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Are the older one scared of the young ones?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondering if the matured people are scared of the young males most especially because they keep say 30s and above, just wondering...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering if the matured people are scared of the young males most especially because they keep say 30s and above, just wondering..."

Oh how I look forward to the 'matured' people responding.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whats to be scared of?

People make their own choices in this game as in life I guess.

Age is but a number they say. Unless you are over / under the age preference of someone you really would like to know a whole lot better.

Then its a pain the arse ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

me too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

totally get your point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't give a hoot what a age a guy is as long as he can fuck, most young guys think they can fuck for England and no it all that's why most cpls don't wanna invite them round

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By *hickencurryCouple
over a year ago

brisbane

we get the odd message from young guys looking for the older more experienced lady. Top tip. Nothing makes a fem reach for the delete button quicker than being referred to as "older"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mature man could knock spots off any young guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we get the odd message from young guys looking for the older more experienced lady. Top tip. Nothing makes a fem reach for the delete button quicker than being referred to as "older" "

Oooh don't ya just lurve them " looking for an older woman" messages lol. Slap!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I would be scared you put thumpy thumpy music on....

that's all

good luck and have fun on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love all women Young and older x

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

scared of a younger guy ..pmsl !! why on earth would i be ??? what exactly would i have to be scared of exactly ?? my pace maker giving out ? having to turn my hearing aid up to hear the dirty talk being shouted in ma ear ? or maybe throwing my hip out whilst shuffling over to the bed ??pmsl !!!

reason i state guys above 30 is purely because thats what attracts me , thats hwat gets me mentally and sexually turned on and thats who i click with . im after someone who makes me think "i wanna fuck them !" not " i could be their mum "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

scared of younger men ?

hell no

i positively encourage them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be young once too ... and I fucked young men.

Now I don't fuck young men because I'm no longer young.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just tripped over my zimmer! Any younger gals wanna help me get up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to be young once too ... and I fucked young men.

Now I don't fuck young men because I'm no longer young. "

but can still pull off a onesie to some aplomb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scared??? The only thing that scares me about them is the possibility of them boring me to death.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plus older guys know their way around a womans body better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plus older guys know their way around a womans body better"

only when you get us out of our slippers and away from our pipes!

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By *essesCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

Not scared, just have found that a lot of young ones are all talk and no action and are also prone, not to turn up. Now where's my cup of tea and knitting?

Lisa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Preferences...

With my 32 sometime lot of ladies here will tell i am too young for them as they are looking for from 35..That doesnt mean they are affraid or scared.

It is just standards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering if the matured people are scared of the young males most especially because they keep say 30s and above, just wondering..."

Ha ha, I very much doubt it mate! I think a lot of more mature couples and ladies want to fuck someone they can connect with like everyone else...and that's usually more common with people around their own ages.

If I was you I'd simply contact ladies or couples that are specifically looking for younger guys, there's plenty of them on site!

If you somehow still can't find them, then try putting a specific word into the username search such as 'cougar' or 'milf' that may give some clue of what the profile owner is looking for...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It comes down to attitude in our case we find younger men can be so crude in the way they think/talk. I know M loves to be treated with respect and some(as we realize) younger men spoil it for the others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not scared, just have found that a lot of young ones are all talk and no action and are also prone, not to turn up. Now where's my cup of tea and knitting?

Lisa"

over there

under your manky dressing gown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to be young once too ... and I fucked young men.

Now I don't fuck young men because I'm no longer young.

but can still pull off a onesie to some aplomb "

...... I knew you would appreciate it.

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By *ild Bill Thickcock.Man
over a year ago

Wet Beaver Creek

Tell you what mate, you can shag my 48yr old wife if I can shag your 20yr old girlfriend, then we'll see which one of us is scared

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

points taken peeps

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By *aris23Woman
over a year ago

France

For me personally it simply feels a bit pervy to have sex with someone younger than my own children. I'm also too long in the tooth to teach youngsters about having good sex - isn't that what a young guy really wants when he says 'I love an experienced older woman'...LOL...and guys - mature is a kinder word please.

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By *ombshellWoman
over a year ago

islington

is defo not scared ...well ok maybe i am a lil scared, that i might kill em when they cant keep up with me ! hehehe...staggers back to the rocking chair ....

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Just wondering if the matured people are scared of the young males most especially because they keep say 30s and above, just wondering..."

Yet it's ok for you to have an upper age of 25! Are you scared of old people?!!

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By *essesCouple
over a year ago

nottingham


"Not scared, just have found that a lot of young ones are all talk and no action and are also prone, not to turn up. Now where's my cup of tea and knitting?

