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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is your preference I love my guys to be guys strong guys not into pain but I love the feeling of being controlled.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

neither do anything for me and I would never be a Dom or Sub to anyone else.

I kinda get why people do it tho and as always, if it works for you both, go for it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"neither do anything for me and I would never be a Dom or Sub to anyone else.

I kinda get why people do it tho and as always, if it works for you both, go for it."

Dont get me wrong I think couples should be equal. But I do get off on being controlled.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"neither do anything for me and I would never be a Dom or Sub to anyone else.

I kinda get why people do it tho and as always, if it works for you both, go for it.

Dont get me wrong I think couples should be equal. But I do get off on being controlled."

I can understand it others to be honest.

I just couldn't Dom in my camp voice and if any tried to boss me about, I would smack them.

I flit between camp and a hint of macho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was just a normal guy that tried Dom a couple of times and loved it and want more of it, I have to say that it was a big turn on for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last time I looked sub guys were still guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is your preference I love my guys to be guys strong guys not into pain but I love the feeling of being controlled."

I too love a Dom guy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To be controlled or to be the controller interesting thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be controlled or to be the controller interesting thought."

Theres these knickers with a vibrator sewn into them and it has a remote control.

Go to a fancy restaurant and give your guy the controller.

Happy days!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dom. I cannot relate to sub men at all.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Those that know me know what kind of guys i like

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By *abloBackMan
over a year ago

London

Being a Dom is fugging hard work, subs get all the fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like sexually assertive men i do not like dom men

I dont like sub men at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like guys to be sexually confident. Not really into dom guys and find sub guys a massive turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to be a Dom guy for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My bloke's a switch. Works great as so am I.

I wouldn't play that way with anyone else that way as I wouldn't trust them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to play both ways, but as im new to the scene ive litle experiance, only with the ex and probably prety plain play really, so any teacher's out there??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im classed as a switch but of late the dom part of me has gone off with the fairies and it needs to come back soon!

I like a man to be a man i dont care of he sub dom etc long as a connection is there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was just a normal guy that tried Dom a couple of times and loved it and want more of it, I have to say that it was a big turn on for me"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tried it once, didnt work out for me or my ex!

She told me to tie her up and do what i wanted! So i did!

She wasn't best pleased when i got back frm the pub a few hours later!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just like people to be people, and act accordingly to the meet at hand.

unfortunately I've found some the 'doms''bulls' to be immature,possessive,controlling and aggressive,from my female friends in the past.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I'm not really into the BDSM thing other than a bit of roleplay from time to time, so it's neither for me when it comes to a standard meet.

And when it comes to standard 1-2-1 meets, I find guys who say they are 'dom' tend to really mean 'selfish and bossy'.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I find it amusing people think sub men are somewhat wimpy big girls.

My sub playmates, including my oh are strong, dominant high fliers who are submissive only in the bedroom. The subs I've met and played with all have jobs where they have to make decisions, they're in control so to relinquish power is a release for them. For me, sex exactly how I want it, at my pace is the height of hedonistic pleasure for me.

That said, I've come across men that are 100% submissive in every aspect of their life, wanting to be treated like a slave.

That does nothing for me so don't play with them.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I'm not really into the BDSM thing other than a bit of roleplay from time to time, so it's neither for me when it comes to a standard meet.

And when it comes to standard 1-2-1 meets, I find guys who say they are 'dom' tend to really mean 'selfish and bossy'.

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Conversely, I avoid men that ask "so how you gonna boss me about then?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find it amusing people think sub men are somewhat wimpy big girls.

My sub playmates, including my oh are strong, dominant high fliers who are submissive only in the bedroom. The subs I've met and played with all have jobs where they have to make decisions, they're in control so to relinquish power is a release for them. For me, sex exactly how I want it, at my pace is the height of hedonistic pleasure for me.

That said, I've come across men that are 100% submissive in every aspect of their life, wanting to be treated like a slave.

That does nothing for me so don't play with them."

That's it it's all about release and letting someone else have the power. I don't get the men who want to dress up as babies though that is just weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it amusing people think sub men are somewhat wimpy big girls.

My sub playmates, including my oh are strong, dominant high fliers who are submissive only in the bedroom. The subs I've met and played with all have jobs where they have to make decisions, they're in control so to relinquish power is a release for them. For me, sex exactly how I want it, at my pace is the height of hedonistic pleasure for me.

That said, I've come across men that are 100% submissive in every aspect of their life, wanting to be treated like a slave.

That does nothing for me so don't play with them.

That's it it's all about release and letting someone else have the power. I don't get the men who want to dress up as babies though that is just weird."

WAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHWAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHWAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH..Ive just shat myself.please help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it amusing people think sub men are somewhat wimpy big girls.

My sub playmates, including my oh are strong, dominant high fliers who are submissive only in the bedroom. The subs I've met and played with all have jobs where they have to make decisions, they're in control so to relinquish power is a release for them. For me, sex exactly how I want it, at my pace is the height of hedonistic pleasure for me.

That said, I've come across men that are 100% submissive in every aspect of their life, wanting to be treated like a slave.

That does nothing for me so don't play with them."

I get that completely...I'm submissive in the bedroom, but out of it I am in control. At work they have nick-named me Miss Whiplash because of my assertiveness..they assume that I must be that way when it comes to sex too. Oh how little they know! That's the one place where I like to relinquish the control and let someone else take the lead, whether that be as a dom or a sexually assertive guy. Playing with sexually submissive men doesn't work for me though as we both end up sat waiting for someone to take the lead! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hmm this is a very interesting topic of conversation for me and all this stuff resinates with me deeply. I think I just like balance, plan and simple.

My last relationship was very dysfuntional at many levels, My partner at the time was an alpha female, who was very controlling. Selfish and this is how she got her needs met. This in turn had many affects on me and my self confiedence self-esteem ect.... why she was this way, was becuause she had a violent and abusuive childhood.

Have you read the book 50 shades of grey? I'm aware its been banded about on the forums a little. It's very interesting. It give me more of an understanding of what I don't need in my life!

Andy

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


" I don't get the men who want to dress up as babies though that is just weird."

Can we have a large bottle of gripe water for forum thursdays please

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it amusing people think sub men are somewhat wimpy big girls.

My sub playmates, including my oh are strong, dominant high fliers who are submissive only in the bedroom. The subs I've met and played with all have jobs where they have to make decisions, they're in control so to relinquish power is a release for them. For me, sex exactly how I want it, at my pace is the height of hedonistic pleasure for me.

That said, I've come across men that are 100% submissive in every aspect of their life, wanting to be treated like a slave.

That does nothing for me so don't play with them."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god, I was wondering when 50 Shades of Grey was gonna be mentioned.

*head, desk*

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh god, I was wondering when 50 Shades of Grey was gonna be mentioned.

*head, desk*"

I have not read the book but I get messages from guys who are subs or want to be cucks. But like I have said before I think partners should be equal. Yes its fab to role play and switch roles and spice things up that's why most of us are her to add a little spice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh god, I was wondering when 50 Shades of Grey was gonna be mentioned.

*head, desk*"

50 shades of what??..its appearing blocked to me...what is this 50 shades stuff???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is your preference I love my guys to be guys strong guys not into pain but I love the feeling of being controlled."

for sexual partners it doesnt matter.. as long as they know that I call the shots unless Master over rules me..

I do like men to be confident though... and I do like alpha males.. but I don't like the ones that behave like cavemen.

Cali

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