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Jealousy???? On Here!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes you read right!! I will now not put new verifications up as I am sick and tired of one or two of the guys that I chat to having a go!!

Erm hello im single, can do what I want etc etc.

Has anyone else had this?

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I don't display mine at all.

Guys ask why you met someone else and not contacted them... couples moan that you met someone they don't like or have met another couple more than you have met them... women check to see who the guys they like have met... oh the list goes on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...and we thought all this was NSA

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Me too! I think that some guys (or the ones that I chat too) seem to think that once youve send a few messages to and fro that they own you and you arent allowed to talk or meet anyone else!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The above two posts are one of the reasons we have verifications displayed, firstly though most of our verifications are from people we have not played with, in fact nearly all of them are in that category.

They are people we have met at swingers clubs, we know they are genuine as in they are what thier profile says they are, they are non-pushy and easy to get along with.

Personally we believe that talking about how good the sex was in a verification is imaterial, what is good for one is not always good for the next anyway. More important for us is the social factor of the people we meet.

Are they loud or abusive, are they clean and respectfull, are they easy to talk to and not pushy etc.

Anyway back to the subject, if anyone gets the hump with us because we have met someone they don't like, if anyone gets upset because we played with someone and chose them first etc it tells us that they are not the kind of people we want to meet, it's a good way of "reading between the lines" and getting a better insight into people.

You should keep your verifications OP and use the information your getting to avoid pratts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me too! I think that some guys (or the ones that I chat too) seem to think that once youve send a few messages to and fro that they own you and you arent allowed to talk or meet anyone else!! "

that wouldn't surprise me the slightest with some of the guys I've chatted to on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol of course there is......

the volume of single guys and the desire to have a 'couple' profile as a guarantee in THEIR eyes as the 'golden ticket' to more pussy drives this behaviour..

and no sooner do they create that new profile .... they shout NO SINGLE GUYS NO SINGLE GUYS... in case their new mate ditches em for a new model at some point in the future..

jealousy is a shocking but highly amusing trait to watch on here ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I do believe youre right VIEW, i say this as i met a guy a few weeks back, all was good, good social time and the sex wasnt too bad, not the best but not bad, anyways, he said within a week or so, "mind you, were not meeting single males" I was kind of taken back, but yes, the bee had his honey pot and was satisfied whereas the honeypot was just being used!!

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By *iceguydaveMan
over a year ago

Monmouth

View has, as usual, hit the nail right on the head here. It's not just about possessiveness, it's about a slightly mean-spirited ulterior motive.

Of course we're not all like that!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

altho I was in the chat room the other day where there is loads of new folks which was lovely...

altho a couple of the very nice new guys were being hunted down by some of the regular females.. and wow, that was .. ' to have him first ' and rub some peoples nose in it...

was also funny to watch and kinda sad.

I will get slated by the scots.... but hey just being honest lol xx

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


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and no sooner do they create that new profile .... they shout NO SINGLE GUYS NO SINGLE GUYS...

"

FUCK THAT!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well said polo lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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and no sooner do they create that new profile .... they shout NO SINGLE GUYS NO SINGLE GUYS...

FUCK THAT! "

go girls go....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A life without the thought of 2 guys in bed at the same time, I would rather put my head in the oven, slit my wrists, jump off the cliffs, you get the message lol x

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"A life without the thought of 2 guys in bed at the same time, I would rather put my head in the oven, slit my wrists, jump off the cliffs, you get the message lol x"

Is it a small oven?

I'm just thinking you wouldn't want to carry anything large all the way up to the top of the cliffs

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By *iceguydaveMan
over a year ago

Monmouth


"A life without the thought of 2 guys in bed at the same time, I would rather put my head in the oven, slit my wrists, jump off the cliffs, you get the message lol x

Is it a small oven?

I'm just thinking you wouldn't want to carry anything large all the way up to the top of the cliffs "

Especially with your wrists hurting so much

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes you read right!! I will now not put new verifications up as I am sick and tired of one or two of the guys that I chat to having a go!!

Erm hello im single, can do what I want etc etc.

