FabSwingers.com forum: Too many men on here with short term memories

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have lost count how many times I spend an evening talking to a guy on here only for him to mail a few days or a week or 2 later and for him to not even remember that we have already talked.

The men on here are really thier own worst enemies.

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

This post is roughly the same as what you have mentioned

The quick shag men and move on comes to mind

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/1074236

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

forest

Who said that

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By *oby BestMan
over a year ago

the shires

what was this thread about again ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooo. Nice castle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have we met?

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By *quirell2015Man
over a year ago

somewhere nearby

Men wouldn’t splash and dash would they ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have lost count how many times I spend an evening talking to a guy on here only for him to mail a few days or a week or 2 later and for him to not even remember that we have already talked.

The men on here are really thier own worst enemies.

Interestingly it is not just the men, I have had exactly the same thing with women and couples too...

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

We get this all the time. Had one the other day, saying he wanted to chat more about the anal session we'd planned.

Alas he didn't know that's an exclusive hole. We had not discussed such a thing.

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By *quirell2015Man
over a year ago

somewhere nearby

I think maybe he was trying his luck there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Panda sex..... Eats shoots & leaves

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

If they paid for subscription they’d be able to keep track of their message threads. But then their wives might start questioning what the payment was for.

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they paid for subscription they’d be able to keep track of their message threads. But then their wives might start questioning what the payment was for.

Lou x "

This is exactly it

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

Happens all the time usually with the exact same opening message straight to block when that happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't believe your trying to say us men can't oooooooo look a Squirrel awww ain't that so cute....... Erm what was I saying oh yeah us men have the best oooooooo look a sheep oh my iys so fluffy and white...... Sorry what was I saying again lol

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By *evilandTheBeastCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough and Bedford

The site supporter comment is quite important here, not just because of having record of conversation. Apparently, if you're a site supporter, you get the "you messaged them yesterday/two weeks ago/a year ago" notice when you look at the profile. I guess men messaging you, OP, are mainly not site supporters.

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

The notes function is your friend

"Oh hi single straight man that i chatted with a few weeks ago that told me you live with your parents and cant accom but here you are posting on the forum about your wife and secret encounters with men"

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich

Blocked a lad this morning who has sent the same message every week for months

"Hey gorgeous"

Every time I point out that if he read our profile its pretty obvious its the male he will be talking to.

He never learns, finally got bored of telling him and blocked him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had identical experiences with both females and couples, i dont chat to single men but its the same across the board, some of which have sent friends requests that I have accepted st8ll forget weve chatted

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

"I have lost count how many times I spend an evening talking to a guy on here only for him to mail a few days or a week or 2 later and for him to not even remember that we have already talked.

The men on here are really thier own worst enemies.Same here lol..... men and their willies

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By *addoggyMan
over a year ago

leeds

Am I getting in the bath or out of the bath?

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"I have lost count how many times I spend an evening talking to a guy on here only for him to mail a few days or a week or 2 later and for him to not even remember that we have already talked.

The men on here are really thier own worst enemies.

It's not our fault, part of our brains evolved from goldfish..

Mmmmm boobies

Sorry what were you saying ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men have a 2 second memory, well some do! They forgot who they have chatted with and who they have not, if you have not peaked their interest then they will forget who they have chatted with, those with a mind will say to themselves “ oh I been there and go no joy” and won’t do again but some are just gluten for punishment lol

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

My short term memory is fucked,and also my short term memory is fucked too

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley

"My short term memory is fucked,and also my short term memory is fucked too

Ha ha, that tickled me........

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

To be fair... You can't expect the poor dears to wank and think at the same time

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

If I'd ever chatted with you I'd definitely remember

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

We find some couples have very short or selective memories.

TBH it's no different with single guys, single ladies or couples.

It's the good, the bad, the mediocre, the timewasters and drama queens....not too sure where we fit in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have lost count how many times I spend an evening talking to a guy on here only for him to mail a few days or a week or 2 later and for him to not even remember that we have already talked.

The men on here are really thier own worst enemies.

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we get this a lot its funny how guys have a very short term memory as the new mailbox keeps a records messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We find some couples have very short or selective memories.

TBH it's no different with single guys, single ladies or couples.

It's the good, the bad, the mediocre, the timewasters and drama queens....not too sure where we fit in.

Exactly this. Gotta love how its only ever single males and heaven forbid someone states otherwise lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have lost count how many times I spend an evening talking to a guy on here only for him to mail a few days or a week or 2 later and for him to not even remember that we have already talked.

The men on here are really thier own worst enemies.

we get this a lot its funny how guys have a very short term memory as the new mailbox keeps a records messages"

100% agree, we find couples are the worse, even during the same conversation they can ask the same questions again and again

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

"The site supporter comment is quite important here, not just because of having record of conversation. Apparently, if you're a site supporter, you get the "you messaged them yesterday/two weeks ago/a year ago" notice when you look at the profile. I guess men messaging you, OP, are mainly not site supporters. "

you get that with a free account as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have lost count how many times I spend an evening talking to a guy on here only for him to mail a few days or a week or 2 later and for him to not even remember that we have already talked.

The men on here are really thier own worst enemies.

Same with the women too x

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

We've been on this and another site for years and it happens all the time. There are decent guys around but loads more who contact multiple couples and can't even recall who they've chatted to.

They are the ones who make it so much harder for everyone.

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

He'll be doing it to everyone. Sad.

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

Yeah right lol

Males outnumber females here 100-1.

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

Correct - it's to do with numbers and males outnumber females and couples 100-1.

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

The thing is that if you can be bothered to check who you've said what to there's no need to show yourself up. We all makes mistakes but some guys just can't be bothered to help themselves.

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By *evilandTheBeastCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough and Bedford

you get that with a free account as well"

No, you don't, just checked.

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By *willfindyouWoman
over a year ago

Not looking to meet new peeps.

"I have lost count how many times I spend an evening talking to a guy on here only for him to mail a few days or a week or 2 later and for him to not even remember that we have already talked.

block is the answer

The men on here are really thier own worst enemies.

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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest

"I have lost count how many times I spend an evening talking to a guy on here only for him to mail a few days or a week or 2 later and for him to not even remember that we have already talked.

The men on here are really thier own worst enemies.

It's not rocket science.. It says on your profile if you've mailed before.

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

In our experience at parties, it's very rarely the single guys who cause any type of grief.

If any, its generally couples who cause problems and invariably the lady of the couple.

Not cast in stone, very rarely happens but what we have witnessed first hand.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Yep, had this twice on the same day recently and it was jolly awkward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have lost count how many times I spend an evening talking to a guy on here only for him to mail a few days or a week or 2 later and for him to not even remember that we have already talked.

The men on here are really thier own worst enemies.

Happens daily lol.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

It's not just men though, it's single ladies and couples.

We obviously make a good first impression

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By *ED00Woman
over a year ago

South Devon... Torbaydos

Lol I've literally just had this happen. The message thread say 97 messages and hes sent a message say hi my names...... I'm a polite discreet guy looking for fun. Shame he forgot to put with short term memory loss lol

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