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"No, I will specifically look for couples with bi/bicurious females. " Also that | |||
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"It's not something I'd want to do. There's a term for it, pillow princesses. If I'm playing with a woman it'd be because she wanted to play with me." Exactly this! And it's so easy to tell if a woman isn't into it. Lu | |||
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"It is an interesting one this, as both of us identify as straight, however in the spirit of play if the feeling is right we both enjoy some oral play with the same sex. We would not meet someone of the same sex just for sex, but as described "in the heat of the moment" we enjoy it with some people. Bi-Curious doesn't really fit because we are not looking to find out if we like it, we like it "sometimes". We have tried to explain this in our profile as none of the labels available really fit. It works for us and we try to be honest from off about it. " I've heard "bi playful" used for this sort of thing. I tend to avoid it, because I've had experiences where I'm made to feel like an exotic creature putting on a performance. I'm not here for that | |||
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"It is an interesting one this, as both of us identify as straight, however in the spirit of play if the feeling is right we both enjoy some oral play with the same sex. We would not meet someone of the same sex just for sex, but as described "in the heat of the moment" we enjoy it with some people. Bi-Curious doesn't really fit because we are not looking to find out if we like it, we like it "sometimes". We have tried to explain this in our profile as none of the labels available really fit. It works for us and we try to be honest from off about it. I've heard "bi playful" used for this sort of thing. I tend to avoid it, because I've had experiences where I'm made to feel like an exotic creature putting on a performance. I'm not here for that " Yes it's really not for me. I guess it similar the guys who are happy for somebody (potentially male or female) to give them a blowjob but they're not interested in reciprocating | |||
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"It's not something I'd want to do. There's a term for it, pillow princesses. If I'm playing with a woman it'd be because she wanted to play with me." This for me too and vice versa. That we want to play with each other. I am interested in bisexual and maybe bicurious women, though have had MF couple profiles message me asking if I'd be ok with her being a pillow princess. Being upfront is best. They were upfront saying she was a pillow princess and I in turn replied that I was not interested in that setup. There are also the terms bi-playful and hetero-flexible. Some may say that you can be bisexual and only want to receive I guess. | |||
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"It is an interesting one this, as both of us identify as straight, however in the spirit of play if the feeling is right we both enjoy some oral play with the same sex. We would not meet someone of the same sex just for sex, but as described "in the heat of the moment" we enjoy it with some people. Bi-Curious doesn't really fit because we are not looking to find out if we like it, we like it "sometimes". We have tried to explain this in our profile as none of the labels available really fit. It works for us and we try to be honest from off about it. I've heard "bi playful" used for this sort of thing. I tend to avoid it, because I've had experiences where I'm made to feel like an exotic creature putting on a performance. I'm not here for that Yes it's really not for me. I guess it similar the guys who are happy for somebody (potentially male or female) to give them a blowjob but they're not interested in reciprocating" We both more than happy to reciprocate when we play like this, no problem there if people are happy to play bi with us we are happy to do the same, we just identify as straight as it’s only in a swinging scenario that we would do this, not on a one to one meeting if that makes sense? | |||
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"Thanks guys for the responses......still non the wiser A grey area " I think the answer is that just like everything else , the key is pre play communication. I totally get why it’s not for everyone but personally I wouldn’t have any issues with plying with a woman that didn’t want to reciprocate as long as I was happy that it was what she really wanted and not just something she was “putting on for the fella ” I suppose. And of course it should go without saying that the communication doesn’t stop at the preplay but continues right through. If for whatever reason the woman changes her mind, that’s it, done, no biggie. | |||
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"I would gladly give with expecting to receive.xxx" Glad I’m not alone, I was beginning to think it was just me lol | |||
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