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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I honestly think at times ppl take this site too seriously, like to me it's a website to meet ppl for sex, plain and simple. Of course ppl will have their preferences in terms of ppl they want to have sex with, and their preferred sexual activities but sometimes while reading profiles I'm like, "damn you're kinda taking the fun out of a site like this"

Just saying, do have a lovely evening you guys, been back after a brief hiatus

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Agree.

100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed

67%

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all part of the amazing diversity of human nature. What we are here for is to share our human experience with each other. To explore and enjoy sexual contact.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

Sounds like somebody’s patience is wearing thin. Chill. All good things come to those that wait. What’s the rush?

Ed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel sorry for the people that spend all day every day on these forums talking about nothing but nonsense while they should be getting outside and enjoying life while they still can.

But its thier life I guess. They can do what they want with it.

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By *usie pTV/TS
over a year ago

taunton

Bloody hell folks don't come on here with the expectation that they are going to meet someone for sex do they lol I thought it was all about taking the mickey and having some teasing fun. I find on here like in real life I am very prone to putting my foot right in it, lots do seem to take it far to seriously and also quite a few on here with some fairly serious mental health issues, deffo think they should not be on here .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly there is a minority of all genders who are abusive.

So seriously yes I take it serious.. Only get hurt if off guard n my life's precious..

Fun absolutely.. With the right folk

There has to be a balance

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By *unCpl1003Couple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I think it is serious tbh and should be treated as such doesn’t mean you can’t have fun.

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich

We take it seriously.

Our dirty talk and role play is very free all good fun.

But when it comes to the reality of living it out, we talk as a couple seriously and we take finding the right guy for us seriously.

We take it seriously in the hope when we find that guy we will be comfortable enough with him to let go and just have fun.

Maybe once we have done it a few times we will be more laid back but we are not taking any chances.

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

When the fun stops stop

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

Depends what you class as serious.

We use it to arrange meets, look at club and holiday information.

Forums for clubs and the section for arranging meets.

Found it invaluable for parties and holiday fun.

Not that interested in forums on politics and general discussions but each to his or her own.

Do check the verifications before meeting.

Looking forward to some form of normality returning in the not too distant future.

It's a fun site for people who seriously want to meet through to total timewasters, dickheads and dreamers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

op im here for swinging only im not really here for the adult facebook side of things im here to talk to guys with a view of meeting or should i say meeting when covid dies down or gets to a point where meets are ok ...but and its a big but i take seriously who im talking to as i only want to talk to those i want to meet i take seriously who i pick to meet ...

i get alot of guys say hey chill out its a sex site when i say no thanks or worse abuse because they think that us women (not all) just want cock and not who's attached to it ... i need a guy within my preference first then i want to know if he understands what i want then thirdly i want to make sure hes not a idiot or a creep so yes i agree its a site for swinging and sex but its not a free for all sex site so yes i take it seriously to a point ..

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I'm here for my own wants and needs, not other people's. It's up to the indivdual(s) how they run their profiles and not for the rest of us to judge them for doing so.

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By *f579Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"I'm here for my own wants and needs, not other people's. It's up to the indivdual(s) how they run their profiles and not for the rest of us to judge them for doing so. "

Well said

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley


"Agreed

67%

T"

What do you reckon audience higher or lower!? Ooo good game good game!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Agreed

67%

T

What do you reckon audience higher or lower!? Ooo good game good game! "

Oh, 50-50 on that one or can I phone a friend?!

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport

For myself personally over the course off years I have found the best way to use this site is in small doses instead off say every other day maybe once or twice a week..

Normally I used to communicate with others through forums or chatrooms or at swinger clubs instead off through messaging random people which I rarely ever did...

Came to a point at times I came across far more people I took a dislike to and ended up thinking to myself I would actually end up headbutting them in the face if I came across them for half the shite which was coming out off their mouths.....

And No before anyone says anything it wasn't from people who had "turned me down" or if I didn't meet a criteria for what they were looking that's just life I can deal with that. It was more people who just had a trait/characteristic or something they say which just pissed me off with what they came out with..

Sometimes you just end up taking a step back and re-evaluate things and think "wtf am I doing?" and think time to use it less and move on really either then being around people like that...

I suppose during lockdown this year i've become less and less interested in talking or flirting with anyone be it on here or real life as other things in life took priority/responsibility.

But I guess the human side off me every so often gets the better off me and I quietly lurk back again...

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By *bwlookingforfunWoman
over a year ago

crawley


"I honestly think at times ppl take this site too seriously, like to me it's a website to meet ppl for sex, plain and simple. Of course ppl will have their preferences in terms of ppl they want to have sex with, and their preferred sexual activities but sometimes while reading profiles I'm like, "damn you're kinda taking the fun out of a site like this"

Just saying, do have a lovely evening you guys, been back after a brief hiatus "

My profile is long, boring and annoying, but it's only way to find someone who I actually like.

I'm not gonna meet random with dirty dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try not take it to seriously but yes I’ve definitely embarrassed myself on a thread or 2 but I’ve learned to just brush that shit off ! You look worse wen you hit back !! And everyone can see that ! I’ve learned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's people that refer to this place as a sex site that have the problem. It's not.. Its a swinging site. Swing is a lifestyle choice. Its so much more than just sex. Those that beleive its "just a sex site" are failing to grasp the fundamentals of the swinging culture

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"It's people that refer to this place as a sex site that have the problem. It's not.. Its a swinging site. Swing is a lifestyle choice. Its so much more than just sex. Those that beleive its "just a sex site" are failing to grasp the fundamentals of the swinging culture "

I like This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op very good point, hence my name.

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