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Ever met after one messsage?

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By *addyBabygirl2020 OP   Couple
over a year ago

norwich

Now we not saying there is anything wrong with this, and who knows if the right person messaged at the right time maybe we would.

But the odds of us meeting after one messsage are a million to one.

Yet we get so many asking straight out if we want to meet.

Often we just delete them, occasionally if the guy looks like he has potentially we might say sorry no and try to talk to him, but generally all they want to talk about is when we will meet them.

So question for the guys, how many times has this approached worked for you, on fab and in really life "hey i don't know you but do you want to fuck?"

And couples and Ladies, how many times has a guy so ideal messsged this that you have said "sure come over"

Many of the guys in this forum seem to have a better approach to fab then most and this is not a criticism of all men on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never has it worked...

But i feel like I’m a good guy of fab and even chatting for a while hasn’t worked yet haha

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

No, never after one message. I only meet after a social so even if the guy was stunning I wouldn’t do it.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I don't know if fits the thread but they have msg me once we shared contact in that same msg we went to chat on camera for hours and hours. we met two hours after

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By *r and Mrs 81Couple
over a year ago

Leicester

We have had a few impulsive meets from very little contact lol, some are good some not ao much !!

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

How can you ?

Unless that one message has:

A picture

Contact number

Full address of where to meet..

So it’s absolutely impossible

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I have never met after one message but have known after one message that this was someone i wanted to meet in the future.

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By *acial giverMan
over a year ago

hull

Twice for me both time thought they was taking piss. So asked for number within half hour my cock was down there throat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of my best meetings have been just one message.....

A couple/female would send a message like this..

“ Hello , I saw your profile and would love to meet you now. If you’re available... we are located “ anyplace “ . Here is a face pic and our number “

If I liked the picture... I would call and we would meet....

I tend to like the last minute meetings... I like the adventure of going into the unknown...

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"How can you ?

Unless that one message has:

A picture

Contact number

Full address of where to meet..

So it’s absolutely impossible "

It is possible absolutely possible that happened to me

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By *addyBabygirl2020 OP   Couple
over a year ago

norwich


"How can you ?

Unless that one message has:

A picture

Contact number

Full address of where to meet..

So it’s absolutely impossible "

If we word it "agreed to a meet" after just one message would that make you happier?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never happened to me

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By *uicyfruit3Man
over a year ago

portsmouth

Yes it has worked in the past for me - mainly using the "meet today" section of the site pre-covid.

Message with a short paragraph with a face, body and cock pic and that can be enough

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I have never met after one message but have known after one message that this was someone i wanted to meet in the future."

Oh yes, definitely that. In fact I’d only been talking to my now FWB for a day before we met for a social, that’s really quick for me!

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By *exfordMan
over a year ago

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"Now we not saying there is anything wrong with this, and who knows if the right person messaged at the right time maybe we would.

But the odds of us meeting after one messsage are a million to one.

Yet we get so many asking straight out if we want to meet.

Often we just delete them, occasionally if the guy looks like he has potentially we might say sorry no and try to talk to him, but generally all they want to talk about is when we will meet them.

So question for the guys, how many times has this approached worked for you, on fab and in really life "hey i don't know you but do you want to fuck?"

And couples and Ladies, how many times has a guy so ideal messsged this that you have said "sure come over"

Many of the guys in this forum seem to have a better approach to fab then most and this is not a criticism of all men on here."

Yes, my mum called me on the phone and asked if I'd pop round. I did.

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

No but we fucked on our first meet.

Safe sex I must add.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not after 1 message. That would need to be some special ass message!! Have met after a conversation where there was a spark. Social and then more.

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By *addyBabygirl2020 OP   Couple
over a year ago

norwich


"Yes it has worked in the past for me - mainly using the "meet today" section of the site pre-covid.

Message with a short paragraph with a face, body and cock pic and that can be enough "

Ah i can see how that would work. Yes if that option was still available and qe wanted to meet today, we potentially would after one messsage.

I was more talking about the random shots in the dark messsages that get sent out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't even got a meet yet let alone a one message meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

certainly not met people after a hundred messages!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a word no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now we not saying there is anything wrong with this, and who knows if the right person messaged at the right time maybe we would.

But the odds of us meeting after one messsage are a million to one.

Yet we get so many asking straight out if we want to meet.

Often we just delete them, occasionally if the guy looks like he has potentially we might say sorry no and try to talk to him, but generally all they want to talk about is when we will meet them.

So question for the guys, how many times has this approached worked for you, on fab and in really life "hey i don't know you but do you want to fuck?"

And couples and Ladies, how many times has a guy so ideal messsged this that you have said "sure come over"

Many of the guys in this forum seem to have a better approach to fab then most and this is not a criticism of all men on here."

Never used this method and never will...

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By *otmale5Man
over a year ago

glasgow

No wouldn’t go there .. lots of chat then social then sex. Having said that an old ex sent me one message .. lovely girl too. Lol

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

Not after one single message, no - but after only a couple with details of where and when, then a handful of times, yes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met in the same day of first message once but there were a few more messages than just one before I had agreed to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. 6-7 over an hour then a meet that night, that's been my quickest xx

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

No never.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

God no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ain't that desperate.

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