunt? It's not by design or intentional.

If what he posts isn't for you, why not just mooch on by?

In the same vein, if you feel the need to comment then comment. Last I saw we were all allowed to and not just those that declared mental illness with every post they make.

Autism is not a mental illness."

Thats twice you've said autiam isn't a mental illness so whats your point?

Autism is a neurological condition that is a spectrum of symptoms that means the individual will have difficulties ranging from social interaction to more sever and debiliting conditions.

No one on this site has to meet an autistic person if they don't want to no more than the people who don't want to meet black white Asian tall small fat thin etc.

But what we should be as human beings is accepting, understanding and non judgemental. Who you meet is your choice as is who you judge ! A little understanding goes a long way

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By *atBottomGirlsWoman
over a year ago

St Austell-ish

"I have a 7 year old son with autism he is the most loving and honest child you will ever meet he is one in a million so so so clever am so proud of him to us he is like every person on this forum with equal rights no Matter what that is needs or wants "

Of course he deserves to be happy and have equal rights. That does NOT, however, mean that once he is an adult every person he fancies should be willing to have sex with him, simply because he has autism.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why doesn't one of the outspoken people on here just offer the OP what he wants??

Simple solution really.

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By *ongueandgroove555Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

"Why doesn't one of the outspoken people on here just offer the OP what he wants??

Simple solution really."

Think you've totally missed the point of some of us outspoken people !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why doesn't one of the outspoken people on here just offer the OP what he wants??

Simple solution really."

I bet you two are a barrel of fun on a night out.

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By *erDirtyRockstarMan
over a year ago

buckinghamshire

My nephew has behavioural disabilities and he has amazing good heartedness and honesty about him. So I'm irked with ignorant ass judgement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've all got genuine needs.

Not to be rude/impolite but having needs doesn't mean the world owes them to us.

True.

We are being blunt, just as the OP is.

This site can be very very harsh.

The OP has a form of autism. Are you aware that people with autism often can be perceived to be blunt? It's not by design or intentional.

If what he posts isn't for you, why not just mooch on by?

In the same vein, if you feel the need to comment then comment. Last I saw we were all allowed to and not just those that declared mental illness with every post they make.

Autism is not a mental illness.

Good point very well made!

Sadly irrelevant. No one is debating that. Was just pointing out that I could have but not one of you jumping on my comments considered it. Interesting. "

Totally incomprehensible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why doesn't one of the outspoken people on here just offer the OP what he wants??

Simple solution really.

I bet you two are a barrel of fun on a night out."

We are.

But you won't ever find out.

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By *atBottomGirlsWoman
over a year ago

St Austell-ish

"My nephew has behavioural disabilities and he has amazing good heartedness and honesty about him. So I'm irked with ignorant ass judgement.

The point is NOT about disabilities. It's that no one DESERVES some things (sex, in this case) simply because of those disabilities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why doesn't one of the outspoken people on here just offer the OP what he wants??

Simple solution really.

I bet you two are a barrel of fun on a night out.

We are.

But you won't ever find out."

Trust me I really would not want to!

In all honesty.

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By *erDirtyRockstarMan
over a year ago

buckinghamshire

"My nephew has behavioural disabilities and he has amazing good heartedness and honesty about him. So I'm irked with ignorant ass judgement.

The point is NOT about disabilities. It's that no one DESERVES some things (sex, in this case) simply because of those disabilities. "

I believe OP did not state he deserves anything

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I haven’t come here to offend or upset anyone , that wasn’t my intention , I’m really sorry

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By *ongueandgroove555Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

"I haven’t come here to offend or upset anyone , that wasn’t my intention , I’m really sorry "

Don't apologies Mike all you did was ask a question. How people react is not your fault its theirs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why doesn't one of the outspoken people on here just offer the OP what he wants??

Simple solution really.

I bet you two are a barrel of fun on a night out.

We are.

But you won't ever find out.

Trust me I really would not want to!

In all honesty."

It was never and will never be on offer.

Your opinion is totally irrelevant to us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We to think he's being honest about his issues wish you all the luck in the world buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My nephew has behavioural disabilities and he has amazing good heartedness and honesty about him. So I'm irked with ignorant ass judgement.

The point is NOT about disabilities. It's that no one DESERVES some things (sex, in this case) simply because of those disabilities.

