FabSwingers.com forum: Couple's what would you do in this situation?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you and your partner have ever attended a club in the past have you even been in a situation where another female has been after your man to come downstairs for a threesum with her and her partner in a private room.the partner isnt allowed or does not play with other women.so you cannot play with him.how would you feel? How would your man react? Would he go?

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We think that's bang out of order.

We would find it disrespectful to us as a couple if someone came up and asked to only play with one of us and the other person was excluded.

Not a nice thing to do to anyone.

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"If you and your partner have ever attended a club in the past have you even been in a situation where another female has been after your man to come downstairs for a threesum with her and her partner in a private room.the partner isnt allowed or does not play with other women.so you cannot play with him.how would you feel? How would your man react? Would he go?"

It has happened both ways - B & M have both been asked to join others. We find it flattering to be honest, not everyone fancies each other. So far we haven’t jumped at the chance, but we might in future. It depends on how we are feeling on the evening. It is easy to say a polite no thanks without embarrassing anyone.

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

Some couples do play separately at clubs (not us) so asking is OK, aslong as they don't expect it and try to do it under handed, you can always say no thanks

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By *iking SoftiesCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield

It wouldn't be for us but no harm if someone asked, we would politely refuse and we wouldn't approach anyone in that way as we wouldn't expect people to leave their partners. If one of them approached us and asked if they could join us and their partner didn't, if we liked them then why now? Everyone is different but politeness costs nothing

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Asking is fine but any sneakyness we'd definitely not tolerate that. A lot of couples play like that, only the woman playing with other men or in a threesome situation with their partner, nothing wrong with that, just their preferred set up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Asking is fine. But we only play together. Have us both or not at all

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

Nothing wrong with asking but if the person doesn't play alone then that's that, if the partner snuck away to be with them then I'd be furious. Without permission it's no better than cheating in my opinion and that's a firm no from me and my partner.

Trust and honesty is key for this lifestyle to us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing wrong with asking but if the person doesn't play alone then that's that, if the partner snuck away to be with them then I'd be furious. Without permission it's no better than cheating in my opinion and that's a firm no from me and my partner.

Trust and honesty is key for this lifestyle to us. "

This..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No harm in them asking but it'd be a no from us, we play together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd see if she could watch or sit outside and listen.

or perhaps find a couple of studs to entertain her!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not, thats very rude to pursue it if its off limits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see a problem with politely asking, but if my partner and I were at a club together, we would be looking to play together.

At the very least, the one not involved would want to watch.

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