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By *ootprints1629 OP   Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

Ok ladies, we have all taken pics of our bodies for all to see on fab

I know myself I am not very confident about my body, you wouldn't think it though.

I would change quit a few things being

Tummy, pussy, and boobs.

What would you change about yoursef if anything at all?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

My health.

My body and facial hair.

Anything else is workable (but it took a lot of work to accept myself)

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By *ootprints1629 OP   Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray


"My health.

My body and facial hair.

Anything else is workable (but it took a lot of work to accept myself)"

Actually that is spot on, I would change my health to, having arthritis in my back and hips stop alot of horny positions lol.

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By *00KissesCouple
over a year ago

Stourbridge

I just need to grow a few inches and stay the same weight.... Stretch it all out a bit

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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I have a fairly high level of body confidence. Am I perfect? Far from it! But if I'm at the stage where I'm getting naked with someone then I'm certain that they like me as I am, wobbly bits and all. I'd never allow worries about belly folds detract from having fun and enjoying the moment.

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

Not a lady obviously but men aren't any different we all have our flaws i don't think many people have body confidence in one way or another I'd change my ugly mug if I could think most men would probably say penis size but I've learnt to live with that it is what it is

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

No arthritis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a lady obviously but men aren't any different we all have our flaws i don't think many people have body confidence in one way or another I'd change my ugly mug if I could think most men would probably say penis size but I've learnt to live with that it is what it is "

Truthfully penis size is a thing I couldn’t care less about. But body positivity is so hard to come by for me. Despite all the changes I am still making and I see great progress I still see that same shitty thing in the mirror which is my body. The mental side of things is far harder to change than the physical and I never thought that would be the case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My body confidence is improving, actually posting my profile pic was a huge deal for me and it’s been helpful that some men still find me attractive despite my stomach (which is the part I’m most self conscious about).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My body confidence is improving, actually posting my profile pic was a huge deal for me and it’s been helpful that some men still find me attractive despite my stomach (which is the part I’m most self conscious about)."

Your body is amazing!! Mwahhhhhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My body confidence is improving, actually posting my profile pic was a huge deal for me and it’s been helpful that some men still find me attractive despite my stomach (which is the part I’m most self conscious about)."

Absolutely nothing wrong with that body my dear, we all have our slight imperfections (can’t think of another word at the mo) that we’re conscious of And dislike, but that doesn’t mean we’re not sexy or hot in the eyes of someone else.

You looks sexy to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we all worry about the small things.

the big stuff rarely crosses our minds

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By *iffler 2019Woman
over a year ago

Saltash aka Fraggle Rock

My back/spine as I have a lifelong condition that affects my back that is all I would change I think x

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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago

S. Northants

Body image isn't just for the women.

We both have our hang ups about our bodies (although 99% of the time we disagree with each other). Hubby can be more negative about his sometimes, and has more than the Wife. X

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Body image isn't just for the women.

We both have our hang ups about our bodies (although 99% of the time we disagree with each other). Hubby can be more negative about his sometimes, and has more than the Wife. X"

Definitely so.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I'm confident, women are conditioned not to be. Like someone else said,my health I would improve. X

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I'm confident, women are conditioned not to be. Like someone else said,my health I would improve. X"

It took me bloody ages to beat my insecurity back. With a sledgehammer. It's still there, lurking... I've still got my sledgehammer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It took me years to realise that my cock size just didn't matter. ( Takes alot to admit this) I didn't start pubity until I was 16 it was horrible. Societies image of a perfect body is just plain bullshit

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"It took me years to realise that my cock size just didn't matter. ( Takes alot to admit this) I didn't start pubity until I was 16 it was horrible. Societies image of a perfect body is just plain bullshit "

I started puberty pretty early and that was its own head fuck too. I'm sorry you went through that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok ladies, we have all taken pics of our bodies for all to see on fab

I know myself I am not very confident about my body, you wouldn't think it though.

I would change quit a few things being

Tummy, pussy, and boobs.

What would you change about yoursef if anything at all?"

Don't change a damn thing OP...wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love putting a mind a rest through massage, those difficult first few moments..... But then the peaceful setting, relaxing background music and exploring hands really work xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think one of the key things I’m learning is the difference between self confidence and self esteem. On the outset you’d think i was very body confident through my actions but it’s almost like one huge facade. I imagine a lot of women and men feel similarly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Body confidence has always been an issue especially after having kids.

