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Do you get annoyed being so attractive ever?

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By *ntrepid Explorers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

OK OK... intended to be a SERIOUS question, but ... yeah... good luck to that. Anyway...

SOME people here are bloody stunning. And of course that's bloody good for them in theory. But there must be times when you just get fed up of the attention, the looks, the extra 500 shitty messages clogging up your hope of finding someone on your level.

Just asking as I saw a Daily Mash article just now called "Dating 'fun' if you're a 10 and incredible in every way" but whilst I'm sure there are huge positives, it's got to suck at times too, right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldnt say I was attractive but you sift through the good an down right bad messages being a single female on fab you get inundated with messages no matter what you look like half dont even look at your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a struggle walking in public when everyone drops to their knees to pray at your feet

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire

Yeah I'm fed up of it myself, two messages a month is ridiculous and I'm struggling to cope. Tired of being smiled at while out and about and the damn Mrs won't leave me alone !... On the other hand OP, most stunning girls I've met knew they were gorgeous and their characters were not so nice as a result. Then there have been the odd ones I have met that were so incredibly nice on the inside too !... some angels do exist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not one of the most attractive girls on here and still get 100-200 messages a day, at least 80% of which are crap. Yes it is annoying and hard work sometimes. The other girls that are really hot must get 500+ per day like you say depending on their filters. After a few days that must be unmanageable! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it really does my head in,

Maybe I should unleash my boobs ,take the forcus of my stunning face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really is more of a burden than a blessing.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

We don’t have any facepics on Fab. Not because we’re worried about privacy, but because Admin keeps rejecting them - apparently it wouldn’t be fair on everyone else!

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"Wouldnt say I was attractive but you sift through the good an down right bad messages being a single female on fab you get inundated with messages no matter what you look like half dont even look at your profile "

This.... ive missed some really lovely messages due to the to faf dripping nonsense. Nothing to do with how I look just what genitalia I have.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't count myself as suffering from being too attractive but I know people who have done. It's a double edged sword.

A really attractive woman often misses out on dates etc simply because men won't approach her feeling she's "out of their league". They often don't get taken seriously because people truly believe that looks and ability are not compatible. Also as is often evidenced in the forum a lot of people believe that beautiful people have ugly personalities.

Being extremely attractive works in your favour sometimes. A friend of mine, tall, slim and blonde broke down in very heavy traffic once. Literally all she had to do was get out of the car and 10 guys came to help her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A really attractive woman often misses out on dates etc simply because men won't approach her feeling she's "out of their league"."

I think this must be the reason for my lack of success.

Yes. Must be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a bit of a pain sometimes, but I've managed to live with it.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Do people that are really attractive think of themselves as being attractive? If they did they would be conceited and that would probably make them relatively unattractive.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Do people that are really attractive think of themselves as being attractive? If they did they would be conceited and that would probably make them relatively unattractive."

That doesn’t make sense. Conceited doesn’t mean self-aware, and presumably most conventionally attractive people are aware if they are conventionally attractive or not.

On the other hand, if they were excessively proud of the fact, or thought their looks meant they were better than other people because of it, then they would be conceited - which is an ugly personality trait to have, objectively.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the attention

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"A really attractive woman often misses out on dates etc simply because men won't approach her feeling she's "out of their league".

I think this must be the reason for my lack of success.

Yes. Must be."

Well it's most certainly my problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate being so good looking ....hang on I hardly get any messages.....does that mean I'm a ulgy fucker ? LOL

OP you do the splits well !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not one of the most attractive girls on here and still get 100-200 messages a day, at least 80% of which are crap. Yes it is annoying and hard work sometimes. The other girls that are really hot must get 500+ per day like you say depending on their filters. After a few days that must be unmanageable! Xx"

200 messages a day ?!?? How do u even find the effort to open a quarter of them. Would drive me crackers

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"A really attractive woman often misses out on dates etc simply because men won't approach her feeling she's "out of their league".

I think this must be the reason for my lack of success.

Yes. Must be."

Surely the problem is the guy thinking she is out of his league, by definition she because he has no confidence and is scared of rejection. It’s not the woman’s fault for being pretty, her looks don’t determine if she likes you or not , your personality does though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A really attractive woman often misses out on dates etc simply because men won't approach her feeling she's "out of their league".

I think this must be the reason for my lack of success.

Yes. Must be.

Surely the problem is the guy thinking she is out of his league, by definition she because he has no confidence and is scared of rejection. It’s not the woman’s fault for being pretty, her looks don’t determine if she likes you or not , your personality does though "

(I meant I'm the pretty one )

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