FabSwingers.com forum: Mates Wife

By *ambo1450 OP Man
over a year ago

Newport

So I’m going out for a meal tonight with a mate and his wife. She is sex on legs... I fancy the absolute arse off her.

Anyone else have that tricky situation when you actually like your mates wife more than you like him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do your mate a favour and don't go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just don't do anything underhand. Have you tried asking for a threesome? Xx

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By *ambo1450 OP Man
over a year ago

Newport

I’d never do anything underhand believe me, he’s a mate and I’d never ever do that.

I suppose she’s my fantasy shag lol

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By *rmylad1989Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline

What she like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Threesome? Surely that's the simple solution? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best mate invited me one night for a drink, his wife was in the bedroom, she came through in sexy undies......what a lovely night that was.

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By *J coupleCouple
over a year ago

stone

"I’d never do anything underhand believe me, he’s a mate and I’d never ever do that.

I suppose she’s my fantasy shag lol"

It’s been mentioned above, why don’t you drop a hint at a threesome?

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By *ambo1450 OP Man
over a year ago

Newport

Can’t see him ever agreeing to it. Guess she will remain a fantasy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't ask you don't get! Would he be anymore comfortable with you "borrowing" her? Assuming she's interested of course! Has she shown any interest towards you? Otherwise you might be wasting time regardless xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless you’re really (REALLY) good mates and have an idea that he’d be even remotely receptive or that they share this lifestyle, I wouldn’t even broach the subject because you’ll be ex mates faster than you can say “punch on the nose” and then you’ll never see her anyway.

It’s not worth the risk to mention it.

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

tell then about your on fab and see what they come back with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I’m going out for a meal tonight with a mate and his wife. She is sex on legs... I fancy the absolute arse off her.

Anyone else have that tricky situation when you actually like your mates wife more than you like him? "

Keep it Cool make for an interesting conversation around the dinner table imply too your mate rather than his wife You never know

It’s not worth losing a mate over a woman I learnt that at a young age

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

So, the op is going out for dinner with his friends and everyone thinks, because he finds her attractive, he should ask to have sex with the woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"tell then about your on fab and see what they come back with "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, the op is going out for dinner with his friends and everyone thinks, because he finds her attractive, he should ask to have sex with the woman.

Not quite everyone

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

How about you go for dinner, enjoy their company and keep your attraction to your friends wife as a lovely fantasy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, the op is going out for dinner with his friends and everyone thinks, because he finds her attractive, he should ask to have sex with the woman.

Well clearly that's what he wants. And talking to them would be the only legitimate way to get it. Xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"So, the op is going out for dinner with his friends and everyone thinks, because he finds her attractive, he should ask to have sex with the woman.

Not quite everyone

No, I see that. Assume I've written "almost" everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I’m going out for a meal tonight with a mate and his wife. She is sex on legs... I fancy the absolute arse off her.

Anyone else have that tricky situation when you actually like your mates wife more than you like him? "

And you call yourself a mate how very sad and he probably trusts you as a friend shame.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"So, the op is going out for dinner with his friends and everyone thinks, because he finds her attractive, he should ask to have sex with the woman.

Well clearly that's what he wants. And talking to them would be the only legitimate way to get it. Xx"

You're not wrong about the talking bit. He has said he'd never do that to a mate though

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By *ambo1450 OP Man
over a year ago

Newport

Beginning to wish I’d never posted this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, the op is going out for dinner with his friends and everyone thinks, because he finds her attractive, he should ask to have sex with the woman.

Well clearly that's what he wants. And talking to them would be the only legitimate way to get it. Xx

You're not wrong about the talking bit. He has said he'd never do that to a mate though "

Not much of a mate then really he's only there as he wants her because he wants to screw his mates Mrs he really wants to get a life, I had a mate similar to this wasn't a mate really very sad he used to be invited round for dinner and Xmas but now all on his own again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, the op is going out for dinner with his friends and everyone thinks, because he finds her attractive, he should ask to have sex with the woman.

Well clearly that's what he wants. And talking to them would be the only legitimate way to get it. Xx

You're not wrong about the talking bit. He has said he'd never do that to a mate though "

Crap if it's on his mind he's setting it up simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you text ur mate tell him how you feel about his Mrs see what he has to say I bet u won't be friends for much longer hate guys like this they can't just go out meet a single woman always chasing after someone else's woman.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"So, the op is going out for dinner with his friends and everyone thinks, because he finds her attractive, he should ask to have sex with the woman.

Well clearly that's what he wants. And talking to them would be the only legitimate way to get it. Xx

You're not wrong about the talking bit. He has said he'd never do that to a mate though

The op has never said any of that. It's unfair to call him a crap mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why because he wants to screw his best mates wife without him knowing about it yeah right what planet you on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

Totally unethical

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Why because he wants to screw his best mates wife without him knowing about it yeah right what planet you on. "

He hasn't said that either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fancying a friend's partners isn't wrong! Acting on it without the friend's consent would be. OP hasn't done anything wrong. Xx

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By *BC StitchMan
over a year ago

London

Definitely the way forward or something like I found this website for swingers or even in general conversation to see what they think and come back to you with that’s what I would do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Beginning to wish I’d never posted this"

Post op regret?

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By *BC StitchMan
over a year ago

London

Not everyone is implying he should break them up but I’m sure you’re aware of cuckold not sure if spelt right but whatever

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By *BC StitchMan
over a year ago

London

Some couples are strange on here you a couple on fab play with others and think other couples shouldn’t play with others what! degenerate springs to mind why should he assume their not interested in swinging and then not ask I leave it at that bye

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Fancying a friend's partners isn't wrong! Acting on it without the friend's consent would be. OP hasn't done anything wrong. Xx"

Exactly

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By *tickler2000Man
over a year ago

St Agnes

He's your mate.

Keep ideas about his wife for the spank bank.

Do fuck your friendship

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"So I’m going out for a meal tonight with a mate and his wife. She is sex on legs... I fancy the absolute arse off her.

Anyone else have that tricky situation when you actually like your mates wife more than you like him? "

I can’t think I’ve ever fancied a mate’s other half more than him, but yes, of course, I’ve had the hots for several of them! I’m a red-blooded male ffs! It’s in my genetic make-up to desire women I find attractive, and I would be lying if I said I’ve never cracked one off thinking about a mate’s woman.

A mate is a mate though, and unless they (as a couple) invited me to join them for some kind of swinging fun, I would never make a play for her

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By *rofessJayWoman
over a year ago

wherever

I can’t believe some of the comments on this thread...the OP said he fancies her, he wouldn’t overstep the mark. There is nothing wrong with that!

I used to fancy the husband of a friend because he was good looking, doesn’t mean I would or ever did anything about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, the op is going out for dinner with his friends and everyone thinks, because he finds her attractive, he should ask to have sex with the woman.

It’s fab, everything is about sex. My postman was late this morning, I thinking he was having a threesome with next door neighbours.

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By *lasgowguy1Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"So I’m going out for a meal tonight with a mate and his wife. She is sex on legs... I fancy the absolute arse off her.

Anyone else have that tricky situation when you actually like your mates wife more than you like him? "

Now that you're feeling so guilty for posting this I think you should pay for all the meals, offer to be their driver and return to their house in the morning with Sunday papers and cook them breakfast.

That should clear the guilt and you might get a pyjama slip and see his wife's boobs ??

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