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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Recently found out a few things from a friends son and his mates, 1 of which is that they watched me getting dressed and took an arse pic as I slept.

Just wondering if anyone has genuinely watched someone they shouldn't.. If you know what I mean x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

That is wrong on so many levels.

And in answer to your question, no, it hasn't happened to me that I know of.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That is wrong on so many levels.

And in answer to your question, no, it hasn't happened to me that I know of. "

Trust me, I wasn't happy, the watching me getting dressed I wasn't so bothered about, the pic annoyed and upset the hell out of me. It got sorted tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't have been happy about them watching me get dressed,never mind them taking a photo

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn't have been happy about them watching me get dressed,never mind them taking a photo"

I don't mind ppl seeing my body. If they like it enough to stop and watch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't have been happy about them watching me get dressed,never mind them taking a photo

I don't mind ppl seeing my body. If they like it enough to stop and watch "

Each to there own

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I wouldn't have been happy about them watching me get dressed,never mind them taking a photo

I don't mind ppl seeing my body. If they like it enough to stop and watch "

I do not mind people seeing my body but i certainly would not flaunt it in front of my son and his mates.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

If you’re fine with it OP then that’s great, and you are free to enjoy having your personal privacy invaded that non-consensual way, but most people will find that to be creepy behaviour at best, bordering on far worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't have been happy about them watching me get dressed,never mind them taking a photo

I don't mind ppl seeing my body. If they like it enough to stop and watch

I do not mind people seeing my body but i certainly would not

flaunt it in front of my son and his mates."

She said 'her friends son'

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I wouldn't have been happy about them watching me get dressed,never mind them taking a photo

I don't mind ppl seeing my body. If they like it enough to stop and watch

I do not mind people seeing my body but i certainly would not

flaunt it in front of my son and his mates.

She said 'her friends son'"

Sorry but still not good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't have been happy about them watching me get dressed,never mind them taking a photo

I don't mind ppl seeing my body. If they like it enough to stop and watch

I do not mind people seeing my body but i certainly would not

flaunt it in front of my son and his mates.

She said 'her friends son'

Sorry but still not good."

I agree, but if it was her son it would have been far worse!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok, just to confirm before I remove this post, it was a friends son... Not mine, he was also 22. My apologies if this post has upset anyone.

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By *rSuave88Man
over a year ago

Mirfield

I've caught someone i know quite closely in the act. Not that they were being too discreet about it either. Pm if you wanna hear more.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Isn't taking an arse pic as someone sleeps illegal ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Isn't taking an arse pic as someone sleeps illegal ?"

Yep, and I got it sorted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its a criminal offence so wrong on every level

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"its a criminal offence so wrong on every level"

Yep, and as I said, I got it sorted

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey

Something odd about this. How could a "friend's son" be even be in a position to watch you getting dressed or be able to take a photo of you asleep?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Something odd about this. How could a "friend's son" be even be in a position to watch you getting dressed or be able to take a photo of you asleep?"

I stay at hers occasionally. Not sure why I'm getting so much hate for this. Please, it was just a question.

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey


"Something odd about this. How could a "friend's son" be even be in a position to watch you getting dressed or be able to take a photo of you asleep?

I stay at hers occasionally. Not sure why I'm getting so much hate for this. Please, it was just a question. "

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No "hate" from here, just a bit of bewilderment. Hope it all turned out ok.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Something odd about this. How could a "friend's son" be even be in a position to watch you getting dressed or be able to take a photo of you asleep?

I stay at hers occasionally. Not sure why I'm getting so much hate for this. Please, it was just a question.

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No "hate" from here, just a bit of bewilderment. Hope it all turned out ok."

Sorry, just overwhelmed. Yeah, everything turned out fine. Thank you xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'd be explaining quite forcefully that you don't do that kind of thing to women (or men). Voyeurism is a criminal offence

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

On the spirit of the OP's original question, over 30 years ago there was a woman who lived opposite my parents with a big bay windowed bedroom, and who would almost daily strip down to just bra and pants with the curtains wide open. Occasionally she'd strip off completely....

Certainly gave a group of hormonal teenage lads reason to stop playing cricket, or whatever we were doing at the time

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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia


"I'd be explaining quite forcefully that you don't do that kind of thing to women (or men). Voyeurism is a criminal offence "
Exactly and if they did that to me they would be on the ground very quickly and not getting up for a while.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"On the spirit of the OP's original question, over 30 years ago there was a woman who lived opposite my parents with a big bay windowed bedroom, and who would almost daily strip down to just bra and pants with the curtains wide open. Occasionally she'd strip off completely....

Certainly gave a group of hormonal teenage lads reason to stop playing cricket, or whatever we were doing at the time "

Now reverse the genders.

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By *rluckyknightMan
over a year ago

marske by sea

I'm not bothered who watches me more the merrier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sorry that happened to you op. I’d be furious and they’d each know it. Hopefully it doesn’t lead to darker behaviour from any of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact that the friends son is older is even more worrisome to me. He is not some young teenager just figuring out his sexuality and boundaries. He is a grown adult who actively peeped on someone with no regards to consent. That man needs to learn boundaries and the fact that women are not objects to be viewed disregarding your personhood as a woman! He needs to learn consent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is quite hot though x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"That is wrong on so many levels.

And in answer to your question, no, it hasn't happened to me that I know of.

Trust me, I wasn't happy, the watching me getting dressed I wasn't so bothered about, the pic annoyed and upset the hell out of me. It got sorted tho"

Good. X

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By *elly72Woman
over a year ago

glasgow


"The fact that the friends son is older is even more worrisome to me. He is not some young teenager just figuring out his sexuality and boundaries. He is a grown adult who actively peeped on someone with no regards to consent. That man needs to learn boundaries and the fact that women are not objects to be viewed disregarding your personhood as a woman! He needs to learn consent. "

Totally agree he’s one to be keeping away from your daughters in the future, because that ain’t going to end well for someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phone the police on them.

All your friends kids seem odd as fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You seem to have a couple of issues with your friends kids, is this the same friend with the daughter who wants you or a different one?

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