But there isnt alot i can do to change the bits of me that i dont like so have to just try rock it lol

If people dont like what they see they dont have to look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It took me years to realise that my cock size just didn't matter. ( Takes alot to admit this) I didn't start pubity until I was 16 it was horrible. Societies image of a perfect body is just plain bullshit

I started puberty pretty early and that was its own head fuck too. I'm sorry you went through that."

Ahh growing up is tough but it makes who we are today. One body one life x

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"I think one of the key things I’m learning is the difference between self confidence and self esteem. On the outset you’d think i was very body confident through my actions but it’s almost like one huge facade. I imagine a lot of women and men feel similarly "

This, massively

Whilst there's plenty I dislike about my body (it's fat and hairy, for a start, although I COULD do something about both of those) my self esteem is at an all time low. Thats going to be the real hard part to sort properly, because I think for years I've just buried the problem rather than trying to deal with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think one of the key things I’m learning is the difference between self confidence and self esteem. On the outset you’d think i was very body confident through my actions but it’s almost like one huge facade. I imagine a lot of women and men feel similarly

This, massively

Whilst there's plenty I dislike about my body (it's fat and hairy, for a start, although I COULD do something about both of those) my self esteem is at an all time low. Thats going to be the real hard part to sort properly, because I think for years I've just buried the problem rather than trying to deal with it "

You've just realised you bury the problem this in itself is the start of fixing it mate. Good luck

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By *iffler 2019Woman
over a year ago

Saltash aka Fraggle Rock


"I think one of the key things I’m learning is the difference between self confidence and self esteem. On the outset you’d think i was very body confident through my actions but it’s almost like one huge facade. I imagine a lot of women and men feel similarly

This, massively

Whilst there's plenty I dislike about my body (it's fat and hairy, for a start, although I COULD do something about both of those) my self esteem is at an all time low. Thats going to be the real hard part to sort properly, because I think for years I've just buried the problem rather than trying to deal with it "

I also suffer from low self esteem which I struggle with on a daily basis so your not alone there

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"It took me years to realise that my cock size just didn't matter. ( Takes alot to admit this) I didn't start pubity until I was 16 it was horrible. Societies image of a perfect body is just plain bullshit

I started puberty pretty early and that was its own head fuck too. I'm sorry you went through that.

Ahh growing up is tough but it makes who we are today. One body one life x"

Heck yes

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I've got pretty high body confidence. As I grow older I can see how the celebration of youth and youthful looks can impact on how older women and men feel about their bodies though.

Would I change anything? If it was pain free and non invasive I'd have my bunion sorted out. Otherwise no I wouldn't. Although I do the my hair.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

*dye my hair

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"I think one of the key things I’m learning is the difference between self confidence and self esteem. On the outset you’d think i was very body confident through my actions but it’s almost like one huge facade. I imagine a lot of women and men feel similarly

This, massively

Whilst there's plenty I dislike about my body (it's fat and hairy, for a start, although I COULD do something about both of those) my self esteem is at an all time low. Thats going to be the real hard part to sort properly, because I think for years I've just buried the problem rather than trying to deal with it

You've just realised you bury the problem this in itself is the start of fixing it mate. Good luck "

Thank you

I just wish it taken my sabotaging my last relationship, with someone I did genuinely think I had real future with, to realise what I was and have been doing

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"I think one of the key things I’m learning is the difference between self confidence and self esteem. On the outset you’d think i was very body confident through my actions but it’s almost like one huge facade. I imagine a lot of women and men feel similarly

This, massively

Whilst there's plenty I dislike about my body (it's fat and hairy, for a start, although I COULD do something about both of those) my self esteem is at an all time low. Thats going to be the real hard part to sort properly, because I think for years I've just buried the problem rather than trying to deal with it

I also suffer from low self esteem which I struggle with on a daily basis so your not alone there "

I wish there was somethingagic I could say to help. But thank you for your honesty and openness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok ladies, we have all taken pics of our bodies for all to see on fab

I know myself I am not very confident about my body, you wouldn't think it though.

I would change quit a few things being

Tummy, pussy, and boobs.

What would you change about yoursef if anything at all?"

