FabSwingers.com forum: Is it rude to ask someone for a no contact Social meeting?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know it’s Covid and people are not meeting.....

But if you have been chatting with someone and getting on great.... Would you loose interest in this person asked for a no contact first meeting?

A example of this would be a invitation for a bike ride or a game of tennis..,.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So a social? No I don't think people would be offended.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I’d quite like it. If anyone would like to go zorbing let me know

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By *inksAPlentyCouple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

No, we wouldn't lose interest. No contact socials are the only way to meet at the moment. Plus it's what you're doing if you go to one of the clubs that are open.

Means you can meet and establish if there is any connection

Ms x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not rude at all. Most ppl like a social meet. So i think its fair to suggest/ask.

Hope it works out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d do a no contact social tbf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

socials are great

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We were talking about this the other day. A coffee outside or a walk with a takeaway coffee would be quite nice we thought and not rude to request

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By *ifornowCouple
over a year ago

East Lincs

It's very sensible.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

A Picnic. Now you’re talking

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By *ostguy321Man
over a year ago

Bucks

I think it's a great 9dea and you get to know them better, I cannot see any issues with this

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"I know it’s Covid and people are not meeting.....

But if you have been chatting with someone and getting on great.... Would you loose interest in this person asked for a no contact first meeting?

A example of this would be a invitation for a bike ride or a game of tennis..,."
if someone asks to meet me, I say that I am socialising only now, they usually say yes, it's just pinning them down to the actual meeting

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

I'd happily do no contact socials, I'd say its more rude to assume the person you are meeting is agreeing to any contact by agreeing to meet.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"I know it’s Covid and people are not meeting.....

But if you have been chatting with someone and getting on great.... Would you loose interest in this person asked for a no contact first meeting?

A example of this would be a invitation for a bike ride or a game of tennis..,."

Naa I'd prefer it to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd happily do no contact socials, I'd say its more rude to assume the person you are meeting is agreeing to any contact by agreeing to meet. "

Absolutely this !

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

No problem with social distancing drinks, it's a good way to find out if there is a spark at least. X

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By *eachesAndCream99Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Cardiff just off the M4

We go for socials first just to see if there’s a connection etc before planning on meeting

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By *allgirthyMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

Great thing to do, is say. If anyone would like to go on one with me, let me know!

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Great thing to do, is say. If anyone would like to go on one with me, let me know!"

I will if it’s a picnic!

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By *allgirthyMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

"Great thing to do, is say. If anyone would like to go on one with me, let me know!

I will if it’s a picnic!"

Count me in. Any preference on sandwich filling?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so it's official? social meets are ok in fabs eyes.. then if you hit it off.. move in together, become exclusive...form a houseshare? Its all very frustrating as a libertarian lefty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a couple of outdoor socials. A walk and a coffee in the park. Both were lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A Picnic. Now you’re talking"

I come zorbing with you. Followed by a picnic

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By *rMrsBumblebeeCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Would make perfect sense to us, and would be quite happy to go on one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know it’s Covid and people are not meeting.....

But if you have been chatting with someone and getting on great.... Would you loose interest in this person asked for a no contact first meeting?

A example of this would be a invitation for a bike ride or a game of tennis..,."

It's not rude at all, it is manners and common sense...

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"We were talking about this the other day. A coffee outside or a walk with a takeaway coffee would be quite nice we thought and not rude to request"

We'd be up for something like this too

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

"I know it’s Covid and people are not meeting.....

But if you have been chatting with someone and getting on great.... Would you loose interest in this person asked for a no contact first meeting?

A example of this would be a invitation for a bike ride or a game of tennis..,."

I’d be happy for a no contact social, it’s totally acceptable at the moment.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Great thing to do, is say. If anyone would like to go on one with me, let me know!

I will if it’s a picnic!"

Bit cold and wet for a picnic? Can I come too though?

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"A Picnic. Now you’re talking

I come zorbing with you. Followed by a picnic

What’s zorbing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would rather this than diving staight in

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You guys are the best..... I was chatting to someone that stated they are not meeting during covid......

I’m just was just curious if offering a coffee and walk would make her think... I wasn’t respecting her boundaries.....

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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest

Isn't that what a social is? A no expectations meeting of two people to see if there is any chemistry to build on? OK under normal circumstances you might exchange a welcome of goodbye kiss. But a social isn't an open invitation to have a good fondle under the table or in the car park after.

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

"I'd happily do no contact socials, I'd say its more rude to assume the person you are meeting is agreeing to any contact by agreeing to meet. "

Absolutely this

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

"A Picnic. Now you’re talking

I come zorbing with you. Followed by a picnic

What’s zorbing?

Those huge ball things you roll down hills in

they look a lot of fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A Picnic. Now you’re talking

I come zorbing with you. Followed by a picnic

What’s zorbing?

Rolling around in your own giant clear orb. Usually downhill

You coming?

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By *allgirthyMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

"Great thing to do, is say. If anyone would like to go on one with me, let me know!

I will if it’s a picnic!

Bit cold and wet for a picnic? Can I come too though?

The more the merrier - bring crisps!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Not rude at all and certainly wouldn't put me off them.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"A Picnic. Now you’re talking

I come zorbing with you. Followed by a picnic

What’s zorbing?

Rolling around in your own giant clear orb. Usually downhill

You coming? "

Oh hell yeah - count me in!

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Great thing to do, is say. If anyone would like to go on one with me, let me know!

I will if it’s a picnic!

Bit cold and wet for a picnic? Can I come too though?

The more the merrier - bring crisps!"

I’ll need a big bag! Looks like there might be a few of us!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"A Picnic. Now you’re talking

I come zorbing with you. Followed by a picnic

What’s zorbing?

Rolling around in your own giant clear orb. Usually downhill

You coming?

Oh hell yeah - count me in!

Fab socially distanced social?!

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"A Picnic. Now you’re talking

I come zorbing with you. Followed by a picnic

What’s zorbing?

Those huge ball things you roll down hills in

they look a lot of fun x"

Now I want homemade chips - and I’m on a diet!

Damn you made them sound so good woman!

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"A Picnic. Now you’re talking

I come zorbing with you. Followed by a picnic

What’s zorbing?

Rolling around in your own giant clear orb. Usually downhill

You coming?

Oh hell yeah - count me in!

Fab socially distanced social?!

Absolutely. Why not?

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By *anna Needs CockWoman
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Nothing rude in asking and nothing rude if they decline either.

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

Depends where you are its illegal in large parts of the country unless outdoors

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its a great idea I preffer a social first anyway if im honest

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm not sure tennis could be classed as "socially distant" as you will be handling each others balls !

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

We do not consider it rude and we are up for non contact social meets. Maybe a glass of wine on the beach feeling the sand between your toes.

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

We like to do socials before anyway so this is a good idea during these times, we have done a social walk and it was fun

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"I'm not sure tennis could be classed as "socially distant" as you will be handling each others balls !"

It can be if you rub them down, between serves Sally

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By *entlecaressMan
over a year ago

Wakefield/ Beverley

No that's a great ice breaker for me and still exciting.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"No that's a great ice breaker for me and still exciting. "

Having your balls rubbed between serves ?

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By *entlecaressMan
over a year ago

Wakefield/ Beverley

"I’d quite like it. If anyone would like to go zorbing let me know "

Not after breakfast lol

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

No, it wouldn't put me off. Better than sitting a metre away in a coffee shop trying to have a convo!

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