FabSwingers.com forum: Can’t hold a convo

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it normal on this site, that most can’t hold a simple conversation and want to get sexual straight away?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Is it normal on this site, that most can’t hold a simple conversation and want to get sexual straight away? "

No. I like a good old natter before i get naked with someone.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it normal on this site, that most can’t hold a simple conversation and want to get sexual straight away?

No. I like a good old natter before i get naked with someone.x"

Me too

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By *ourPlay2020Couple
over a year ago

Evesham

One liners, crude messages, from profiles with very little effort put into them, cut little ice with us.

By far our best experiences through this site have been with those that can hold a decent conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's easy to hold a conversation. I think loads of people on here are just too easily distrac..

Squirrel!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Tbh I haven’t had problems with couples and older women. But I feel like the younger girls are a bit arrogant or just weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ngl I struggle to keep the conversation going, it's not that I'm trying to skip to the sexual stuff, it's just that I'm doing all the talking!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Tbh I haven’t had problems with couples and older women. But I feel like the younger girls are a bit arrogant or just weird."

It's a shame you feel like that I'm pretty sure that not all younger women are like that. Maybe you've met the wrong ones.

I think it can be difficult to keep a conversation going if there's not much common ground between people or someone's a bit shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi.... Hello.... You OK?.... Yes thanks.... What you up to?.... Just finished making supper. A bit off TV then netflix in bed.... ...... .......

So many of our conversations start and end like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes people will talk about the weather or the weekend, other times they'll talk about riding my face like Seabiscuit. I'm happy with either

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

"Hi.... Hello.... You OK?.... Yes thanks.... What you up to?.... Just finished making supper. A bit off TV then netflix in bed.... ...... .......

So many of our conversations start and end like this "

Yep just sending a Hi isn't really going to kick off a sparkling conversation.

You get what you give

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s really common and it’s one of my biggest bug bears. I hate it when I get a first message (of the copy and pasted variety) off somebody describing a sexual scenario, there’s been no conversation, no sussing each other out so how do you know I’m going to find any of what you’ve described a turn on?

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

If anything I natter to much, I love a good chat with a bit of banter and giggles thrown in.

What's sex without that side of things ?

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By *entlecaressMan
over a year ago

Wakefield/ Beverley

I suppose each to their own but I prefer the social as well as the sexual aspects of meets its more exciting to connect on all levels, never been a fan of wham bam meets.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Many do seem to try, I stop chatting when they do and if they send a really graphic message early on, it's deleted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If anything I natter to much, I love a good chat with a bit of banter and giggles thrown in.

What's sex without that side of things ?

I agree

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think you should go to far in depth of your lives but a little bit of effort is needed. Make eachouther laugh and your half way there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there’s quite a few who like to chat...I suppose it also depends on what it is some people want. Not everyone’s that way inclined. For me chat first if I don’t like how someone is verbally or there no connection sure as hell isnt going anywhere physically

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

"Hi.... Hello.... You OK?.... Yes thanks.... What you up to?.... Just finished making supper. A bit off TV then netflix in bed.... ...... .......

So many of our conversations start and end like this "
same bored of them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve found older males are particularly bad at this

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