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By *latterscotton OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester/london

How many people have found that when chatting to a couple the other couple only wants the female half. It's happened to us alot and wanted to see if it's just us

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By *ackal1Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"How many people have found that when chatting to a couple the other couple only wants the female half. It's happened to us alot and wanted to see if it's just us "

Can we speak to your wife about this??

Seriously we find the couples thing hard to sort so are less enthusiastic. Nothing wrong with anyone we’ve met it’s just hard to get four people to click.

Maybe some guys in those couples are put off by your male half being bisexual?

Some guys are really antsy about that.

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Try making a counter suggestion that the other lady joins you and your partner on her own first.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Only once, and that couple is now a single Male playing. That tells us who ran the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How is your mrs today? well yeah of course the females are the selling point of the couples and cause the most attraction, that’s just some couples thou. Some are equal but the attraction has to be there all round and I’m sure there isn’t many at all who would take one for the team as such, but some couples don’t mind the female half playing with other couples it’s just about being respectful of all involved and doing things the right way x

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

We get this alot, you can usually tell from message 1 that it's only the female part they are interested in

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I’ve fairly recently started a couple profile with my FWB and it definitely happens. I mostly run it and it’s usually me answering messages, but I’ve had people I’m talking to there then start messaging me on this profile as if they think they can get me on my own that way. I’ve had a guy I was messaging on that profile start asking me “so if I meet you will the first meet just be with you?” It’s very annoying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it does happen, but I am always open to offers and sometimes if hubby agrees then why not xxxx

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

It states on our bio that we are only looking for a single girl or the girl of a couple. We even say that we have no interest whatsoever in another guy but we still get messages asking if we full swap or if I (Mrs) would be interested in joining them, which can get rather annoying we could use the filters to block couples but we do enjoy chatting with them in the forums so we tend to politely tell them to read our bio again when they start down that road. We will NEVER message a couple asking if the Mrs would be interested joining us unless it states they play separately

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

We always make sure any couples wanting to meet are aware that how we play means the Mrs isn't going to swap (her choice).

We may play fully with the female half of a couple if its agreed, but would always make sure the male half gets something out of it, usually CBT or some other BDSM play.

To this end we would never approach a couple and only want to play with one or the other, its just a waste of a play thing.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

The give away is normally when a couple is looking for women OR couples as stated in their profile.

Ed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have a few times plus writing to a couple profile and they say would you fuck the male half first

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

We get it alot. And have been at a meet, and they said I female can play with her and her man. But my fella could not play with her. We got up and left. We came as a couple, we play as a couple.

It's just a sneeky way of getting a unicorn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have found in the past that if you cant play as a couple, then your just not trusted. Its my wife that wants a lady to play with and thats fine with me. We both want to be involved but im a voyeur so sitting back and enjoying the show is a turn on. However, some people dont want to be preformers and quite rightly so. With us, we want all to be comfy and are willing to tend toeveryones needs. Its a matter of communication beforehand. If all cant or wont agree on the parameters, then its not to be, cancel politely and move on.

S

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"It states on our bio that we are only looking for a single girl or the girl of a couple. We even say that we have no interest whatsoever in another guy but we still get messages asking if we full swap or if I (Mrs) would be interested in joining them, which can get rather annoying we could use the filters to block couples but we do enjoy chatting with them in the forums so we tend to politely tell them to read our bio again when they start down that road. We will NEVER message a couple asking if the Mrs would be interested joining us unless it states they play separately "

Yes, this is the same as us, and we get couples contacting us all the time. We’ve met couples socially and have veris from them though, which may be the reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my travels I have noticed that when some couples wants just the female half of a couple or even a single lady, they are quite willing and find it more acceptable to look the other way if that lady is married?

Also when I was with my ex on here we had the same issues, we found the male half of those couples would harbour a inferiority complex and just full of toxic masculinity. This is just my view.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See I like meeting women as a single trans woman. Now it’s rarer than rocking horse shit to find many actual single women in fab to start with , let alone one into trans women .

So to help this I have couples filter open for messaging as some women I guess in couples play on their own like the guys seem able to .

What I find 99% of the time is a woman half messages about meeting her and within 3 messages it’s all about the boyfriend / hubby / Fwb lol

This also applies most of the time with single female profiles as well I find . When I call them out on it for saying why not use a couples profile they get bent out of shape fast

Good times

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