Has anyone else had this? "

Yes I've had rows about it with one and you can't win - men can do whatever with whoever and we should apologise for enjoying sexual liberation lol Go figure ?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol of course there is......

the volume of single guys and the desire to have a 'couple' profile as a guarantee in THEIR eyes as the 'golden ticket' to more pussy drives this behaviour..

and no sooner do they create that new profile .... they shout NO SINGLE GUYS NO SINGLE GUYS... in case their new mate ditches em for a new model at some point in the future..

jealousy is a shocking but highly amusing trait to watch on here ....

"

I have witnessed this phenomenon first hand and it is horrible for the female. Turns a man she thought was great and she started getting attached to into a possesive monster thus pushing her away instead. If the woman started screaming 'NO MORE SINGLE FEMALES' the guy would probably run for the hills.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I've had rows about it with one and you can't win - men can do whatever with whoever and we should apologise for enjoying sexual liberation lol Go figure ????? "

Block them and move on. More likely than not they are jelous you are getting shit loads more meets than they are Wear any verify you wish with pride.

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess


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I have witnessed this phenomenon first hand and it is horrible for the female. Turns a man she thought was great and she started getting attached to into a possesive monster thus pushing her away instead. If the woman started screaming 'NO MORE SINGLE FEMALES' the guy would probably run for the hills."

........... or cheat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we really like a couple and have met and had a good time, then we like to meet again and maybe even more .... but jealousy has no place in swinging ... period!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

swinging is between human beings....

jealousy is a human emotion....

there is no escape from it, no matter how 'open minded' ppl think they are, they still remain human beings and prone to ALL the human emotions.

i mean, if it woznt for sexual appetite/lust there wud be no swinging, would there???? yet we stand amazed when other of these emotions are raised!

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon

to be honest it can work the other way

had two good meets with one lady

and chatted on the phone.

then phone calls were every other day (she rang me), then was wanting to know why i had more verifications after we had met, said it made her look bad to her friends on here as i was seeing other women. she was trying to make me feel as if i was cheating on her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"swinging is between human beings....

jealousy is a human emotion....

there is no escape from it, no matter how 'open minded' ppl think they are, they still remain human beings and prone to ALL the human emotions.

i mean, if it woznt for sexual appetite/lust there wud be no swinging, would there???? yet we stand amazed when other of these emotions are raised! "

Point taken but it depends on the people involved. When you have total trust it really isn't an issue x

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Jealousy is not always about attraction though is it?

I recall a female account which had a message on it for ages... saying that if a guy had anything to do with me they shouldn't bother getting in touch

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

I post all mine as I have absolutely nothing to hide NOR DO i TELL LIES and tell the buggers to grow up or bugger off.

Its my life FFS!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

glad to be referred to as "an emotionless bitch" or a slapper for darin to have more than 1 meet in a wk... or the various other terms that have been used! swing and let swing i say! when i want an emotion relationship il have one until then i swing with whom i choose and when and so forth! have noticed at times it does seem to b a bit of a competition and a lot of bitchin does go on by both sexes!

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5


"glad to be referred to as "an emotionless bitch" or a slapper for darin to have more than 1 meet in a wk... or the various other terms that have been used! swing and let swing i say! when i want an emotion relationship il have one until then i swing with whom i choose and when and so forth! have noticed at times it does seem to b a bit of a competition and a lot of bitchin does go on by both sexes! "

I agree with you babes.

This NSA works in all cases.

I dont want a best friend on here, I have them, I just want a disposable fuck.

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

We show our verifications hopefully to assist couples interested in us, as a bi / gay male couple it's not always easy trying to get across what we're looking for.

We've meet numerous M/F couples who for one reason or another haven't posted a verification, it's not because we didn't get on, but we get the impression of those we have met, they don't want anyone else to know they've meet a MM couple, especially, if their profile claims the guy to be “straight”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"glad to be referred to as "an emotionless bitch" or a slapper for darin to have more than 1 meet in a wk... or the various other terms that have been used! swing and let swing i say! when i want an emotion relationship il have one until then i swing with whom i choose and when and so forth! have noticed at times it does seem to b a bit of a competition and a lot of bitchin does go on by both sexes!

I agree with you babes.

This NSA works in all cases.

I dont want a best friend on here, I have them, I just want a disposable fuck.

