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By *ungMarried2020 OP   Man
over a year ago

Halifax

Hey! I’m all about improving, I like to think I’m pretty good at licking pussy, I’ve never had any complaints. But there is always room for improvement.

Share your tips below! It might help a few out!

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By *onkyLemonsCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Following for no reason whatsoever

Mrs

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

No tips needed , don’t bite the clit and take notice of the woman’s reaction as to wether she enjoys it or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, follow the lady's reactions and just make sure you make her cum, first!

Sandc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do it for hours. Women love that

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By *imple2020Man
over a year ago

Co Durham

All women are different... gotta find them out.. thats the fun

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By *ungMarried2020 OP   Man
over a year ago

Halifax


"All women are different... gotta find them out.. thats the fun "

Very true! Always willing to try them out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spell the alphabet with your tongue

Or do a figure of eight.

Both of those work for me

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By *eanne1984Woman
over a year ago

wallasey

Not too lightly on the clit, add a bit of pressure

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I like my clit circled then a flick of the tongue across it, getting firmer with each flick.

Also love a finger or 2 slid inside me whilst I'm being licked.

This is what I do to the ladies and have never received any complaints. But then again, would someone really say "god you're so crap at licking pussy".

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By *uncpl187Couple
over a year ago

Ramsgate

Long soft strokes with your tongue from bottom to clit.

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

Blow cold air on the clit before you relieve with a hot sloppy tongue ?....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read her reactions... that is all... its not a case of one size fits all.

Failing that go at it like a beagle eating a icecream.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do it with an appetite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eat out to help out ended in August

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Alphabet

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By *ungMarried2020 OP   Man
over a year ago

Halifax

Well I’ve got about a month before I’ll need these tactics with the wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mistake, this is help out to eat out

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Alphabet "

I've just done this in my mind. That would really work actually. I must give it a go.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do it for hours. Women love that "

Not if its not very good we won't.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Do it for hours. Women love that "

When your tongue aches too much and you feel like you will pass out, lock it in position and swivel from the neck , you will get another couple of hours

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"Do it for hours. Women love that "

No we don't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fast forward this to 4.40 into it lol

https://youtu.be/aFM11SmoxfI

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By *razyandgentlemanCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By *razyandgentlemanCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Well so I hate fingers in when licking but I do love feeling pressure there made by fingers like saying 'I'm here I can be in just in the second but not yet'

I love this tease, that makes me more horny.

If you would put finger in then I'm lost what you are doing with your tongue and all the tension goes away:/

If that would be me you don't need to be quick from the beginning, slowly and sensual is all I need for couple of minutes quick moves are only needed on the end when I'm ready.

If that would be me if I make no noise that means ' y y no that makes nothing for me'

The rest you should ready by noises and moves

Hope this help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This whole thread has proved to me that everyone likes different things and so generic tips aren’t really much help!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t rush it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Licking pussy is the best thing and slowly licking until she is about to cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thoroughly enjoy doing it but damn it's hard to find a lady who wants to recieve the pleasure

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow


"I like my clit circled then a flick of the tongue across it, getting firmer with each flick.

Also love a finger or 2 slid inside me whilst I'm being licked.

This is what I do to the ladies and have never received any complaints. But then again, would someone really say "god you're so crap at licking pussy"."

Ditto!

I will guide him if he's not getting it though, need to give my cub some lessons

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"Not too lightly on the clit, add a bit of pressure "

What's a clit?

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By *edhead72Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham and Ashby

I’m a keen student

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Not too lightly on the clit, add a bit of pressure

What's a clit? "

Shall we send a map, compass and snorkel?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bend them over face down ass up, wrap your arms firmly around the thighs pull them in closer, get stuck in licking top to bottom and dont stop or let go until they cum usually does the job

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By *weetmissnaughty-misterCouple
over a year ago

saltburn


"Do it for hours. Women love that

No we don't!"

