FabSwingers.com forum: Meeting people you have blocked

By *oiretblanc OP Couple
over a year ago

London

On a couple of occasions, on holiday and at a party, we have met people from this website that we have blocked or been blocked by. Very embarrassing!

But with one couple, in Gran Canaria, it turned into an S&M ritual based on mutual lust but mutual dislike..."I hate your company, fuck me"

Has anyone else had similar experiences?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is interesting

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We've met people we've blocked twice. We unblocked one and the other remained blocked

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By *anna Needs CockWoman
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

God no why would I want to get someone off i dislike?

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"On a couple of occasions, on holiday and at a party, we have met people from this website that we have blocked or been blocked by. Very embarrassing!

But with one couple, in Gran Canaria, it turned into an S&M ritual based on mutual lust but mutual dislike..."I hate your company, fuck me"

Has anyone else had similar experiences?"

Ive blocked very few people - and always for very good reasons. I definitely wouldn’t want physical contact of any kind with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met people in clubs, and when I've gone to look up their profiles I realised that I had previously blocked them.

Luckily I always use the private note facility so when I look back I can always see the reason why I had.

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

We wood not meet people who we have block done for a reson

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We wood not meet people who we have block done for a reson "

I think the op meant have you done it by accident, not on purpose.

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By *hubbycheckerMan
over a year ago

Porstmouth

All comes down to judging a book by its cover, via message things can come across wrong or misread then you find in person its totally the opposite.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

I wouldn’t mind meeting 2 members that have blocked me again just to explain myself face to face as sometimes things look worse in text than when said face to face and you can expand on your answer.Off course if they still feel I should be blocked then it’s a case of respecting their decision and moving on.

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire

Interesting thoughts.... Yes in the flesh some folk can be a pleasant surprise, messages can be so easily misread, photos just bad shots. On the other hand as a single guy I've blocked many that said no thanks or just deleted my messages. I know many of these might show interest when my partner and I make a new couples profile in the near future but would I really want to meet them ??. There's a high risk they'll meet just to get to my Mrs, been there several times...

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By *otmale5Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Not interested in meeting any person who is on the block list.. they are there for a reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope as they are blocked for a very good reason

I wouldn't even say hello,never mind anything else

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

I've met a few I've blocked, if they mention it I say "oh well what did you do?" I don't unblock them after, I'd blocked them for a reason at some point

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

No we haven't had that experience, fortunately

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By *oss and BitchCouple
over a year ago

London

"Nope as they are blocked for a very good reason

I wouldn't even say hello,never mind anything else"

The reasons for blocking someone could be an entirely new thread!

Like most social media the criteria for rejecting someone tend to be more severe than in real life. We have been blocked for merely disagreeing with someone's opinion on the Forum, whereas in a normal face to face conversation this wouldn't be grounds for divorce!

And in the non -Swingers world I have often had sex with guys I didn't particularly like simply because I was horny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""I hate your company, fuck me"

Sounds like the second stage of marriage, before it turns to "I hate your company, fuck off!"

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

""I hate your company, fuck me"

Sounds like the second stage of marriage, before it turns to "I hate your company, fuck off!""

Haha!

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By *ows the time 300Man
over a year ago

Rickmansworth

I've never blocked anyone on here, can't see any reason to

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

There was one fella I had blocked a few years ago. He really used to rile me on the forums. I bumped into him at a party and he was THE nicest man you could wish to meet.

There’s a lot blocked because they have put derogatory status’ on or are just plain nasty streaks/cringe in the forums - they shall remain blocked, if I meet them in person and they are nice I shall rethink it.

As nicecouple said though. It is very embarrassing!

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Most people here seem to be totally missing the point. It's not about refusing to meet people because you've blocked them already, that's obvious. So saying "NO I NEVA WOOD" is just dumb.

It's about talking to people in clubs, enjoying their company and then swapping fab names, and finding out they had previously blocked them.

We've been the blocked couple before. Turned out we were friends with a guy they'd fallen out with so wanted to make sure there was no way for him to contact them via us.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"But with one couple, in Gran Canaria, it turned into an S&M ritual based on mutual lust but mutual dislike..."I hate your company, fuck me""

There is no way I would play in an S&M scenario with someone I actively disliked. Completely the wrong mindset.