Lisa

over there

under your manky dressing gown"

If your not carefull Bussy I will wrap you up in it and then you would be scared!

X

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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago

south staffs

I like young guys and have met quite a few under 20.

It is the "I need pussy now" and "bored, want entertaining" and on a meet advert the "Anything, anywhere" attitude that puts me off a lot of young people. They seem to have the idea that whatever they want/need is what should be happening - and NOW !

Some ( very few) youngsters are very mature and worldly for their years and can see beyond the porn ideals and the feeling in their balls. They are the ones I would like to meet.

Good luck.

Jane x

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By *icesweetgirlWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I've met a few young lads at the GBs and 99% have been lovely. Plus some of them have very fit bodies. 2 came last night and they were very enjoyable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering if the matured people are scared of the young males most especially because they keep say 30s and above, just wondering...

Yet it's ok for you to have an upper age of 25! Are you scared of old people?!! "

Priceless!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

got me there lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is there to be scared of? It is more about preference, choice and what one finds attraction and for me its my own age group

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Some women scare me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't give a hoot what a age a guy is as long as he can fuck, most young guys think they can fuck for England and no it all that's why most cpls don't wanna invite them round"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering if the matured people are scared of the young males most especially because they keep say 30s and above, just wondering...

Yet it's ok for you to have an upper age of 25! Are you scared of old people?!!

Priceless!!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we're bored of them. we recently keep getting mails that end 'so if you think you're up to the task mail me back'...

If we think we're up to the task?!...yeah we love a challenge

Fuck Right Off!

These mails are always from people 30ish or under

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering if the matured people are scared of the young males most especially because they keep say 30s and above, just wondering..."

And you wonder why you don't get meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The reason we won't go under 30yrs is cos we have kids most that age and ypu never fuck anyone you could have given birth to just not right in our book x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering if the matured people are scared of the young males most especially because they keep say 30s and above, just wondering..."

One day in the future - when you are mature too you will realise what a bloody stupid question that was !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"dats a bit harsh, wasn't it?"

dat? who are you - daffy duck? Z

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

We're quite flexible age wise but wouldn't dream of playing with a guy much younger than 25 or so. Scared? lol - no - we like to play with people who know what they're doing! the younger guys should be scared of us 'matured' we'd show them up! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering if the matured people are scared of the young males most especially because they keep say 30s and above, just wondering..."

What an odd question!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not cos we are scared i have my age range and wont meet either fem or male below 27 one because i have young adult kids and it makes me feel like a perve 2 cos most i feel dont have the how do i say mature mentality or experience enough sexualy, to handle the no string relationship thats is required but like i said thats my preference x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My mature man could knock spots off any young guy. "

Care for even more mature spotknocking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering if the matured people are scared of the young males most especially because they keep say 30s and above, just wondering..."

Of course we are,especially scared of the young guys who boast so much and either cum after about 2 mins or don't even show up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering if the matured people are scared of the young males most especially because they keep say 30s and above, just wondering...

Of course we are,especially scared of the young guys who boast so much and either cum after about 2 mins or don't even show up!"

"...Empty vessels make the most noise .."

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By *acciWoman
over a year ago

leeds


"The reason we won't go under 30yrs is cos we have kids most that age and ypu never fuck anyone you could have given birth to just not right in our book x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

made loads of offers to meet young guys,but they all chicken out of meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scared of what???? Them not being able to perform or please a woman like the more mature man knows how to do....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Terrified please help us .........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am scare of no one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Scared of what???? Them not being able to perform or please a woman like the more mature man knows how to do.... "

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Just wondering if the matured people are scared of the young males most especially because they keep say 30s and above, just wondering..."

What a grown up question that is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering if the matured people are scared of the young males most especially because they keep say 30s and above, just wondering..."

are you scared of men? only you dont seem to be looking for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not scared of young men the reason i dont meet them is because they dont posses the qualities i look for in sex

I like men who are quite sexually assertive and thats something you very seldom find in a young man, most young guys look for older women to gain experience, they like older women because she knows what she wants and is not afraid to get it so they tend to let the women take lead, which isnt what i want

so its not a case of scared its just a case of someone who is 21 does not fit into my sexual preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plus older guys know their way around a womans body better"

Its not hard to figure out a womans body, a lot of men just cant be arsed with her needs or finding her buttons.

Im 27 and having had enough experience with older women I can honestly say older men are not the be all end all in sex.

I know of guys who just roll off the woman after they've had theirs and go to sleep. Always makes me laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My mature man could knock spots off any young guy.

Care for even more mature spotknocking?