I agree with this. Nothing worse than bad oral

Sweetmiss xx

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

forest

Think someone said it early every woman is different. Go with the flow and read those sighs and movements

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery


"Do it for hours. Women love that "

Not all women, I don’t

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Bend them over face down ass up, wrap your arms firmly around the thighs pull them in closer, get stuck in licking top to bottom and dont stop or let go until they cum usually does the job"

Yeah..........no. Absolutely no. And this is why the answer is find by talking to the lady involved and adjust accordingly. There is no single right way.

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery


"Do it with an appetite "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or maybe ask the female how and where she likes it slow/fast or everywhere/or just clit

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

If she likes it, you’re doing it correctly.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

Put a drop of daves insanity chilli sauce on your tongue first. It livens everything youre eating up a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of people have covered it but being aware of the recipients reactions is always key with anything , if something gets a stronger reaction , potentially make a focus on it. If something clearly isn’t working , maybe move on to something new.

Also, using your hands on other areas of the body. We all have different areas that get a reaction, outside of the usual!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey! I’m all about improving, I like to think I’m pretty good at licking pussy, I’ve never had any complaints. But there is always room for improvement.

Share your tips below! It might help a few out! "

All women are different what works on one woman may not work on another woman,

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Morse code, just spell it out,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont get many complaints for this infact ive been told im good at it. But i cant say exactly the tecknique. You just learn it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do it for hours. Women love that

Not all women, I don’t "

For the record, this was a joke about all the guys who say they would love to do it all night long etc

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"Alphabet

I've just done this in my mind. That would really work actually. I must give it a go.

Mrs"

A bi female friend suggested years ago to me as I wasn’t unsure about oral at the time let’s say it takes the pressure of me now lol

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By *ihimbiherCouple
over a year ago

lightwater

Finger your own bum hole whilst licking... it makes you like faster so you can then retract your finger!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kiss is like you are kissing a mouth.

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By *ormladMan
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

Lol or a tease , don't suck the life out of it ..occasional finger ..do alphabets and make them squirt gush n cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kiss is like you are kissing a mouth. "

A personal favourite. I really enjoy doing this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kiss is like you are kissing a mouth.

A personal favourite. I really enjoy doing this "

Slow sensual sucks and pulls, occasional tongue all the way up, teasing licks. I need head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kiss is like you are kissing a mouth.

A personal favourite. I really enjoy doing this

Slow sensual sucks and pulls, occasional tongue all the way up, teasing licks. I need head "

Just make out with it, lots of tongue, lots of soft lip action, gentle sucking... yup I need a cold shower...

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By *imple2020Man
over a year ago

Co Durham


"Kiss is like you are kissing a mouth. "

Always a good starter

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By *imple2020Man
over a year ago

Co Durham


"Kiss is like you are kissing a mouth.

A personal favourite. I really enjoy doing this

Slow sensual sucks and pulls, occasional tongue all the way up, teasing licks. I need head "

Aww god.. what you trying to do lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kiss is like you are kissing a mouth.

A personal favourite. I really enjoy doing this

Slow sensual sucks and pulls, occasional tongue all the way up, teasing licks. I need head "

Now I'm starving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the least sensitive tiny clit possible and most of what’s been said here would just make me count the ceiling cracks, for me fingers would be needed to assist and a firm tongue and bites and nibbles to help my clit come out of hiding is required.

So basically ask the person you are planning on licking if she has a preference

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By *ightowlingWoman
over a year ago

Near Taunton

If she makes noises that indicate she likes it - keep doing that exact same thing!! That is not the time to change it up! Hth

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By *ae1985Woman
over a year ago

kittenshire

A favourite of mine is an open mouth with a tongue out (Like what guys ask for cumming on )so I can grind my clit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are no hard and fast rules imho

I have been with women who cannot bear a tongue on their clit but like being licked all around and my tongue inside them and then I have a long term booty call who all she wants is hours of licking her clit while walking my fingers on her g spot which gives me neck ache but I love watching her come multiple times or just edging her until she finally cums and then collapses into a deep sleep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No tips needed , don’t bite the clit and take notice of the woman’s reaction as to wether she enjoys it or not "

Sound advice..