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By *oss and BitchCouple
over a year ago

London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we have met a single guy in a swingers hotel we blocked was worse in real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven’t blocked many just a few fakes doubt I will ever bump into them

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"But with one couple, in Gran Canaria, it turned into an S&M ritual based on mutual lust but mutual dislike..."I hate your company, fuck me"

There is no way I would play in an S&M scenario with someone I actively disliked. Completely the wrong mindset."

Pretty sure the point is they DID like each other when they met...

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By *ncemoreroundthesunCouple
over a year ago

on the move

There's one profile we'd like to meet to find out why we were blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes i was talking to a guy at a club that i had blocked and he had blocked me also..we however unblocked each other after the meet and did each other a veri. We met up a few times at the clubs after that. I have also met a guy that i had blocked and then unblocked. We got on great.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I like to go through block list contributors to see who have blocked me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We wood not meet people who we have block done for a reson

I think the op meant have you done it by accident, not on purpose."

How can you block by accident

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been blocked after meeting

Been blocked by people I’ve never chatting too or met

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"We wood not meet people who we have block done for a reson

I think the op meant have you done it by accident, not on purpose.

How can you block by accident

Bumped into them by accident

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"I’ve been blocked after meeting

Been blocked by people I’ve never chatting too or met

Just saving everyone time..

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Ok was going to a party one guy piss us off messages us did not block because we were going to the same event should have blocked better, to apologise for acting in haste then hesitating trust your gut.

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By *isstonguetasticjoWoman
over a year ago

widnes

Worse is wen u have met someone thinkin all good n look forward to meetin them again

Then u msg them nxt day courtesy thnks njoyed it but they hsve blocked u

THEN

6/12 months mayb a few yrs later they randomly msg u on a NEW PROFILE

Askin fancy some fun

Fancy A SHAG

wen i ask were they been the last few months years

Guess what?

They were in relationships

Then they spmit up cos it didnt work out

Then have the cheek stsrt a new profile as tho a new person

N msg me askin to meet up with them

Sorry they had their chance for a regular with me back then

But just fucked off

Only get 1 bite of the appke with me

Their loss

Someone elses gain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have Op. Pressed wrong with finger. Oops.

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By *exfordMan
over a year ago

discombobulated land

"On a couple of occasions, on holiday and at a party, we have met people from this website that we have blocked or been blocked by. Very embarrassing!

But with one couple, in Gran Canaria, it turned into an S&M ritual based on mutual lust but mutual dislike..."I hate your company, fuck me"

Has anyone else had similar experiences?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've met people in clubs, and when I've gone to look up their profiles I realised that I had previously blocked them.

Luckily I always use the private note facility so when I look back I can always see the reason why I had."

The private notes bit is such a good thing on here.

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By *iL DeVeLWoman
over a year ago

Luton

If I block then I block for a reason so would just ignore them if it was at a social.

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I've met people in clubs, and when I've gone to look up their profiles I realised that I had previously blocked them.

Luckily I always use the private note facility so when I look back I can always see the reason why I had.

The private notes bit is such a good thing on here. "

I disagree as you've no chuffing idea if you *have* notes or not unless you go into them. Very poorly implemented.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The private notes bit is such a good thing on here.

I disagree as you've no chuffing idea if you *have* notes or not unless you go into them. Very poorly implemented."

That's true. I hadn't thought of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, at a social.

She went a bit nuts at me, wanted to know why, very uncomfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I block then I block for a reason so would just ignore them if it was at a social."

I imagine alot of people would come across differently in reality.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"If I block then I block for a reason so would just ignore them if it was at a social.

I imagine alot of people would come across differently in reality. "

And also, I don’t know a lot til they tell me their username as I’ve never seen a face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I block then I block for a reason so would just ignore them if it was at a social.

I imagine alot of people would come across differently in reality.

And also, I don’t know a lot til they tell me their username as I’ve never seen a face pic"

Thats the thing on here and even if they did tell me their username I most likely still wouldn't remember them

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