"

glad im not only one!! i have great non swingin friends and great swingin ones its other people that have the problem with it! life is just one big box o thorntons chocolates to me iv got to try as many as i can without bein sick lol xx

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5


"glad to be referred to as "an emotionless bitch" or a slapper for darin to have more than 1 meet in a wk... or the various other terms that have been used! swing and let swing i say! when i want an emotion relationship il have one until then i swing with whom i choose and when and so forth! have noticed at times it does seem to b a bit of a competition and a lot of bitchin does go on by both sexes!

I agree with you babes.

This NSA works in all cases.

I dont want a best friend on here, I have them, I just want a disposable fuck.

glad im not only one!! i have great non swingin friends and great swingin ones its other people that have the problem with it! life is just one big box o thorntons chocolates to me iv got to try as many as i can without bein sick lol xx "

god loves a slut xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

def we are the chosen ones lol aparrently accordin to the bible thumpin moron next door im goin to hell.... least it will be warm and all my friends there!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

god loves a slut xxxxx"

did someone call ?

am here......... how can I help ? xx

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5


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god loves a slut xxxxx

did someone call ?

am here......... how can I help ? xx"

I am a bible thumper, go to church most weeks but I have it on very good authority tht god loves a sinner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

god loves a slut xxxxx

did someone call ?

am here......... how can I help ? xx

I am a bible thumper, go to church most weeks but I have it on very good authority tht god loves a sinner.

"

I do.......

oops maybe not best thread to refer to myself as god....... och well, too late..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

heaven or hell either way im sure i will have fun lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

god loves a slut xxxxx

did someone call ?

am here......... how can I help ? xx

I am a bible thumper, go to church most weeks but I have it on very good authority tht god loves a sinner.

I do.......

oops maybe not best thread to refer to myself as god....... och well, too late..

"

if ur god could u tell me what way im goin in the afterlife please just so i know what to pack lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

see ya there......... we are going down.

more fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have often wondered why a fem who previously met guys will suddenly change her profile once she had met someone to state that she is no longer meeting single men and ur reason for this seems the most likely. i also wanna say to any woman who has a jealous partner,someone who can turn on them after a few beers and maybe spoilt many a nights out with his accusations of infidelity then my advice is simple, end that r/ship cos it is doomed for just like the s in ur lawn his jealous thoughts will alalways resurface

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i have just read all the post on this thread and i am quite shocked at what people are say. I like to see a persons verification that way you can tell if they do play or just a wannaby. Also it is good to see what type of people they play with, sorry but if a guy will shag any hole then they not for me, prefer a guy with standards. Also I very rarely ask for verification, every1 would know what a dirty bitch i am, something are best kept secrete. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have often wondered why a fem who previously met guys will suddenly change her profile once she had met someone to state that she is no longer meeting single men and ur reason for this seems the most likely. i also wanna say to any woman who has a jealous partner,someone who can turn on them after a few beers and maybe spoilt many a nights out with his accusations of infidelity then my advice is simple, end that r/ship cos it is doomed for just like the s in ur lawn his jealous thoughts will alalways resurface"

We've always wondered the same thing, although when you delve in and think about it, a female meeting a male for one on one is a bit different from a female meeting two males for a threesome, so in effect, when they become a couple and they meet other couples then she is still meeting males, thats the joys of being a couple unfortunately, you then have 2 people to please, and add to that some couples just dont do MFM full stop.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Its the control things that gets me. I have had to ask someone not to contact me today as he feels the need to question why I have a meet today up!!! Well slap my wrists! I mean, forgive me if im being silly but this is a swing site is it not, for adults who want uncomplicated fun. I havent even met this guy!! Needless to say I wont now, end of for me. Where there is control there is jealousy where there is that there is no fun and I may as well get married!

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5


"Its the control things that gets me. I have had to ask someone not to contact me today as he feels the need to question why I have a meet today up!!! Well slap my wrists! I mean, forgive me if im being silly but this is a swing site is it not, for adults who want uncomplicated fun. I havent even met this guy!! Needless to say I wont now, end of for me. Where there is control there is jealousy where there is that there is no fun and I may as well get married!"

I get the same thing

Where have you been?

Who have you done?

My dads dead and no one pays my rent but me, so who has the right to question me?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I have my verifications on show so that people can see im genuine and dont just talk the talk. I will meet who i like when i like, i do have some guys that im close to and have enjoyed threesomes but that doesnt mean they own me.