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

forest

I really want to go down on someone after reading all this. Been far too long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clit is very very sensitive part, if you do it too much then a lady doesn't enjoy .

No teeths

No stubble burns near it

Use of fingers and gently running the G spot( if you know where to find it lol)

It takes only 2 to 5 min to make a lady cum if you are really good at it.

Or else you will be days down there and still won't be able to fine the diamond.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeeze. One cap doesn't fit all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have the least sensitive tiny clit possible and most of what’s been said here would just make me count the ceiling cracks, for me fingers would be needed to assist and a firm tongue and bites and nibbles to help my clit come out of hiding is required.

So basically ask the person you are planning on licking if she has a preference "

Completely! I once nearly backed completely off somebody’s bed because I’m the opposite and it was far too much

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Hey! I’m all about improving, I like to think I’m pretty good at licking pussy, I’ve never had any complaints. But there is always room for improvement.

Share your tips below! It might help a few out! "
if she gushes, then I would say you've done a good job

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By *addoggyMan
over a year ago

leeds

I love sucking the clit while finger fucking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what YOU enjoy. A man who is enthusiastic about any sex act is going to turn the woman on by his enjoyment of what he is doing.

Nothing worse for a lady than if she is thinking "is he loving this or not?" Or "is he bored now, but is just doing this because he feels he has to!"

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

Some pointers please about doing the best possible way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bend them over face down ass up, wrap your arms firmly around the thighs pull them in closer, get stuck in licking top to bottom and dont stop or let go until they cum usually does the job"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ask us!

We all enjoy different things. You’ve only got to read any thread about what makes a good blow job for a guy to realise this.

One thing I think most women agree on tho is that in spite of what some guys write on their profiles, we really don’t want you to lick us for hours!

V

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I do love licking out and as many have suggested.. watch her reaction and don't forget a finger or two at the same time

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

This is to vivabs can you message me please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is to vivabs can you message me please "

Naughty naughty getting around filters

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

They said to message them and can’t so I have asked they would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They said to message them and can’t so I have asked they would "

Are you saying we asked you to message us?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They said to message them and can’t so I have asked they would

Are you saying we asked you to message us?"

Thought as much... good luck ladies xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They said to message them and can’t so I have asked they would

Are you saying we asked you to message us?

Thought as much... good luck ladies xx "

Message filters are in place for a reason!

Thank you lovely xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A favourite of mine is an open mouth with a tongue out (Like what guys ask for cumming on )so I can grind my clit "

Mmmm

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By *hunderstruckMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Personally I like to mix it up

Full licking with flat of tongue to flicking with the tip

Circling around and then little fucking with my tongue inside her pussy

I love using my lips to pull on her clit

Sucking it into my mouth seems to work

But not too hard or rough

I usually have a close shave too

Women seem to hate the sharp stubble between their thighs

Thanks

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By *fter dinner delightCouple
over a year ago

bury st edmunds/london

Don’t sneeze

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By *aughtyloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull


"Hey! I’m all about improving, I like to think I’m pretty good at licking pussy, I’ve never had any complaints. But there is always room for improvement.

Share your tips below! It might help a few out! "

Always ask first ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont just lick the tip. Lick all of it.

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By *appy but hornyMan
over a year ago

wakefield

never been really good at the whole sex thing

come too quick no real technique blah blah blah

im honest enough to realise my faults and im happy as i am thank you

still madly in love ..both of us..mrs and me..thats what counts for me

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes


"Spell the alphabet with your tongue

Or do a figure of eight.

Both of those work for me"

Just when I thought I had it all figured this is genius, I'm all about pleasing and love this idea to interupt a normally predictable pattern.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to use an ice cube in my mouth allowing the cold melted ice to run down her clit and also then using it to press her clit

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