I believe OP did not state he deserves anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good luck matey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I think the guy is just being earnest and honest .

We are sure he is.

Totally wrong site though.

Why? I have met a guy with a stoma (think that's what it's called) if I fancy someone, most things aren't an issue... It might be a slog OP but there is no reason you can't find someone. "

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I haven’t come here to offend or upset anyone , that wasn’t my intention , I’m really sorry "

Sorry for what you have done nothing wrong xxxx I say well done and good luck xx dont ever be afraid to speak if people want to be petty that's on them xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I haven’t come here to offend or upset anyone , that wasn’t my intention , I’m really sorry

Don't apologies Mike all you did was ask a question. How people react is not your fault its theirs.

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Thankyou very much ??

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

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By *erDirtyRockstarMan
over a year ago

buckinghamshire

Mike, forums are always an open forum for negative comments, do not apologise . Go get em lad, best wishes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why doesn't one of the outspoken people on here just offer the OP what he wants??

Simple solution really.

I bet you two are a barrel of fun on a night out.

We are.

But you won't ever find out.

Trust me I really would not want to!

In all honesty.

It was never and will never be on offer.

Your opinion is totally irrelevant to us."

What makes you think I wanted an offer? In all honesty l could not give a rats behind about you indifference to my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I haven’t come here to offend or upset anyone , that wasn’t my intention , I’m really sorry

Don't apologies Mike all you did was ask a question. How people react is not your fault its theirs.

Thankyou very much ??

Good luck with your search xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some right snobby replies on here...definitely up their own arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why doesn't one of the outspoken people on here just offer the OP what he wants??

Simple solution really.

I bet you two are a barrel of fun on a night out.

We are.

But you won't ever find out.

Trust me I really would not want to!

In all honesty.

It was never and will never be on offer.

Your opinion is totally irrelevant to us.

What makes you think I wanted an offer? In all honesty l could not give a rats behind about you indifference to my opinion."

You mean rat's behind.

Excellent! !

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

"I haven’t come here to offend or upset anyone , that wasn’t my intention , I’m really sorry "

You haven't done anything wrong. There's a lot of emotions running high at the moment everywhere in my opinion.

I hope you find everything you are looking for.

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

Jesus, it's only some people on this site that makes it harsh and it do eat have to be, nobody is saying the world owes him a favour because of his needs, he is a human being and with or without his disability he has the right like ever one of us on here to voice his needs, and why can't this site be any good for him...good luck op in your search, and I'm sure you will find someone that appreciates you for who you are x

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Why doesn't one of the outspoken people on here just offer the OP what he wants??

Simple solution really.

I bet you two are a barrel of fun on a night out.

We are.

But you won't ever find out.

Trust me I really would not want to!

In all honesty.

It was never and will never be on offer.

Your opinion is totally irrelevant to us.

What makes you think I wanted an offer? In all honesty l could not give a rats behind about you indifference to my opinion.

You mean rat's behind.

Excellent! !"

You two just stop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst we understand your issues, are you looking for a sympathy fuck??

This site will not make you feel good about yourself. "

Tbh its a shame we cant make this site very good for people like you either really

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I haven’t come here to offend or upset anyone , that wasn’t my intention , I’m really sorry "

Don't apologise, you're entitled to be on here and ask your question and you certainly haven't offended or upset anyone. I hope you find what you're looking for, Mike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst we understand your issues, are you looking for a sympathy fuck??

This site will not make you feel good about yourself.

Tbh its a shame we cant make this site very good for people like you either really"

We find this site great! !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why doesn't one of the outspoken people on here just offer the OP what he wants??

Simple solution really.

I bet you two are a barrel of fun on a night out.

We are.

But you won't ever find out.

Trust me I really would not want to!

In all honesty.

It was never and will never be on offer.

Your opinion is totally irrelevant to us.

What makes you think I wanted an offer? In all honesty l could not give a rats behind about you indifference to my opinion.

You mean rat's behind.

Excellent! !"

So, it’s no becoming a grammar discussion?

Honestly you need to scroll up and have a look at your previous posts if grammar is an issue.

As I say a night out with you would be......riveting, honestly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why doesn't one of the outspoken people on here just offer the OP what he wants??

Simple solution really.

I bet you two are a barrel of fun on a night out.

We are.

But you won't ever find out.

Trust me I really would not want to!

In all honesty.

It was never and will never be on offer.

