FabSwingers.com forum: Kissing

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What are everyone's opinions on kissing when playing with another couple - either soft or full (we're full swap). It is a given that girls will kiss each other but have found some couples are reluctant for man to kiss the woman and vice versa.

We personally like seeing the other partner kissing - we much prefer our swinging to be erotic, passionate and sexy rather than just stick your willy in....

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

Definately a full on kissing couple here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have found other cpls we meet don't 'kiss with tongues' yet we always do so felt very different!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We consider kissing to be massively important. It's kind of like the foreplay before foreplay

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We consider kissing to be massively important. It's kind of like the foreplay before foreplay

Exactly! Especially if you're going to have sex with them. Otherwise it'd be like shagging a prostitute.

Kissing with tongues is a definite for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We consider kissing to be massively important. It's kind of like the foreplay before foreplay

Exactly! Especially if you're going to have sex with them. Otherwise it'd be like shagging a prostitute.

Kissing with tongues is a definite for us. "

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

firstly when it concerns others in swinging id never ever take anything as "a given" . the girls may not be bi or plain just dont fancy each other so why would they kiss ??

as for kissing as part of a meet its a must for me ! i know some people save that for with their partner only (as is their right to choose )id def choose to decline a meet in that case . swinging for me is enjoying the exploration and pleasure . i sure as hell aint gonna have to hold my self back from kissing a person im fucking .defeats the whole purpose for me .so i will carrying on smooching away !! mwwahhh !! x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"firstly when it concerns others in swinging id never ever take anything as "a given" . the girls may not be bi or plain just dont fancy each other so why would they kiss ??

OK perhaps not a given but is fairly likely.

And we love seeing the other person kissing....a big turn on for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a great social meet with a couple but when they said they won't kiss on a meet we decided we couldn't go ahead and meet then to play as it just wouldn't feel right to us.

Can't understand why it's OK to have someone's cock in your mouth but not allowed to kiss them, just don't get it myself. Kissing is part of the build up to us.

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By *wingersrus465Couple
over a year ago

Cheshire

"We had a great social meet with a couple but when they said they won't kiss on a meet we decided we couldn't go ahead and meet then to play as it just wouldn't feel right to us.

Can't understand why it's OK to have someone's cock in your mouth but not allowed to kiss them, just don't get it myself. Kissing is part of the build up to us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can understand why couples would not want to I suppose although if that was the case perhaps they should not be swinging. as a single fem, kissing is crucial. and without it don't enjoy the meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No time for kissing cos I'm usually too busy trying to get my cock down the woman's throat. Save the tongues for after we've been introduced.

Ain't foreplay wonderful

Wolf... LOL

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By *lexaWoman
over a year ago

southampton

It depends for me. I'm not always keen to be honest. Prefer to keep that for my hubby.

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By *now-bbw-bunnyCouple
over a year ago

southend-on-sea

We don't do kissing normaly but sometimes when im being fucked it happens

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By *londeandbrownCouple
over a year ago

taunton

"It depends for me. I'm not always keen to be honest. Prefer to keep that for my hubby. "

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By *its The Spot AlotMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

I respect other peoples wishes weather its kissing or whatever,but agree it seems a little odd when the other guys wife is sucking your cock lol

I remember tho swapping partners first time

We decided to keep anal just as our personal thing

Next morning when we chatted found she had a sore bum

and so did the other guys wife lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It depends for me. I'm not always keen to be honest. Prefer to keep that for my hubby. "

so you'd share your pussy to someone else but kissing is kept for your hubby???

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

kissing is a must for us .....we both enjoy it immensely..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing here,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I can't have sex without kissing so I'd have to decline a meet where it wasn't allowed...I do it without thinking so I'd just get myself into trouble anyway! x

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

"We consider kissing to be massively important. It's kind of like the foreplay before foreplay

Exactly! Especially if you're going to have sex with them. Otherwise it'd be like shagging a prostitute.

Kissing with tongues is a definite for us. "

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

"you can cum anywhere you want but dont kiss me" lol

We HAVE tp kiss, a good snog gets the juices flowing

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By *exytwoforfunCouple
over a year ago

North East

We love it, very sexy have met a couple who said female likes anal and will swallow but no kissing as kissing is too personal. Everyone to their own i suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing with everyone we have had a meet with. Would not met with couples that do not kiss and sometimes that is the men as well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the way jane see's it is if the guy carnt turn her on during a social with his kissing skills she wont play with him so if kissing was banned then fun would never start

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

sex without kissing seems somehow not right tbh..

do ladies or cpl's who dont partake 'allow' others to kiss their pussy, lick their breasts??

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By *otloveukCouple
over a year ago

Llanelli

Kissing is a must for us. How can you stop kissing someone when embroiled in the passion of hot sex??!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defiantly a kissing advocate here! Cod not go there with out a kiss, to me the kiss in a social could either seal the deal or send me running

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It depends for me. I'm not always keen to be honest. Prefer to keep that for my hubby.

so you'd share your pussy to someone else but kissing is kept for your hubby???"

What is wrong with that.. Kissing a meet personally does bugger all for me.. I will go through the motions at times.. but it does not turn me on.. and actually for me I am thinking ffs hurry up and let me suck your cock..

