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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do they really search for guys... Or do guys have to approach first ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We search for guys regularly. We have such specific criteria, well we kinda have to.

Most of the messages we get off guys are the straight ones so we have to browse profiles to find the genuinely bi ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We generally look for one's as and when we we would like one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We search for guys too found two kinds, them that say they want to meet and them that actally do x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ahh ok. Just soo hard to find a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my mailbox exploded!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Kaboooooom.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Yes if I feel the need to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes if I feel the need to "

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"Yes if I feel the need to "

I really don't know why anyone would'nt?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes if I feel the need to

I really don't know why anyone would'nt? "

spitroasted between frexx and I..wooohooo

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"Yes if I feel the need to

I really don't know why anyone would'nt?

spitroasted between frexx and I..wooohooo"

Hahaha well theres an offer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many profiles on here have statements such as "Single guys don't find us, we'll find you" so it's very rare that I will send a message to a couple.

As we all know, couples and single fems have so much choice of single male profiles on here.

I tend only to wink/message couples if the have a meet today flag on their profile - and keep my fingers crossed that I'll be one of the lucky ones to get picked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We look for them when they are needed. Happy to chat to them if they contact us but that's all it'll be. Chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We search for guys too found two kinds, them that say they want to meet and them that actally do x"

Lol that sounds familiar!! Loads of wannabes

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By *oadsafunMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

I've had lot of couples contact me, some have just been after friend invites to see my pictures but most I have chatted with or met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We absolutely do search, but maybe search through 100 or so responses to find the right one.

50% of those who respond do not fit our age preferences and of the remainder it is about whittling down to 10 on "feel" of their message and then mailing back those 10 and seeing what happens then - only two or three will respond and then we make our choice.

I would say that it is always worth sending a well constructed, sexy e-mail to a couple that you like the look of - just make sure that your wishes are aligned with what their profile says that they like/want. Don't get stressed out if you don't get a response - we often keep mails for a couple of months - sometimes longer - until the time is right for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do! I'm a very greedy girl so my partner needs all the help he can get to satisfy my insatiable appetite

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

we have to, cuz its so annoying getting mails directed at one of us, and we all knwo which one, when both of us will be there.

does that mean when we are all together i would be ignored, like an elephant in the room?

no! so we search for guys that have specifics in their profiles, although we have yet to find one that actually turns up.

oh, and then you get the mails off those that dont like your preferences...i mean, why woudl you bother? just dont meet us, it really is that simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we search

we did have messages open for men but so many didnt read profile,we have blocked them now.

we still look at fab'd pics to see who likes the look of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I would say that it is always worth sending a well constructed, sexy e-mail to a couple that you like the look of - just make sure that your wishes are aligned with what their profile says that they like/want. Don't get stressed out if you don't get a response - we often keep mails for a couple of months - sometimes longer - until the time is right for us."

Handy to know that couples do this. Thanks

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