Your opinion is totally irrelevant to us.

What makes you think I wanted an offer? In all honesty l could not give a rats behind about you indifference to my opinion.

You mean rat's behind.

Excellent! !

So, it’s no becoming a grammar discussion?

Honestly you need to scroll up and have a look at your previous posts if grammar is an issue.

As I say a night out with you would be......riveting, honestly!"

Our grammar is just fine.

A night out with you?? Sorry but it just isn't going to happen.

You aren't our type! !

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Another thread gone off topic..

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich

Hi Mike

I'm also on the spectrum, I'm lucky that my bluntness comes across as confidence to some and therefore very attractive, but i also get called arrogant quite often.

I haven't struggled with meeting girls but relationships were always difficult. I'm very lucky to have an extremely understanding wife who knows how to handle me and makes certain allowances.

I think you may struggle on this site but don't give up. Hopefully you can make a personal connection with the right person.

You may find broadening you search useful. Try some other dating sites focused on connection rather than sex.

Also there are many forums and dating sites specifically for people on the spectrum, maybe try these, it might be easier to make a connection with someone who has a personal understanding of your issues.

Best of luck

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Great post and very helpful

^^^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why doesn't one of the outspoken people on here just offer the OP what he wants??

Simple solution really.

I bet you two are a barrel of fun on a night out.

We are.

But you won't ever find out.

Trust me I really would not want to!

In all honesty.

It was never and will never be on offer.

Your opinion is totally irrelevant to us.

What makes you think I wanted an offer? In all honesty l could not give a rats behind about you indifference to my opinion.

You mean rat's behind.

Excellent! !

So, it’s no becoming a grammar discussion?

Honestly you need to scroll up and have a look at your previous posts if grammar is an issue.

As I say a night out with you would be......riveting, honestly!

Our grammar is just fine.

A night out with you?? Sorry but it just isn't going to happen.

You aren't our type! !"

Honestly irony is just lost on some!

To be brutally honest not being your type is a major plus for me.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Another thread gone off topic.. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi Mike

I'm also on the spectrum, I'm lucky that my bluntness comes across as confidence to some and therefore very attractive, but i also get called arrogant quite often.

I haven't struggled with meeting girls but relationships were always difficult. I'm very lucky to have an extremely understanding wife who knows how to handle me and makes certain allowances.

I think you may struggle on this site but don't give up. Hopefully you can make a personal connection with the right person.

You may find broadening you search useful. Try some other dating sites focused on connection rather than sex.

Thankyou for your comment

Best of luck"

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Another thread gone off topic..

why do people have to spoil other's threads with their petty squabbling?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Another thread gone off topic..

why do people have to spoil other's threads with their petty squabbling?"

No idea it makes them look cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another thread gone off topic..

why do people have to spoil other's threads with their petty squabbling?

No idea it makes them look cool

More like it fills their egos

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Another thread gone off topic..

why do people have to spoil other's threads with their petty squabbling?

No idea it makes them look cool

More like it fills their egos

Probably...let's hope Mike finds what he is looking for, when we can all move about more freely

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Another thread gone off topic..

why do people have to spoil other's threads with their petty squabbling?

No idea it makes them look cool

More like it fills their egos

Probably...let's hope Mike finds what he is looking for, when we can all move about more freely

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another thread gone off topic..

why do people have to spoil other's threads with their petty squabbling?

No idea it makes them look cool

More like it fills their egos

Yes, apologies it did go a little off message for which I apologise.

The ego has landed!

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Another thread gone off topic..

why do people have to spoil other's threads with their petty squabbling?

No idea it makes them look cool

More like it fills their egos

Yes, apologies it did go a little off message for which I apologise.

The ego has landed!"

Thank you for apologising

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

Good luck OP and fair play for putting yourself out there and hopefully you find sond fun on here

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By *EDandBREAKFASTMan
over a year ago

wexford

Good luck op, hope you find what your looking for man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bet you wish you never asked now Op

Fuck. In. Hell.

An argument over nothing can spring up or people get faux offence and outrage on these forums so so easily

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

"We've all got genuine needs.

Not to be rude/impolite but having needs doesn't mean the world owes them to us.

True.

We are being blunt, just as the OP is.

This site can be very very harsh.

Being blunt is a 'symptom' of Aspergers, not the the OP being deliberately rude.

And your excuse is?

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