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FWB vs married couples

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are married but when it comes to playing with others, would you turn down a couple who were FWB? Our preference would be to play with a real/ married couple. For us part of the turn on is the naughtiness of playing with someone who is already in a relationship. Is that common?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was a couple, I preferred to play with a real, establish couple. For me the dynamics were better.

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By *onkeyandBonesCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

We would happily play with a fwb couple providing they have a couple profile.

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By *quirell2015Man
over a year ago

somewhere nearby

From a singles point of view there is an added dynamic of a married couple that gives it the edge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah we tend not to play with FWB. Sometimes we think due to the times they want to meet and cant accommodate they are likely cheating on partners.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We've never met FWB. We have met married and ltr couples and trust me,it's no guarantee that they'll both be on the same page when it comes to swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've never met FWB. We have met married and ltr couples and trust me,it's no guarantee that they'll both be on the same page when it comes to swinging "

Also no guarantee they aren't cheating on their real partners.

I used to regulary see a couple in Chams on a weekday afternoon for months.

Only ever chatted to them, but a really nice , friendly couple.

Then one day they dropped into the conversation that they were married.....to other people and Chams was their safe place to meet.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"We've never met FWB. We have met married and ltr couples and trust me,it's no guarantee that they'll both be on the same page when it comes to swinging

Also no guarantee they aren't cheating on their real partners.

I used to regulary see a couple in Chams on a weekday afternoon for months.

Only ever chatted to them, but a really nice , friendly couple.

Then one day they dropped into the conversation that they were married.....to other people and Chams was their safe place to meet.

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Yeah. I think if you're meeting people in clubs or from the net it's very easy for them (and you/us) to maintain a facade. We're very much in a bubble where it's possible to be present an image that my but not represent the entire reality of a situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt be interested in meeting a FWB as it looses so much of the dynamic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I'll play with FWB or FB couples too xx

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

To throw this in. I was in a long term FWBs relationship. If we as a couple met you (yes we could accommodate) you would not been able to tell the difference to any other boyfriend or girlfriend so what’s the difference?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"To throw this in. I was in a long term FWBs relationship. If we as a couple met you (yes we could accommodate) you would not been able to tell the difference to any other boyfriend or girlfriend so what’s the difference? "

I think for some a bit part of the attraction of swinging is the slightly taboo of risque element of fucking someone else's wife of husband. With fwb it isn't quite as edgy maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To throw this in. I was in a long term FWBs relationship. If we as a couple met you (yes we could accommodate) you would not been able to tell the difference to any other boyfriend or girlfriend so what’s the difference? "

The secret sauce of a real relationship

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole


"To throw this in. I was in a long term FWBs relationship. If we as a couple met you (yes we could accommodate) you would not been able to tell the difference to any other boyfriend or girlfriend so what’s the difference? "

Dynamics! We met a "couple", out doggin. Got chatting and they were fb's. During the play, I got the vibes, so play stopped. After a bit more chatting, we found out they had been chatting on Fabs alot. The first time they met was 1/2 hour earlier when he'd picked her up!

Hence we don't play with fb's, fwb's or new couples with under a year old account.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We have a preference for long term couples though that's not set in stone.

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport


"To throw this in. I was in a long term FWBs relationship. If we as a couple met you (yes we could accommodate) you would not been able to tell the difference to any other boyfriend or girlfriend so what’s the difference? "

There's an aura about a secure happily married couple. Nothing tangible to describe but you can tell and feel it. That's part of the attraction of being on the same page.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

We would prefer to meet a couple in a similar position to us, we’ve been married for over 20 years and it’s actually quite a big deal and takes a lot of trust for us to ‘share’ each other with other people. We just think a couple in a similar relationship would understand and appreciate it’s not just about fucking for us.

Plus, we’ve spoken with FWB couples on here before and quite often their profiles don’t seem to stay open for very long. We can only assume it’s a couple of single profiles who think they’ll stand more chance if they open up a couples profile together.

Lou x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"To throw this in. I was in a long term FWBs relationship. If we as a couple met you (yes we could accommodate) you would not been able to tell the difference to any other boyfriend or girlfriend so what’s the difference?

There's an aura about a secure happily married couple. Nothing tangible to describe but you can tell and feel it. That's part of the attraction of being on the same page. "

People have said this about us. Apparently we just appear secure and in tune. I think that's probably due to the fact that we've been together 40 years and we're going to know each other inside out.

But, I think it's entirely possible for people who are in less traditional relationships to be very much in tune sexually and very able to communicate with each other.

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