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By *rivate room OP   Man
over a year ago

Bracknell

I want to buy lingerie for myself somewhere like Ann Summers and I want to know about sizes. Do staff help men who want to wear knickers etc?

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By *rivate room OP   Man
over a year ago

Bracknell

I want to look girly as possible in private. Later on I will buy ladies shoes maybe pink sizes I don’t know. A girly blouse and go a bit public somewhere no one knows me .

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By *rivate room OP   Man
over a year ago

Bracknell

I think you can talk about a desire to crossdress to Beaumont society.

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By *rivate room OP   Man
over a year ago

Bracknell

Maybe Abfabs have some bi nights where men can dress like a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not put all your questions in one go instead of multiple ones if you need help message us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many questions Jason and so little internet.

For sizes I’m sure google is your friend and as you’ve been told before a lot of men shop on line for their dressing clothes.

Good luck.

T

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Lingerie you buy in Ann Summers is going to be tat that is just for bedroom use.

A decent lingerie department (M&S for one) will be utterly fine with helping you.

My main advice is that you will not find a good suspender belt on the high street. As your hip to waist ratio will not be good, you'll need something with a good amount of friction, so at least six hooks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could look on line at their recommended sizing and order some stuff to try at home? Unless trying it on in the shop is part of the thrill?

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By *rivate room OP   Man
over a year ago

Bracknell

Can me try on lingerie in shop? M&S is good at helping men wear ladies under wear?

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By *rivate room OP   Man
over a year ago

Bracknell

Sorry can men try on underwear for ladies?

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Anyone can try on what they want in a shop. It's a legal requirement. You can't be treated differently because of your gender.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone can try on what they want in a shop. It's a legal requirement. You can't be treated differently because of your gender.

"

Are changing rooms open there then as here they are all closed????

T

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By *atBottomGirlsWoman
over a year ago

St Austell-ish

Have you ever worn any lingerie before? It's not clear what exactly you're looking for, and we have no idea what your comfort level is in going into a shop.

Assuming you have never tried anything and are very nervous about going into a shop, my suggestion is to start with a body stocking, ordered online. Lovehoney gives a discount if you click the link here on fab, and the queen size should fit an average man of your height.

There are a lot of different styles and colors available, from covering all to a suspender look.

Even as a woman, I was not comfortable trying things on in a shop for a long time, and found body stockings both comfortable and amazingly sexy feeling (as a start).

If you have anyone to shop with, bring them along! It's always a laugh (and more fun) when not alone.

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By *rivate room OP   Man
over a year ago

Bracknell

Yes maybe online is good idea. Wear body stocking at home first . Maybe later at a bi night at Abfabs later on.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Love honey and Bondara.

Not sure for guys but.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


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Are changing rooms open there then as here they are all closed????

T"

Yes changing rooms in UK are all shut at present

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By *atBottomGirlsWoman
over a year ago

St Austell-ish


"Love honey and Bondara.

Not sure for guys but."

I'm quite a large woman, and 5'8" Queen size is still stretchy enough that a lot more of me could fit into it, if it were needed! No doubt would fit a man over 6, if he is not also as rounded as I am.

Bondara is great, yes. Less expensive than Lovehoney, but not as much selection.

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By *isces WomanWoman
over a year ago

West London

I love bondara. Just be careful online as chinese sizing is really small.

Also check out honour they do mens ladies wear. Also head into soho. The shop assistance are very accomodating

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By *rivate room OP   Man
over a year ago

Bracknell

Love honey good idea. Make me look girly.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"Love honey good idea. Make me look girly."

Also Primark are also a surprisingly good.

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By *rivate room OP   Man
over a year ago

Bracknell

Body stocking plus basque set from lovehoney dark lace they do queen size. They do black and pink if I prefer. May be better on line. Still I can wear it in daring places after feeling comfortable at home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

green arrow shows this is quite repetitive for the OP

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Still, good info for others see the thread..

No harm is done.

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By *rivate room OP   Man
over a year ago

Bracknell

I have been interested in crossdressing and looking girly for some time. Body stocking and Basque is good beginning. Interested in shoes later and blouse.

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By *rivate room OP   Man
over a year ago

Bracknell

Some Fabswingers think my threads are interesting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe put it all in your profile rather than have 20 odd threads about it in the last 8 weeks though?

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset


"Sorry can men try on underwear for ladies?"

Currently no one can try on in shops.

As for sizing, yes Google is your friend but mainly, feet size is actually the same in mens or womens, I can wear any sex size 5 as a 5/38 is a 5/38 gender regardless. Mens Jean's etc tend to go 32 34 36 38 etc which again is actually no different to womens, the difference being womens tend to be labelled 12 14 16 18 etc. UK sizes do differ to other places like USA etc but that's where Google is handy. Places like Ebay do dirt cheap stuff to get a general feel of sizes if you are really stuck but

Let's guess your Jean's are a 30 waist, that's 12 in womans or 32 is womans 14 . Hope that helps

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset


"I have been interested in crossdressing and looking girly for some time. Body stocking and Basque is good beginning. Interested in shoes later and blouse."

Body stockings are easy and cheap. A lot are 1 size fits all and have a lot of give if needed

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By *rivate room OP   Man
over a year ago

Bracknell

Difference between bodystocking and basque set. Can be bought together sexy?

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

Body stocking is an all in 1 garment and Basque is a community in Spain I do believe

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By *rivate room OP   Man
over a year ago

Bracknell


"Sorry can men try on underwear for ladies?

Currently no one can try on in shops.

As for sizing, yes Google is your friend but mainly, feet size is actually the same in mens or womens, I can wear any sex size 5 as a 5/38 is a 5/38 gender regardless. Mens Jean's etc tend to go 32 34 36 38 etc which again is actually no different to womens, the difference being womens tend to be labelled 12 14 16 18 etc. UK sizes do differ to other places like USA etc but that's where Google is handy. Places like Ebay do dirt cheap stuff to get a general feel of sizes if you are really stuck but

Let's guess your Jean's are a 30 waist, that's 12 in womans or 32 is womans 14 . Hope that helps"

Just interested in ladies shoes pink maybe slip on shoes

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By *rivate room OP   Man
over a year ago

Bracknell


"Body stocking is an all in 1 garment and Basque is a community in Spain I do believe"
should have said Basque set

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset


"Body stocking is an all in 1 garment and Basque is a community in Spain I do believe should have said Basque set"

Sorry Jason I was just trying to have a giggle, I know what you meant really! Basque are often boned, very tight fitting and in my experience can do a bit of damage if a bone snaps!

Body stockings appear tight but actually really are not! Normally just netted with no boning.

As for for your want of pink shoes, simply look around the internet

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By *rivate room OP   Man
over a year ago

Bracknell

When I wear my bodystocking I will get a dildo to play with as well.

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By *rivate room OP   Man
over a year ago

Bracknell

Men wearing their lingerie with friends around is daring. Might wear my lingerie at a club unclothed or lingerie party at Abfabs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Body stocking is an all in 1 garment and Basque is a community in Spain I do believe"

And France!!

Very strange bunch indeed.

T

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