"

lol, well i do love an older guy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm afraid for me it's lack of experience and the idea that the only way to fuck is like they do in a porn film. I have researched enough now to know more experienced is better for me sorry. there are exceptions but they are few and far between...

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By *heekyladyCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Personally, I prefer not to meet those young enough to be my children or the other end of the spectrum with none old enough to be my parents.

I have found that the messages I get from the very young early 20 something boys, they don't seem to get that I am not interested. They get whiny in their messages after I've said a polite no thanks, you know "awwwww please you won't be disappointed" It drives me nuts, which is why now I set my privacy settings to block under my preferred age limit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm shit scared of meeting a younger lady.

Guess I could do with one coming along offering to help me face my fears

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we get the odd message from young guys looking for the older more experienced lady. Top tip. Nothing makes a fem reach for the delete button quicker than being referred to as "older"

Oooh don't ya just lurve them " looking for an older woman" messages lol. Slap! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell you what mate, you can shag my 48yr old wife if I can shag your 20yr old girlfriend, then we'll see which one of us is scared "

Spot on! Bet he wouldn't.....

Scared? You should be...... Lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not scared, just have found that a lot of young ones are all talk and no action and are also prone, not to turn up. Now where's my cup of tea and knitting?

Lisa"

Love it

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"Tell you what mate, you can shag my 48yr old wife if I can shag your 20yr old girlfriend, then we'll see which one of us is scared "

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"Tell you what mate, you can shag my 48yr old wife if I can shag your 20yr old girlfriend, then we'll see which one of us is scared

"

opps my wife isn't 48 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering if the matured people are scared of the young males most especially because they keep say 30s and above, just wondering..."

Just wondering if the you one is scared of the old ones, by not wanting over 50 ??????????

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I have played with older ladies and couples....they said they found me attractive and they were looking for someone younger to fufil that fantasy...

Nowadays I am in the age where for some I am to young and others to old....lol

That's life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering if the matured people are scared of the young males most especially because they keep say 30s and above, just wondering..."

Scared?! - Eat you for breakfast sunshine!

You'd be begging for mercy my love - guess that's why kids your age want us 'elderly has beens' - speak to you in a few years time!

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

Normally we'd hesitate about younger. But having met a couple of guys mid twenties they were fantastic company, people and fun. All down to the individual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey is this still running?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering if the matured people are scared of the young males most especially because they keep say 30s and above, just wondering..."

Nope..Master prefers me to have younger guys.. but when they see master fuck me they seem to not come back..

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fuck em all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread made me smile - thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering if the matured people are scared of the young males most especially because they keep say 30s and above, just wondering..."

Its been said already but age is just a number and most import facts in meeting someone is a physical connection - personality and a big degree of mutual respect.

The question does raise other issues to do with age limitations i guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering if the matured people are scared of the young males most especially because they keep say 30s and above, just wondering...

Just wondering if the you one is scared of the old ones, by not wanting over 50 ??????????"

Upper age limit was 25 yesterday!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am more likely to be scared of older men than i am young ones.

Some of the old men i have met have been manipulative and bossy.

They think they know it all.

Or they pretend they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am more likely to be scared of older men than i am young ones.

Some of the old men i have met have been manipulative and bossy.

They think they know it all.

Or they pretend they do. "

I guess thats true of both sexes - and in both we know they the exception rather than the rule - but id agree manner dont cost ought do they

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

am still trying to work out what I am supposed to be scared off....?

some younger people think it is purely an age thing... when I lot of it may well also do with life experience, and general domena and attitude....

some older people think they are being put out to pasture and think people think they are are past it...... but again alot of it comes down to attitude....

and sometimes you just can't win.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering if the matured people are scared of the young males most especially because they keep say 30s and above, just wondering...

Just wondering if the you one is scared of the old ones, by not wanting over 50 ??????????

Upper age limit was 25 yesterday!!!"

Don't knock the lad, that means he is getting over his fear of the older ones...

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

yeh, as you get to our ages you tend to find the younguns with their computery games and electronically powered watches scare us silly.

i mean, who has ever heard of a watch you dont have to wind!!!!????

and, as for them there devils chariots (automobiles?) oh my, how frightening are they.

where are the horses???

im scared of everything nowadays.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hands up i didnt read all the posts in response, but for my 2 pennies worth I'm not scared of young ones nor old ones...

I dislike teenage sex and like someone that knows what a clit is, my age range is what I'd like, so near my own age.

I've chatted to younger guys in clubs and despite their best efforts to convince me they had the stamina to keep me smiling hours I declined.

Thats not to say next time I will, I take each person as I find them, however for an online profile I try and narrow down so have set my age range as I think works for me

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