FabSwingers.com forum: Essence of swinging.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Recently got accused by some arrogant guy that we don't understand the essence of swinging. After a volley of correspondence, he ended up blocking us! Lol (obviously my point was stronger)

I (Dexter) always thought that the essence of swinging was nsa sexual fun with PREFERED likeminded people of your choice.

Any feed back would be great. (we are not hardened swingers by any means)

Thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like an idiot who can’t get any ‘essence’ of swinging

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sounds like an idiot who can’t get any ‘essence’ of swinging "

Thanks for the reply. He was a big cocked dude who thought he could come through the backdoor of our profile, so to speak.

When I pointed this out, we were accused of this.

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

Should have told him, swinging is something two or more couples do, and even single men with big cocks are not swingers

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By *illwalkerMan
over a year ago

South Lincs

"Recently got accused by some arrogant guy that we don't understand the essence of swinging. After a volley of correspondence, he ended up blocking us! Lol (obviously my point was stronger)

I (Dexter) always thought that the essence of swinging was nsa sexual fun with PREFERED likeminded people of your choice.

Any feed back would be great. (we are not hardened swingers by any means)

Thanks!"

I completely agree, you have to be completely comfortable with the situation, it's got to feel like fun for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Should have told him, swinging is something two or more couples do, and even single men with big cocks are not swingers

xx "

Haha! Thanks, love that reply.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Recently got accused by some arrogant guy that we don't understand the essence of swinging. After a volley of correspondence, he ended up blocking us! Lol (obviously my point was stronger)

I (Dexter) always thought that the essence of swinging was nsa sexual fun with PREFERED likeminded people of your choice.

Any feed back would be great. (we are not hardened swingers by any means)

Thanks!

I completely agree, you have to be completely comfortable with the situation, it's got to feel like fun for you."

Thanks for that reply. Won't lie, it did nark us a bit. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The essence of swinging sounds like a bottled substance you'd find in a very dodgy sex shop haha.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Swinging is what you want it to be. Nobody should be telling anybody else how they should do it or what swinging is. We don't fit most definitions

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The essence of swinging sounds like a bottled substance you'd find in a very dodgy sex shop haha."

Lol Now that's head-poppingly funny!

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

I believe the very basic & simple explanation is to seek sexual pleasures with people outside of your relationship (if you have one) however what gives you pleasure can vary from one to another so don’t think there is one type of swinging personality if that makes sense

just my humble opinion x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Swinging is what you want it to be. Nobody should be telling anybody else how they should do it or what swinging is. We don't fit most definitions

Thanks for the reply. Yes, can see you know EXACTLY what you want from your nice profile. The guy didn't put 'STRAIGHT' in the header & thought he could just bypass his way. He was arrogant but got on our nerves just a tad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Swinging is what you want it to be. Nobody should be telling anybody else how they should do it or what swinging is. We don't fit most definitions

100% this

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I believe the very basic & simple explanation is to seek sexual pleasures with people outside of your relationship (if you have one) however what gives you pleasure can vary from one to another so don’t think there is one type of swinging personality if that makes sense

just my humble opinion x "

Thanks. It does makes sense. I understand it has a very broad meaning. Just thought the very essence was nsa sexual fun with likeminded people of preferred choice.

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By *iking SoftiesCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield

"Swinging is what you want it to be. Nobody should be telling anybody else how they should do it or what swinging is. We don't fit most definitions

This is about for us too, very nicely put. Everyone who embarks on any swinging adventure is unique in what they are looking for, if they are lucky enough to have a partner looking for something similar thats great, if they are then lucky enough to meet up with people wanting similar things that thats even better. We can all enjoy our own "essence of swinging" which does sound a bit like a poor mans "Hai Karate"

The block button is perfect for anyone who tries to tell how to live your life, and sex life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree swinging is about nsa with ppl you're attracted to, plain and simple. The attraction doesn't always have to be physical it be personality as well or more personality than physical and you just take it from there.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Swinging is what you want it to be. Nobody should be telling anybody else how they should do it or what swinging is. We don't fit most definitions

It pays to be clear

I notice you're quite new to the site

it might be worth taking a look at the forum rules

https://www.fabswingers.com/content/forum-rules

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By *r and Mrs 81Couple
over a year ago

Leicester

Alot of people don't understand it and use it as a fuck site.. I can fuck ya Mrs better than you ect... its hard for couples especially when receiving messages because the majority of the time the message is aimed at one person usually the female.. the essence of swinging for us is more more more extra or sometimes teasing the mr,,, no I don't want a quick fuck in the back of someone's car without my hubby lol.. I guess everyone is different though !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Swinging is what you want it to be. Nobody should be telling anybody else how they should do it or what swinging is. We don't fit most definitions

The block button is perfect for anyone who tries to tell how to live your life, and sex life!"

'poor mans Hai Karate' Lol Wow, now you've made me feel my age!

Haven't blocked anyone yet. People have been fairly okay tbh. Chloe's less forgiving than me though....

Thanks for the reply.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I agree swinging is about nsa with ppl you're attracted to, plain and simple. The attraction doesn't always have to be physical it be personality as well or more personality than physical and you just take it from there. "

Thanks for that reply big man. Awesome name! You must tense a lot

Lol

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Swinging is what you want it to be. Nobody should be telling anybody else how they should do it or what swinging is.

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Alot of people don't understand it and use it as a fuck site.. I can fuck ya Mrs better than you ect... its hard for couples especially when receiving messages because the majority of the time the message is aimed at one person usually the female.. the essence of swinging for us is more more more extra or sometimes teasing the mr,,, no I don't want a quick fuck in the back of someone's car without my hubby lol.. I guess everyone is different though !!! "

That's so true. The amount of messages we get that are solely aimed at Chloe is remarkably amusing! We know the decent guys from the ones who make it difficult for them....thank god!

Appreciate the reply.

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