Some of us men have body confidence issues too

And no I'm not referring to cock size haha

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

Less like mr greedy for me

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Ok ladies, we have all taken pics of our bodies for all to see on fab

I know myself I am not very confident about my body, you wouldn't think it though.

I would change quit a few things being

Tummy, pussy, and boobs.

What would you change about yoursef if anything at all?

Some of us men have body confidence issues too

And no I'm not referring to cock size haha"

Confidence is definitely a universal issue. Hard to remember sometimes given the way things can be polarised.

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

Health (Re Active Arthritis ) ,eye lift (annoyed me for years dropping eye lid _)Tummy maybe ,but mostly my mind set when confident i dont give a damm and own it ,other days i feel i look like crap ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok ladies, we have all taken pics of our bodies for all to see on fab

I know myself I am not very confident about my body, you wouldn't think it though.

I would change quit a few things being

Tummy, pussy, and boobs.

What would you change about yoursef if anything at all?

Some of us men have body confidence issues too

And no I'm not referring to cock size haha

Confidence is definitely a universal issue. Hard to remember sometimes given the way things can be polarised."

I'm a confident person online, and also with my clothes on, as soon as the shirt comes off it shows my issues... a deformed lung on my left hand side... makes it look I've got half a six pack!

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By *adHatter_RestrainedAliceCouple
over a year ago

In The Hills

I'm definitely more confident now than when I was younger. Massive thing for me would be my health, diagnosed with a rare pituitary condition 14 years ago after a head injury and seems so many things gone wrong since then and continue to. But I fight through them all and mostly do my best but on occasions I do get down with it and wish I had full health.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm looking forward to getting a boob reduction and a tummy tuck, hopefully next year but if not, then definitely the year after

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

I can say with absolute certainty that there will be someone out there who thinks you’re gorgeous, ladies.

Not everyone has the same tastes, but I’m certain you’ll be a hit with at least some of the men on here.

Hang-ups are in your own head.

That said, my body confidence is at all time low. I’ve eaten lots and exercises rarely in lockdown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate my tummy and my legs..

I uploaded some new pics today actually..

years ago i never would have taken these pics.. i cant be arsed to worry about it now x

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By *ootprints1629 OP   Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray


"Body image isn't just for the women.

We both have our hang ups about our bodies (although 99% of the time we disagree with each other). Hubby can be more negative about his sometimes, and has more than the Wife. X"

Yes I know it's not just about women but my question was aimed at women xx

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Body image isn't just for the women.

We both have our hang ups about our bodies (although 99% of the time we disagree with each other). Hubby can be more negative about his sometimes, and has more than the Wife. X

Yes I know it's not just about women but my question was aimed at women xx"

I realised that everyone puts their best foot forward and that those in the media are both heavily edited and genetic extremes.

I stopped hating myself. In my case I had therapy, which may or may not be necessary. I'm flawed and imperfect just like everyone else. Then I began to see some of what other people see.

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By *ootprints1629 OP   Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

My hubby is always telling me he lives my body and that I'm beautiful but I just don't see what he does, I have never been body confident I think alot this is because I compare myself to other women which is probably the worst thing I could do..it's a vicious circle really, but it has a knock on effect about how I think I am as a person to. Xx

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"My hubby is always telling me he lives my body and that I'm beautiful but I just don't see what he does, I have never been body confident I think alot this is because I compare myself to other women which is probably the worst thing I could do..it's a vicious circle really, but it has a knock on effect about how I think I am as a person to. Xx"

You need to start with you. Look up self compassion on Google.

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By *ootprints1629 OP   Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray


"My hubby is always telling me he lives my body and that I'm beautiful but I just don't see what he does, I have never been body confident I think alot this is because I compare myself to other women which is probably the worst thing I could do..it's a vicious circle really, but it has a knock on effect about how I think I am as a person to. Xx

You need to start with you. Look up self compassion on Google. "

Oh right ok I will have a nosy, thankyou xx

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"My hubby is always telling me he lives my body and that I'm beautiful but I just don't see what he does, I have never been body confident I think alot this is because I compare myself to other women which is probably the worst thing I could do..it's a vicious circle really, but it has a knock on effect about how I think I am as a person to. Xx

You need to start with you. Look up self compassion on Google.

Oh right ok I will have a nosy, thankyou xx"

It's hard, but it's liberating xx

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