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By *aked Angel OP   Man
over a year ago

Hampshire / Surrey / Berkshire

I am loosing my hopes to attract the attention of ladies and couples by introducing myself as a creative and polite person, offering face pics dressed properly and promising decent conversations before the fun.

It seems there is only space for who offers thick and long cocks, fucks hard and appears as a savage.

If I wanted a one off hard fuck I just go to a club and wait for the right opportunity.

I think that being on here means the search for a different kind of approach, but maybe I am wrong or even my face pics are a turn off for the majority of people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have comments but I can't voice them unless you specifically ask for profile advice, else I'll be banished to the forum naught step

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By *aked Angel OP   Man
over a year ago

Hampshire / Surrey / Berkshire


"I have comments but I can't voice them unless you specifically ask for profile advice, else I'll be banished to the forum naught step "

Yes I always welcome advices otherwise I would not have posted this outburst!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Team Gentleman for the win.

I have zero hope of finding anyone, but this forum is canny and better then browsing fb/etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have comments but I can't voice them unless you specifically ask for profile advice, else I'll be banished to the forum naught step

Yes I always welcome advices otherwise I would not have posted this outburst!"

Unfortunately your age may play against you with a lot of people, there's no doubt many who it won't matter to but generally it's just the nature of the beast.

As for your profile:

- As a rule of thumb, pictures of you playing with other women aren't going to go down well with ladies who view your profile. It especially brings up concerns of consent for them.

- Many also don't want to see cock pictures. Some do of course but they seem to be a minority.

- The first few lines seem like you're just complaining and you could probably do away with then or at least rewrite them. Otherwise your text isn't too bad, if just say maybe organise it in to paragraphs so it flows a bit better.

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By *aked Angel OP   Man
over a year ago

Hampshire / Surrey / Berkshire


"I have comments but I can't voice them unless you specifically ask for profile advice, else I'll be banished to the forum naught step

Yes I always welcome advices otherwise I would not have posted this outburst!

Unfortunately your age may play against you with a lot of people, there's no doubt many who it won't matter to but generally it's just the nature of the beast.

As for your profile:

- As a rule of thumb, pictures of you playing with other women aren't going to go down well with ladies who view your profile. It especially brings up concerns of consent for them.

- Many also don't want to see cock pictures. Some do of course but they seem to be a minority.

- The first few lines seem like you're just complaining and you could probably do away with then or at least rewrite them. Otherwise your text isn't too bad, if just say maybe organise it in to paragraphs so it flows a bit better."

Many thanks will look into it!

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"I have comments but I can't voice them unless you specifically ask for profile advice, else I'll be banished to the forum naught step

Yes I always welcome advices otherwise I would not have posted this outburst!

Unfortunately your age may play against you with a lot of people, there's no doubt many who it won't matter to but generally it's just the nature of the beast.

As for your profile:

- As a rule of thumb, pictures of you playing with other women aren't going to go down well with ladies who view your profile. It especially brings up concerns of consent for them.

- Many also don't want to see cock pictures. Some do of course but they seem to be a minority.

- The first few lines seem like you're just complaining and you could probably do away with then or at least rewrite them. Otherwise your text isn't too bad, if just say maybe organise it in to paragraphs so it flows a bit better."

All of this the first two points mean I wouldn’t reply to your message as it is the total opposite of classy in my opinion. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You may also want to use your own pics, not those plastered all over the interweb

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"You may also want to use your own pics, not those plastered all over the interweb"

Ooohhh controversial ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am loosing my hopes to attract the attention of ladies and couples by introducing myself as a creative and polite person, offering face pics dressed properly and promising decent conversations before the fun.

It seems there is only space for who offers thick and long cocks, fucks hard and appears as a savage.

If I wanted a one off hard fuck I just go to a club and wait for the right opportunity.

I think that being on here means the search for a different kind of approach, but maybe I am wrong or even my face pics are a turn off for the majority of people.

"

Pics of a cock dripping with cum doesn't exactly whoose class. To be honest op we wouldn't even read your profile after looking at the pics ( just advise)

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By *aked Angel OP   Man
over a year ago

Hampshire / Surrey / Berkshire

Thanks, I am taking on board your advices.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Maybe don't mention farts in your profile ?

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By *aked Angel OP   Man
over a year ago

Hampshire / Surrey / Berkshire


"Maybe don't mention farts in your profile ?"

Thanks yeah, just an Italian joke and thought it would undramatise a little.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Unfortunately your age may play against you with a lot of people, there's no doubt many who it won't matter to but generally it's just the nature of the beast.

"

hes only 50 ?? thats the perfect age for alot of singles n couples ... i like a variety my upper limit is 65 lower limit 24 but thats not set in stone there are some really hot guys on here 50++ and reliable

from a swinging point of view guys calling themselves gentlemen would put me off same as guys calling themselves studs ... it much better just to be a nice guy and let others find out who you are ..thats my take anyway ...x

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington


"You may also want to use your own pics, not those plastered all over the interweb"
tineye? always catches them out

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By *ugga MannMan
over a year ago

Heathrow


"

Unfortunately your age may play against you with a lot of people, there's no doubt many who it won't matter to but generally it's just the nature of the beast.

hes only 50 ?? thats the perfect age for alot of singles n couples ... i like a variety my upper limit is 65 lower limit 24 but thats not set in stone there are some really hot guys on here 50++ and reliable

morning

from a swinging point of view guys calling themselves gentlemen would put me off same as guys calling themselves studs ... it much better just to be a nice guy and let others find out who you are ..thats my take anyway ...x "

Good to hear there is some hope for us over 50 nice guys!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs are the best, especially for single guys. Hardly anyone is meeting at the moment anyway on here, so just go to the clubs when they open back up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You may also want to use your own pics, not those plastered all over the interweb"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am loosing my hopes to attract the attention of ladies and couples by introducing myself as a creative and polite person, offering face pics dressed properly and promising decent conversations before the fun.

It seems there is only space for who offers thick and long cocks, fucks hard and appears as a savage.

If I wanted a one off hard fuck I just go to a club and wait for the right opportunity.

I think that being on here means the search for a different kind of approach, but maybe I am wrong or even my face pics are a turn off for the majority of people.

"

"If I wanted a one off hard fuck I'd just go to a club"

Interesting

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

There's always room for classy guys with manners as a door opener with some fab ladies but that on it's own doesn't mean you'll get laid.

You've still got to have that something that gives them fanny flutters

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By *ocusMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


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hes only 50 ?? thats the perfect age for alot of singles n couples "

I like you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting topic and some interesting answers.

I'm old and a gentleman and I seem to do ok.

Maybe you should look on a dating site as this is a sex site and alot of women are here for what they want not what we want.

Fab is were men drool and women rule

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

OP... apart from anything else, I am not sure the middle of a worldwide pandemic is the best time to be even considering making new sexual friendships.

I would hang around the forums and chat rooms and try again when meeting is realistically back on the cards.

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