I to be far tend to arrange meets where that is what I do.. they walk in, I suck their cocks, they go.. I get what I want, Master gets what he wants, the guy gets what he wants..

Yes some seem to need turning on first.. well I am always turned on and always ready to go.. So it isnt something I need.

Master and I.. its totally different.. I love the way he will tease me with his kisses..

I can suck a guys cock in a club and not fancy him... but I cant kiss a guy I dont fancy.

Some do, some dont... what does it matter as long as your honest at the start.. that way everyone gets to play how they want to play....

I never get how everyone can say.. its a must.. or its clinical without.. anyone that I play with can sense my passion when I am playing with them..

and as to do I let them lick my pussy or breasts.. actually its a rarity.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kissing is a must for us. How can you stop kissing someone when embroiled in the passion of hot sex??!!"

stay on your knees..

or on top or if they happen to be on top.. turn face away.

or let them kiss shoulders or neck.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Full kissing deffinately that's like sex without oral? Deffinately can't be missed out for us

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Given a choice - I prefer to kiss. But if a couple stipulated no kissing - I would respect that. Just as I would respect no anal, touching of feet, nibbling ear lobes or wearing green condoms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A full on kissing couple here too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Issing gets me so hard, i have to kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is the key that turns the ignition, without it you wont get the motor running

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a must for us - each to their own but it seems daft to engage in everything else but not kiss !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we love the kissing side of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a must for us, to start on the lips and work down is a very sensual part of fore play ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *andS4funCouple
over a year ago

Lancashire

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By *andS4funCouple
over a year ago

Lancashire

"What are everyone's opinions on kissing when playing with another couple - either soft or full (we're full swap). It is a given that girls will kiss each other but have found some couples are reluctant for man to kiss the woman and vice versa.

We personally like seeing the other partner kissing - we much prefer our swinging to be erotic, passionate and sexy rather than just stick your willy in....

Yes we agree- full on kissing we like & would be our preference when playing with others. However we realise & totally respect others might not do- so it's not a problem if someone doesn't kiss, a pity, but not a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do meet a great fem buddy i known for years and often meet MF couples and love kissing the females big time - but has a Bi man and although i admit i have tried it, not into MM kissing - if that makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for us its always kissing we feel without kissing its more clinical. everyone to there own but you can shag my wife but not kiss her because thats special seems a bit odd to us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband never kisses the woman,but i do..we have always done it this way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My husband never kisses the woman,but i do..we have always done it this way."

Because that is what works for you...and thats what bugs me when people say they find it odd not to kiss... as its their choice to kiss... and yours not too.

I would find it uncomfortable if someone wanted to kiss me like they would their partner.. I rarely if ever kiss on the lips.. but am happy to be kissed and kiss other areas.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

kissing is so sensual and erotic and that's what heats things up for me ... I'd feel very sad in nobody wanted to kiss me or me to kiss them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"for us its always kissing we feel without kissing its more clinical. everyone to there own but you can shag my wife but not kiss her because thats special seems a bit odd to us

.... you have permission to enter please proceed to your final destintion now .... LOL yes much too clinical

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

love it.. gotta be a good kisser tho.. cant bare sloppy wet ones .

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

"Kissing is the key that turns the ignition, without it you wont get the motor running

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we're a full on kissing couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would decline a meet if the couple had a no kissing rule, its all part of the turn on for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My husband never kisses the woman,but i do..we have always done it this way.

Because that is what works for you...and thats what bugs me when people say they find it odd not to kiss... as its their choice to kiss... and yours not too.

I would find it uncomfortable if someone wanted to kiss me like they would their partner.. I rarely if ever kiss on the lips.. but am happy to be kissed and kiss other areas.

Cali "

I get that it's a personal choice, but for me it is essential throughout so I wouldn't be able to meet anyone that wouldn't kiss me. I do it without even thinking about it so to have to remember not to would kill the fun for me x

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By *onybloMan
over a year ago

Northampton

My thoughts exactly but you said it much better than I could have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We personally like seeing the other partner kissing - we much prefer our swinging to be erotic, passionate and sexy rather than just stick your willy in....

Personally I wouldn't meet if kissing wasn't allowed... I love a good song!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We personally like seeing the other partner kissing - we much prefer our swinging to be erotic, passionate and sexy rather than just stick your willy in....

Personally I wouldn't meet if kissing wasn't allowed... I love a good song!!

snog even.... Ooooops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kissing is the key that turns the ignition, without it you wont get the motor running "

So well said

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By *ugartitsandhimCouple
over a year ago

North West

"My husband never kisses the woman,but i do..we have always done it this way.

Because that is what works for you...and thats what bugs me when people say they find it odd not to kiss... as its their choice to kiss... and yours not too.

I would find it uncomfortable if someone wanted to kiss me like they would their partner.. I rarely if ever kiss on the lips.. but am happy to be kissed and kiss other areas.

Cali "

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By *ugartitsandhimCouple
over a year ago

North West

"My husband never kisses the woman,but i do..we have always done it this way."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thers kissing and there trying to choke u woth their tounge, but yup i like the kissing

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

"Definately a full on kissing couple here "

ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would decline a meet if kissing was a no-no to tell the truth! It would just be too clinical and for me otherwise!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kiss kiss kiss all the way! It's not pretty woman for chuffs sake!!!

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