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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello lovely fabsters

( pre covid disclaimer)

So you chat to a person for a while, you exchange pictures etc.

You arrange a quick chat meet .

They turn up yeah ?? look like pic wow even nicer.

A few things

1. When meeting a person for any reason ... have a mint first !

2. If it’s just a social chat surely all

Fondling etc should be consented too.

It just me mad that some boys think they can just grab your bits..

Am I wrong?

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

No you are quite right. That is sexual assault

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We only had one guy over step the mark at a social.

please note I am not victim blaming at all, however we must be clear before we even agree to a social what is acceptable. I've seen a lot of women in the forum say they love a good snog at a social.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

And that was way too many instances of the word social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Woah I'd be mega PO if it either hadn't been discussed previously , or permission wasn't requested /granted

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

All fondling etc should be consented to anyway like someone else said its sexual assault otherwise. This coupled with the assumption of play when discussing possible meets puts me off meeting anyone I haven't previously met

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By *BR_91Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Even when I'm meeting up with someone on the assumption that we're going to have sex, I'd always make sure that we have a chat and a drink first to make sure the attraction's definitely there in person and we both feel comfortable before doing anything, and even then I'd make a move in a similar way to how I would on a date (arm stroking, kissing etc) rather than anything sexual.

Doesn't surprise me sadly that some guys would use this being a sex site to be shitty about consent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello lovely fabsters

( pre covid disclaimer)

So you chat to a person for a while, you exchange pictures etc.

You arrange a quick chat meet .

They turn up yeah ?? look like pic wow even nicer.

A few things

1. When meeting a person for any reason ... have a mint first !

2. If it’s just a social chat surely all

Fondling etc should be consented too.

It just me mad that some boys think they can just grab your bits..

Am I wrong? "

No your not wrong,and he would have got a slap in face ,if it had been men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes quite right

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By *Jones19Man
over a year ago

Evesham, Worcester, Pershore

Its all about respect isn't it really. As much as some guys might, I wouldnt want anyone to just grab my cock straight away. No need for heavy petting straight out the gate unless mentioned before hand. Otherwise whats the point of a social?

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By *urchoicenowCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

No one has the right to touch without consent

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

I agree no one has the right to take things further unless previously discussed.

If I meet for a social then that's what I expect it to be. A chat over coffee etc, walk away to give both parties to assess each other. If I've been invited to meet someone, perhaps with the option of playing I would wait until invited to progress.

However I did meet a lady several years ago for a chat in a car park, invited into her car and chatted. A short while later after leaving, I thought it had gone well, only to be told that because I hadn't attempted to grope or kiss her she thought I wasn't interested. As always different folks for different strokes, but personally I never assume because I have an invitation that invitation is an access all areas invitation. Not my personal style.

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