Had a guy i met one night in the club want to see me again, we chatted for a while and arranged to meet again and then he said, we best not meet to often so you dont get attatched to me wtf was that all about. I just laughed and put the phone down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This does go both ways!

I'm not going to go into details and bring up the past but women can and do get jealous themselves. It happened not so long ago right here!!!

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5


"This does go both ways!

I'm not going to go into details and bring up the past but women can and do get jealous themselves. It happened not so long ago right here!!!

"

I absolutely agree.

I don't get jelous but if I see certain names show up in a friends list then I know we won't get on as they're not my "type" of people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have often wondered why a fem who previously met guys will suddenly change her profile once she had met someone to state that she is no longer meeting single men and ur reason for this seems the most likely. i also wanna say to any woman who has a jealous partner,someone who can turn on them after a few beers and maybe spoilt many a nights out with his accusations of infidelity then my advice is simple, end that r/ship cos it is doomed for just like the s in ur lawn his jealous thoughts will alalways resurface

We've always wondered the same thing, although when you delve in and think about it, a female meeting a male for one on one is a bit different from a female meeting two males for a threesome, so in effect, when they become a couple and they meet other couples then she is still meeting males, thats the joys of being a couple unfortunately, you then have 2 people to please, and add to that some couples just dont do MFM full stop."
i didnt delve deep enough cos what ur saying sounds very plausible to me i just never found that reason so im glad you pointed it out but let me just say that as a fairly sociable lad who has had many close friends over the years i have seen what jealousy can do to a mans mind and just how it can affect someones personality which in turn make his once confident, chatty partner turn into a nervous wreck.we only have one precious life and no woman should have to spend hers in this way.i also agree with another post which says that jealousy is a human emotion and a part of our lives but like any other emotion its dealt with in different ways by different individuals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes i've had it a few times where ive met guys and they all of a sudden seem to think they own me on the swinging sceen, when ive been talking to them on msn etc got a bit funny with me because ive said im meeting someone else, or ive had guys ive met arrange meets with me with couples and let me know after its all been arranged!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes i've had it a few times where ive met guys and they all of a sudden seem to think they own me on the swinging sceen, when ive been talking to them on msn etc got a bit funny with me because ive said im meeting someone else, or ive had guys ive met arrange meets with me with couples and let me know after its all been arranged!!"
if i met you naughty and we had some fun then you later told me your next meet was with a man utd. fan i must admit id be very funny with you lol but hey, theres lots of men out there who dont even llike footbball who you can meet after me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how about two man utd fans?

Ooooo now theres a thoughts, so long as they dont talk football lol

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

jealous????????????

On here..........???

Never.........nah.......lol....x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how about two man utd fans? heres another thought why dont you do just that then update ur profile to say that youre now meeting absolutely anyone lol

Ooooo now theres a thoughts, so long as they dont talk football lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how about two man utd fans? heres another thought why dont you do just that then update ur profile to say that youre now meeting absolutely anyone lol

Ooooo now theres a thoughts, so long as they dont talk football lol "

you right fucked that quote up didnt you lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how about two man utd fans? heres another thought why dont you do just that then update ur profile to say that youre now meeting absolutely anyone lol

Ooooo now theres a thoughts, so long as they dont talk football lol

you right fucked that quote up didnt you lmao "
if the two fans ur on about are you n ur hubby then i apologise, to ur hubby that is and if its not then good nite n god bless lol

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By *ibertinesCouple
over a year ago

Cupar


"The above two posts are one of the reasons we have verifications displayed, firstly though most of our verifications are from people we have not played with, in fact nearly all of them are in that category.

They are people we have met at swingers clubs, we know they are genuine as in they are what thier profile says they are, they are non-pushy and easy to get along with.

Personally we believe that talking about how good the sex was in a verification is imaterial, what is good for one is not always good for the next anyway. More important for us is the social factor of the people we meet.

Are they loud or abusive, are they clean and respectfull, are they easy to talk to and not pushy etc.

Anyway back to the subject, if anyone gets the hump with us because we have met someone they don't like, if anyone gets upset because we played with someone and chose them first etc it tells us that they are not the kind of people we want to meet, it's a good way of "reading between the lines" and getting a better insight into people.

You should keep your verifications OP and use the information your getting to avoid pratts "

WORD

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