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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was chatting with a couple this morning, or rather the female half of the couple.

Things were going well, pics were sent, all was good...

Then, pics removed, messages deleted, followed with a “thanks pal, but we’re not interested”.

Fab’s a weird place sometimes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like she showed to the other half and he wasn’t into it so they decided not to continue.

Pretty reasonable really. At least told you plenty just full on ghost.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I don't think that was weird at all. Sounds perfectly reasonable behviour to me. H

Also, in my opinion, it seems more likely for a man to say "thanks pal" than a woman.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

As a couple, we both had to be happy who we potentially would play with, maybe the guy just wasn't happy with it

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Was chatting with a couple this morning, or rather the female half of the couple.

Things were going well, pics were sent, all was good...

Then, pics removed, messages deleted, followed with a “thanks pal, but we’re not interested”.

Fab’s a weird place sometimes! "

Why is it weird?

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Maybe he didn't know she was talking to you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Was chatting with a couple this morning, or rather the female half of the couple.

Things were going well, pics were sent, all was good...

Then, pics removed, messages deleted, followed with a “thanks pal, but we’re not interested”.

Fab’s a weird place sometimes!

Why is it weird?"

Was weird that all was well, then a couple of minutes from her last message, it was thanks very much, see ya.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a couple, we both had to be happy who we potentially would play with, maybe the guy just wasn't happy with it "

Pretty much this I reckon.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think that was weird at all. Sounds perfectly reasonable behviour to me. H

Also, in my opinion, it seems more likely for a man to say "thanks pal" than a woman. "

The previous messages were from her, then obviously he wasn’t happy, hence the “thanks pal” message, and delete.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I don't think that was weird at all. Sounds perfectly reasonable behviour to me. H

Also, in my opinion, it seems more likely for a man to say "thanks pal" than a woman.

The previous messages were from her, then obviously he wasn’t happy, hence the “thanks pal” message, and delete."

Definitely sounds like the guy responding.

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

I say it a lot on here ..

Stay away from couples..

If they want guy’s they’ll find you ..

You don’t know their dynamic or situation..

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I say it a lot on here ..

Stay away from couples..

If they want guy’s they’ll find you ..

You don’t know their dynamic or situation.."

That's very true.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think that was weird at all. Sounds perfectly reasonable behviour to me. H

Also, in my opinion, it seems more likely for a man to say "thanks pal" than a woman.

The previous messages were from her, then obviously he wasn’t happy, hence the “thanks pal” message, and delete.

Definitely sounds like the guy responding."

He definitely sent the last message!

She was messaging previously though, with pics.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


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She was messaging previously though, with pics.

"

Were they live pics of things you were asking her to do, or pics the male could have already had of her on his phone ?

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"I say it a lot on here ..

Stay away from couples..

If they want guy’s they’ll find you ..

You don’t know their dynamic or situation.."

Granted I've never met a couple (yet) and wouldn't say no to one, that's why I don't actively look for them, or have couples ticked in my preferences

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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She was messaging previously though, with pics.

Were they live pics of things you were asking her to do, or pics the male could have already had of her on his phone ?"

I know what you’re saying, but it is a verified profile, so no reason to think it was the guy-but I guess it could’ve been...

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I don't think that was weird at all. Sounds perfectly reasonable behviour to me. H

Also, in my opinion, it seems more likely for a man to say "thanks pal" than a woman.

The previous messages were from her, then obviously he wasn’t happy, hence the “thanks pal” message, and delete.

Definitely sounds like the guy responding."

I meant the 'no thanks' message

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think that was weird at all. Sounds perfectly reasonable behviour to me. H

Also, in my opinion, it seems more likely for a man to say "thanks pal" than a woman.

The previous messages were from her, then obviously he wasn’t happy, hence the “thanks pal” message, and delete.

Definitely sounds like the guy responding.

I meant the 'no thanks' message "

I thought so, but wanted to clarify

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's wierd at all - it's pretty normal.

Could be they saw something they didn't like

Guy didn't like you

Maybe they have a better offer

Maybe you said something they didn't like

Etc etc

Alot of guys get hung up that if they chat, it's definitely going to lead to something.... unfortunately the reality is it's just chat, nothing more

Yeah it can be annoying,just the way the cookie crumbles

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I don't think that was weird at all. Sounds perfectly reasonable behviour to me. H

Also, in my opinion, it seems more likely for a man to say "thanks pal" than a woman.

The previous messages were from her, then obviously he wasn’t happy, hence the “thanks pal” message, and delete.

Definitely sounds like the guy responding.

I meant the 'no thanks' message

I thought so, but wanted to clarify "

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By *lldaybreakfastMan
over a year ago

leeds

Happens a lot on here.i understand everyone has the right to change their mind but they don't have to be so rude about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do not always believe them when they say who is online, very often its him pretending to be her especially if they suggest meeting alone

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey


"I say it a lot on here ..

Stay away from couples..

If they want guy’s they’ll find you ..

You don’t know their dynamic or situation.."

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

At least they were upfront op and didn't just block or go quiet.

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray


"Was chatting with a couple this morning, or rather the female half of the couple.

Things were going well, pics were sent, all was good...

Then, pics removed, messages deleted, followed with a “thanks pal, but we’re not interested”.

Fab’s a weird place sometimes! "

Not weird, we were chatting to a guy part of a couple last week, we were getting on like a house on fire..his wife came home from work so he showed us to her, and then a msg saying thankyou kindly but my wife wasn't happy...can't expect folk to keep talking if they are not intrested, as harsh as that sound it's the reality of fab, we never ever play with someone that the other half doesn't like. Don't look to much into it though.

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By *kblokenorthMan
over a year ago

Any


"I say it a lot on here ..

Stay away from couples..

If they want guy’s they’ll find you ..

You don’t know their dynamic or situation.."

My best mmf meets have been the ones where the couple made the first approach......

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By *ountry Boy FreshMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

People make regular assessments as conversations go in on here as in life and change their viewpoint. More than likley something was said they didn't like and they changed their mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will normally find if one says no it’s no husband may have been at work or out then read messages and said no there is no point pursuing it at least they didn’t block you

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